
universallyabhorred
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The suffering of an autistic male extends far beyond that of an NT male, even one who is ugly or disfigured. First off, almost all autistic men are incel. So few of them will ever get to kiss a woman or lose their virginity and generally the ones that do, pay for it with cash. Male model tier guys are the only exception.
The biggest issue however results from being forced to conform to NT social conventions and play act, while at the same time being bullied, ostracized, disliked or mistreated, because NT's can still feel you are different. There's absolutely no compatibility between an autistic individual and a NT one, all interactions are painful and meaningless for both parties.
But the superficial NT's form the majority of the world, so the autistic is at their mercy and is forced to constantly accommodate them while receiving nothing but scorn and hatred in return. Even if the autistic bonds with the NT, he will only be shunned, abused or betrayed by them.
On top of that, the autistic individual is unlikely to find similar people, even among other autistics who are either too low functioning to communicate with, have obscure interests that are not shared or unlikeable personality traits. While this is true among all groups, the autistic's only chance of ever having genuine friendship or human connection is by interacting with other autistics, because of our unique neurology.
Unlike the similarities existing between NT's, autistics are all extremely different from each other, therefore interacting with most of them can be just as disconnecting as interacting with NT's. The likelihood of finding an autistic individual similar to one-self to be friends with is near zero, the same applies to finding an autistic women to date.
This ensures the vast majority of autistics will never experience social/romantic success or happiness. As such our lives will be full of loneliness and misery. Someone please end us.
The biggest issue however results from being forced to conform to NT social conventions and play act, while at the same time being bullied, ostracized, disliked or mistreated, because NT's can still feel you are different. There's absolutely no compatibility between an autistic individual and a NT one, all interactions are painful and meaningless for both parties.
But the superficial NT's form the majority of the world, so the autistic is at their mercy and is forced to constantly accommodate them while receiving nothing but scorn and hatred in return. Even if the autistic bonds with the NT, he will only be shunned, abused or betrayed by them.
On top of that, the autistic individual is unlikely to find similar people, even among other autistics who are either too low functioning to communicate with, have obscure interests that are not shared or unlikeable personality traits. While this is true among all groups, the autistic's only chance of ever having genuine friendship or human connection is by interacting with other autistics, because of our unique neurology.
Unlike the similarities existing between NT's, autistics are all extremely different from each other, therefore interacting with most of them can be just as disconnecting as interacting with NT's. The likelihood of finding an autistic individual similar to one-self to be friends with is near zero, the same applies to finding an autistic women to date.
This ensures the vast majority of autistics will never experience social/romantic success or happiness. As such our lives will be full of loneliness and misery. Someone please end us.
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