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The reason more men are going NEET IN SOCIETY

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THE MAIN POSITIVE TO A JOB, MONEY, CANT BUY YOU A SOCIAL LIFE, CANT ACQUIRE THE SOCIAL CAPITAL YOU NEED TO LIVE A FULL LIFE, EG FRIENDS AND WOMEN, THEREFORE ITS UTTERLY WORTHLESS OTHER THAN TO SUPPORT YOU TO EXIST, THATS IT.
I mean, money can help towards a lot of that. I think the other major issue is falling living standards as salaries are low relative to inflation.
 
Remember all of these moves the coaching the playing the leader role IS PURE POWER PLAY PASSIVE AGGRESSION, PUNCHING DOWN ON YOU BECAUSE YOUR OF A LOWER STATUS IN THE JOB.

I would stay and play dumb but give zero effort, and spend all your time working on getting another job

All I have managed to work out is the only answer for an incel is part time as full time jobs JUST BECOME WHAT YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED A HUGE SHIT SHOW PISSING POWER CONTEST WHERE THE SUPERIORS SHIT ON THE LOWEST VALUE PEOPLE, WHICH BY THE WAY IS ALWAYS LOW VALUE MEN.

DO AS FEW HOURS TO SURVIVE AS POSSIBLE WHILE JUST GAINING MORE AND MORE QUALIFICATIONS, THEN TRY AND GO SELF EMPLOYED IN YOUR AREA, THIS IS MY PLAY AS I AM TRAINING TO BE AN ACCOUNTANT.

SELF EMPLOYED MEANS THERE IS NO ONE TO PISS ON YOU, YOU WILL EARN LESS BUT ITS WAY WAY BETTER THAN A TOXIC WORKING ENVIRONMENT EVERY DAY
based :feelsYall: normies are pure cancer to deal with and then there's the fact that 60% of your income will go to financing your looksmatch's bastard spawn with chad :feelskek:
Literally retards power tripping over their wage slave roles.
 
Work doesn't gurantee stablility this days, both in dating, in terms of status and most importent finnacially.

The j00s did a good job at subverting the world.
 
I mean, money can help towards a lot of that. I think the other major issue is falling living standards as salaries are low relative to inflation.
Based. Getting a house Is committing to the pain of wage slaving for your entire life and there's still no guarantee even then. Previous generations maybe had to commit for like 10 years? The game is rigged.
 
Based. Getting a house Is committing to the pain of wage slaving for your entire life and there's still no guarantee even then. Previous generations maybe had to commit for like 10 years? The game is rigged.
Yeah the west is getting to be a really bad place to be for a man ATM. Lots of "eastern" countries are catching up (or rather the west is meeting them in the middle) in living standards while those same eastern countries have a much better situation w.r.t. feminism and culture. For example, average Mexican is making close to 20k/year these days, especially for skilled professionals in the bigger cities 30-50k is pretty standard. When you factor in the better hypergamy situation, better weather, and much lower cost of living, it's getting to the point where parts of LATAM are starting to win. Obvs there's still shitholes like Honduras, but parts are now more than competitive.
 
Yeah the west is getting to be a really bad place to be for a man ATM. Lots of "eastern" countries are catching up (or rather the west is meeting them in the middle) in living standards while those same eastern countries have a much better situation w.r.t. feminism and culture. For example, average Mexican is making close to 20k/year these days, especially for skilled professionals in the bigger cities 30-50k is pretty standard. When you factor in the better hypergamy situation, better weather, and much lower cost of living, it's getting to the point where parts of LATAM are starting to win. Obvs there's still shitholes like Honduras, but parts are now more than competitive.
Idk I've watched too much live leak to trust living in Mexico.

Maybe I'm a racist pig though.
 
true. but goodluck getting any semblance of social interaction being neet. i dont think discord counts. I would play multiplayer games on discord during that time, and i dont think your brain really registers that as really anything
Facts.
I think part of the joy of socialising is having people look at you and see some value in you whilst taking into account your looks.

Like you're acknowledged as human in full.

Online socialisation is all fantasy because even if you really get along mentally when the reality of the ROI in terms of being irl friends kicks in (for example you're deformed and no wants to look at you) that person will not gaf about your personality unless you offer something else
 
Facts.
I think part of the joy of socialising is having people look at you and see some value in you whilst taking into account your looks.

Like you're acknowledged as human in full.

Online socialisation is all fantasy because even if you really get along mentally when the reality of the ROI in terms of being irl friends kicks in (for example you're deformed and no wants to look at you) that person will not gaf about your personality unless you offer something else
Yes this is high iq

This element of interacting in real life, having value to others, because you are being valued for your in real life physical form and your mind, its the combination of being valued for who you are physically and mentally and people non verbally accepting you, looking at you, smiling at you, touching you, a slap on the back, a friendly punch.

ALL OF THIS IS COMPLETELY MISSING ONLINE, THIS IS WHY I ALWAYS THOUGHT ONLINE FRIENDS ARE A JOKE AND AI CANT SIMULATE REAL LIFE INTERACTIONS, IT MISSES A LOAD OF THE GAME, IT CANT SIMULATE THE TOTALITY OF HUMAN INTERACTION.

is this what you think as well
 
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Yes this is high iq

This element of interacting in real life, having value to others, because you are being valued for your in real life physical form and your mind, its the combination of being valued for who you are physically and mentally and people non verbally accepting you, looking at you, smiling at you, touching you, a slap on the back, a friendly punch.

ALL OF THIS IS COMPLETELY MISSING ONLINE, THIS IS WHY I ALWAYS THOUGHT ONLINE FRIENDS ARE A JOKE AND AI CANT SIMULATE REAL LIFE INTERACTIONS, IT MISSES A LOAD OF THE GAME, IT CANT SIMULATE THE TOTALITY OF HUMAN INTERACTION.

is this what you think as well
It can plant the seed for further interaction if there's mutual gain but to consider that being "friends" is iffy

Like the good thing about online interaction is you're valued for your ideas which is great.

The good thing about in person interactions (if you're a normie or above) is that people validate your physical existence and it feeds our self esteem as we feel accepted and less in danger

The ideal life is where you're attractive and interesting and you get the best of both worlds.

People who see you assume you're dumb. SURPRISE MOTHERFUCKER.
People who talk to you think you're a studycell
SURPRISE MOTHERFUCKER.

There's a level of networking/friendship building you can do online but at the end of the day we wanna look someone in the eyes and see a lack of judgement. We wanna be understood in full.

Every inflection of the voice, every muscle twitch of the face, our breathing, our body language, it all communicates you and who you are and when someone in person witnesses that and positively respond that is the ultimate form of connection which is food to the soul.

Forums like this are great for mentally jacking off and venting but the legit level of connection shallow in comparison.

Better than nothing tho.
Love you xxoo >.<
 
I agree online is completely shallow and has no depth or meaning it is only mental masturbation and everything can be faked, as the only way to see if someone is genuine is their non verbal cues, this is why online is such a poor substitute and you still feel depressed and lonely online
 
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I agree online is completely shallow and has no depth or meaning it is only mental masturbation and everything can be faked, as the only way to see if someone is genuine is their non verbal cues, this is why online is such a poor substitute and you still feel depressed and lonely online
 
if you can support yourself as a neet then do it. working as a incel is just plain stupidity. your gonna be treated like a subhuman at work, women are gonna tell there boss they dont wanna work next to you because you are ugly. next thing you know you have a incel working next to you, instead of a hot foid. why do you think incels go postal at work? you dont have to be that smart to figure that out. incels that say they like going to work, they are the dumbest fuckers yet. if you work because you dont have any other option, that is different.
 
If society expects incels to give up their mental health by working, then it should give them a woman to make it mean something and be ven tolerable.

No wife = no work
 
If society expects incels to give up their mental health by working, then it should give them a woman to make it mean something and be ven tolerable.

No wife = no work
Sex should be illegal.

And since foids consume 90% of resources produced in society, when all foids are locked in underground breeding barns, men will need only 10% the effort to keep the same quality of life.

This is the model of society that Marxist-Rodgerists aspire to.
 
WORK DOES NOT SOLVE ANY OF YOUR PROBLEMS AS AN INCEL.

This one line is the reason why men are going NEET at a higher % than ever decade after decade.

i have a job now and am easily more depressed than i was when i had more freedom.

There are many factors that make work A NET COST TO YOUR MENTAL HEALTH, NOT BENEFIT .

1) Forced stilted interactions with normies and especially young women THAT HATE YOU, AND EVEN WHEN THEY ACKNOWLEDGE YOU, YOU KNOW FROM THEIR FACE ITS FAKE AND JUST TO KEEP THEIR JOB.

2) Zero socialising with work collegues after work, or even talk about non work related topics during work, its all business with no socialisation, RENDERING THE POINT OF GOING OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR "SOCIALISATION" UTTERLY WITHOUT SOCIAL VALUE OR MEANING. If no one is talking to you at work, YOU ARE GAINING ZERO SOCIALISATION, YOUR JUST SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE NOT WILLING TO TALK TO YOU.

OK, JUST GO TO A LIBRARY AND SIT IN SILENCE WITH STRANGERS STARING AT BOOKS, IT SIMPLY DOESNT COUNT AS SOCIALISATION.

3) Forced negative interactions with general public going to and from work, the bad stares, laughs and negative interaction with normies, is AGAIN ANOTHER NET NEGATIVE TO YOUR MENTAL HEALTH.

4) Mentally draining aspect of a semi high iq job, you are to a degree mentally spent at the end of a work day, due to the concentration needed to perform and maintain a skilled job. Meaning that even if you wanted to be creative and do other things, you have little energy to do them as you have spent the best hours at your job and all you want to do is veg out.

THE MAIN POSITIVE TO A JOB, MONEY, CANT BUY YOU A SOCIAL LIFE, CANT ACQUIRE THE SOCIAL CAPITAL YOU NEED TO LIVE A FULL LIFE, EG FRIENDS AND WOMEN, THEREFORE ITS UTTERLY WORTHLESS OTHER THAN TO SUPPORT YOU TO EXIST, THATS IT.

All this points to me that NEET IS ACTUALLY THE LOGICAL SOLUTION, TO PRESERVE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE FROM DETERIORATING FROM THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE BLACK PILL AND HUMAN NATURE.

It is merely a question of how to become a full time NEET.

As the saying goes:
THERE ARE NO COPES FOR YOUR FACE
dnr, npnw
 
 
I always wondered why middle aged men committed more crime. The truth is this; when you're a kid everyone
is on the same playing field (literally) as you get older into school the fat kids get bullied, the tall herbs get bullied,
the bad boy fucks the women. You then get older and the antics evolve. Those with good looks get a easy life
and true-cels suffer. The incentive to be a ''good person'' begins declining when you can't get a girlfriend,
date, people treat you bad in general, seeing untalented people get promoted. The world works much
differently to what you were told.

Inceldom in your twenties is easy mode. Inceldom in your 30s/40s is legendary mode.
 
THERE ARE NO COPES FOR YOUR FACE
On the contrary: everything is a cope.

There is no fix for your face, height, autism etc.

There is no "ascension" either: a beta male will never be alpha, and an omega male (trucel) will never be a beta, much less an alpha.

There are only temporary copes.

A job is a cope itself, and also a means to be able to afford copes, such as the betabuxx favorite cope of buying the love of a foid.
 
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Yeah the west is getting to be a really bad place to be for a man ATM. Lots of "eastern" countries are catching up (or rather the west is meeting them in the middle) in living standards while those same eastern countries have a much better situation w.r.t. feminism and culture. For example, average Mexican is making close to 20k/year these days, especially for skilled professionals in the bigger cities 30-50k is pretty standard. When you factor in the better hypergamy situation, better weather, and much lower cost of living, it's getting to the point where parts of LATAM are starting to win. Obvs there's still shitholes like Honduras, but parts are now more than competitive.
Exactly, it's rather that the western countries are falling rapidly getting closer to (the lack of) living standards in eastern shithole countries. Once the western countries completely have collapsed the eastern ones will fall rapidly as well simply because they can't actually manage themselves. Their growing wealth is a byproduct of western influence.
 
I respect the Neetmaxxing solution but I just can't get enough neetbuxx with the cost of living. I would end up homeless, so I'm more for doing work with as few of the dehumanizing drawbacks as possible. Being a cashier can be ok depending on the business. A truck driver isn't forced to deal with people who are fake social all the time.
 
Seriously, if any of you guys can afford to live with your parents, don't spend a fucking penny. Save as much as you can and work hard for maybe 5-6 years to make as much money as possible. Invest in FDs, low-risk funds, insurances, and whatnot (never enter the market directly). Then when you think you have a nice cushion, quit your job or move to some low-effort and part-time job. Goal for most men should be checking out of society before 40, preferably 35.
 
Seriously, if any of you guys can afford to live with your parents, don't spend a fucking penny. Save as much as you can and work hard for maybe 5-6 years to make as much money as possible. Invest in FDs, low-risk funds, insurances, and whatnot (never enter the market directly). Then when you think you have a nice cushion, quit your job or move to some low-effort and part-time job. Goal for most men should be checking out of society before 40, preferably 35.
high iq

with about £30-40k saved up in the 6-7 years on minimal rent you could get a shit apartment in a not so bad area for around 110k to 120k, with a huge £40k deposit down you would get very good mortgage terms and a pretty small 60k 70 mortgage that would be around 400 ish a month, totally manageable on even a shit tier part time job.
 

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