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SuicideFuel The time my mom told me at 30 I wasn’t good enough for an arranged marriage

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Picture this: I was 30 and 12 years into the marines. I was still a sexless Indian incel and just came back from my deployment in Germany. I asked my mom if she could get me an arranged marriage and this was her exact words, “No girl would want to marry you. You’re not good enough.”
 
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Mothers are the number one cause of inceldom
 
Fucking brutal. At least she is honest and not shoving bluepills down your throat.
 
The best for a solider is betabux for greencard whore
 
Fucking brutal. At least she is honest and not shoving bluepills down your throat.
bro how is an 12 year old marine not good enough for an arranged marriage!!!
thats the whole point of one
 
bro how is an 12 year old marine not good enough for an arranged marriage!!!
thats the whole point of one
Sadly no amount of military service changes the fact that Indians are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to dating. Being in the military is one of the biggest ways to become an incel. You spend most of your time with other men and are never around women. A lot of my friends who were married were cheated on.
 
Brutal, consider facial surgeries if possbile. Did you gained some high ranked networking while being in the marines
 
bro how is an 12 year old marine not good enough for an arranged marriage!!!
thats the whole point of one
Man all I know is that betabuxing is a bad idea 9 times out of 10. For a relationship to work, both people must be physically attracted to each other. Trying to use money or status to make up for looks will get you in a dead bedroom situation. Better to stay incel than end up a betabux cuck. That is my honest opinion and I stand by it.
 
Man all I know is that betabuxing is a bad idea 9 times out of 10. For a relationship to work, both people must be physically attracted to each other. Trying to use money or status to make up for looks will get you in a dead bedroom situation. Better to stay incel than end up a betabux cuck. That is my honest opinion and I stand by it.
No, he should consider hardmaxxes and see then what’s next.
 
Brutal, consider facial surgeries if possbile. Did you gained some high ranked networking while being in the marines
I made a lot of good friends. We don’t talk much due to them being busy with their wives and kids. The biggest benefit of doing 20 years is that you get pension and VA benefits. With my current job I’m making over six figures.
 
Sadly no amount of military service changes the fact that Indians are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to dating. Being in the military is one of the biggest ways to become an incel. You spend most of your time with other men and are never around women. A lot of my friends who were married were cheated on.
what about if you try to find a wife in india?
 
I made a lot of good friends. We don’t talk much due to them being busy with their wives and kids. The biggest benefit of doing 20 years is that you get pension and VA benefits. With my current job I’m making over six figures.
Damn, salute to you bro. That’s a good way to start icl. So happy for you :feelsaww::feelsaww::feelsaww::feelsaww:

What do I possibly gain as a beginner when I start in the military :feelssus:
 
Man all I know is that betabuxing is a bad idea 9 times out of 10. For a relationship to work, both people must be physically attracted to each other. Trying to use money or status to make up for looks will get you in a dead bedroom situation. Better to stay incel than end up a betabux cuck. That is my honest opinion and I stand by it.
true ig
 
Damn, salute to you bro. That’s a good way to start icl. So happy for you :feelsaww::feelsaww::feelsaww::feelsaww:

What do I possibly gain as a beginner when I start in the military :feelssus:
Well, the biggest benefit when first starting is that you gain discipline. When I first joined I weighed 230 pounds and couldn’t do a single push up. After basic training I weighed 190 pounds and could do 50 pushups. I can’t overstate how much confidence you get after finishing basic training. You feel like you could beat anybody’s ass. You also learn how to be masculine. I was a shy pussy with a stutter who would look at the floor when talking to people. After BT I was ready to kill anybody who tried to mess with me.
 
what about if you try to find a wife in india?
I’m 47, at my age I’ve given up. I enjoy my life. I have brothers and good friends. I mostly just collect comic books now and hunt.
 
I’m 47, at my age I’ve given up. I enjoy my life. I have brothers and good friends. I mostly just collect comic books now and hunt.
thats respectable
 
Well, the biggest benefit when first starting is that you gain discipline. When I first joined I weighed 230 pounds and couldn’t do a single push up. After basic training I weighed 190 pounds and could do 50 pushups. I can’t overstate how much confidence you get after finishing basic training. You feel like you could beat anybody’s ass. You also learn how to be masculine. I was a shy pussy with a stutter who would look at the floor when talking to people. After BT I was ready to kill anybody who tried to mess with me.
Appreciate the effort in your response. If you don’t mind, since you earn six figures, do you have any investments??
 
Appreciate the effort in your response. If you don’t mind, since you earn six figures, do you have any investments??
I only have a Roth IRA. I didn’t think to invest when I was younger but I wish I did. Since you’re young I would research what to invest. Since I did the full 20 years I have a comfortable retirement. I read that you are thinking of joining the military. Remember you will not be making a lot of money early on. One of the biggest nightmares is finishing your 4 year service and having no money after. Start investing in a Roth IRA as soon as possible.
 
I only have a Roth IRA. I didn’t think to invest when I was younger but I wish I did. Since you’re young I would research what to invest. Since I did the full 20 years I have a comfortable retirement.
Appreciate the advice :feelsYall:
I read that you are thinking of joining the military. Remember you will not be making a lot of money early on. One of the biggest nightmares is finishing your 4 year service and having no money after. Start investing in a Roth IRA as soon as possible.
Ye, it’s mandatory in my country to choose either military or community service for a certain time, when you have the citizenship for the country. I thought of choosing the military, since it can provide more possibilities future wise
 
Appreciate the advice :feelsYall:

Ye, it’s mandatory in my country to choose either military or community service for a certain time, when you have the citizenship for the country. I thought of choosing the military, since it can provide more possibilities future wise
Oh, do you live in Asia? With those options definitely choose the military.
 
Risked your life for however many years and that's how society and your own mom repays you :feelsrope:
 
Do u resent ur mom for not even trying to help? Dismissing your concerns for partnership or intimacy sounds cold as fuck
 
Do u resent ur mom for not even trying to help? Dismissing your concerns for partnership or intimacy sounds cold as fuck
She has since passed away but I did resent her for a while. That’s how a lot of ethnic parents are. They’re cold and shun emotion. My dad was a lot cooler though and understood what I was going through.
 

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