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The reality behind "Nice Guys"

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When males grow up, society tells them that being a gentlemen and having a interesting personality will eventually earn you a relationship with a female who will be drawn to you because of said personality.

This strategy works, if you are good looking. Males who are good looking will enjoy female attention and believe that the strategy will work for everyone. Meanwhile a different results happens with an unattractive male.

The ugly male will think that he has to be patient. He believes that by using clever jokes, spending time with his female friend, and showing respect for her will cause the female to eventually build up an attraction for him.

Of course the ugly male wants sex. But what he really wants is a relationship based on mutual attraction, in which sex is simply one of many benefits.

However, the ugly male is shown a completely different response. The female is not interested in his advances and only sees him as a friend. The male is confused? Did society lie to me? Is this female different from the rest? Usually, the male will respectfully decline. However, he now notices that the female is no longer interested in the friendship anymore, as she grows distant. The friendship ends and they never speak again. Eventually the male finds a new girl to hang out with.

After many rejections, the ugly male will realize something. The strategy society told him to use is not working. He will look around him at his peers in school and see what they did. His handsome tall and sexually active peers display a behavior different from his. They aren't gentlemen, they are cocky and display a nonchalant behavior when with their female friends. Of course there may be some handsome peers who are respectful, but the ugly male notices they are the minority. He chooses to copy the cocky bad boy behavior of his better looking friends.

When he attempts this new behavior, he is met with disdain and humiliation. The female will reject him immediately, and will show anger towards him. He is then taunted by his peers for being unsuccessful with females. Behind his back, they will mock his appearance.

The ugly male grows isolated and sad. He looks everywhere for advice and help on how to get a relationship. However, everyone is telling him it's his fault. People on the internet say those females were sour grapes, yet whenever he tried again, the result is the same. No matter what method he uses, he always faces rejection.

After trying to work out, dress nice, and work on his personality further, he realizes nothing is working. He becomes desperate. But amid his failure, he becomes angry. Upon being rejected, he lashes out on the female with rage. He doesn't really mean what he says, but his hatred of himself drove him to vent out in a mindless rant. The female will accuse the ugly male of having a bad personality, and maybe will screenshot what he says and post it on Reddit.

This is how incels are made.

We weren't born this way, we just know how things really work in the world. Appearance is the only thing that matters. Anyone can have a good personality, humans are social animals.

But not everyone can have a nice jawline, a tall stature, and hunter eyes.

Also, marriages with an unattractive male and a female aren't relationships. They are merely transactions, the female is not sexually attracted to the male. She is only doing so out of security and financial stability. Chances are, she is also over 30 and can no longer sustain her old lifestyle of chasing good looking males who treat her like shit.
 
They only hate UGLY nice guys. They cream their knickers everytime an attractive male does something for them
 
Foids always want a chad to abuse and beat them.
 
They only hate UGLY nice guys. They cream their knickers everytime an attractive male does something for them

I am referring to the female definition of nice guy, which directly translates to "male I am not physically attracted to".
 
They want a strong partner who can dominate them, not a limp wristsed male feminist.
 
They're genetically programmed to seek the most aggressive, healthy and powerful man. Nice men are trash in their eyes, trash that will always be there, so why bother with their feelings or desires?
 
They want a strong partner who can dominate them, not a limp wristsed male feminist.

They may want the male feminists income though while they cheat on the side.
 
The bluepilled lies fucking disgust me.
 
Also, marriages with an unattractive male and a female aren't relationships. They are merely transactions, the female is not sexually attracted to the male. She is only doing so out of security and financial stability.

Every relationship is transactional. This shouldn't be seen as a problem.

Chances are, she is also over 30 and can no longer sustain her old lifestyle of chasing good looking males who treat her like shit.

Again, this isn't in itself a problem.

The problems arise when she's rewarded by the government for such behavior.
 
The bluepilled lies fucking disgust me.

This. Alongside wanting us to be silent in the face of our own suffering.
When males grow up, society tells them that being a gentlemen and having a interesting personality will eventually earn you a relationship with a female who will be drawn to you because of said personality.

This strategy works, if you are good looking. Males who are good looking will enjoy female attention and believe that the strategy will work for everyone. Meanwhile a different results happens with an unattractive male.

The ugly male will think that he has to be patient. He believes that by using clever jokes, spending time with his female friend, and showing respect for her will cause the female to eventually build up an attraction for him.

Of course the ugly male wants sex. But what he really wants is a relationship based on mutual attraction, in which sex is simply one of many benefits.

However, the ugly male is shown a completely different response. The female is not interested in his advances and only sees him as a friend. The male is confused? Did society lie to me? Is this female different from the rest? Usually, the male will respectfully decline. However, he now notices that the female is no longer interested in the friendship anymore, as she grows distant. The friendship ends and they never speak again. Eventually the male finds a new girl to hang out with.

After many rejections, the ugly male will realize something. The strategy society told him to use is not working. He will look around him at his peers in school and see what they did. His handsome tall and sexually active peers display a behavior different from his. They aren't gentlemen, they are cocky and display a nonchalant behavior when with their female friends. Of course there may be some handsome peers who are respectful, but the ugly male notices they are the minority. He chooses to copy the cocky bad boy behavior of his better looking friends.

When he attempts this new behavior, he is met with disdain and humiliation. The female will reject him immediately, and will show anger towards him. He is then taunted by his peers for being unsuccessful with females. Behind his back, they will mock his appearance.

The ugly male grows isolated and sad. He looks everywhere for advice and help on how to get a relationship. However, everyone is telling him it's his fault. People on the internet say those females were sour grapes, yet whenever he tried again, the result is the same. No matter what method he uses, he always faces rejection.

After trying to work out, dress nice, and work on his personality further, he realizes nothing is working. He becomes desperate. But amid his failure, he becomes angry. Upon being rejected, he lashes out on the female with rage. He doesn't really mean what he says, but his hatred of himself drove him to vent out in a mindless rant. The female will accuse the ugly male of having a bad personality, and maybe will screenshot what he says and post it on Reddit.

This is how incels are made.

We weren't born this way, we just know how things really work in the world. Appearance is the only thing that matters. Anyone can have a good personality, humans are social animals.

But not everyone can have a nice jawline, a tall stature, and hunter eyes.

Also, marriages with an unattractive male and a female aren't relationships. They are merely transactions, the female is not sexually attracted to the male. She is only doing so out of security and financial stability. Chances are, she is also over 30 and can no longer sustain her old lifestyle of chasing good looking males who treat her like shit.

Giga High IQ btw.
 
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This. Alongside wanting us to be silent in the face of our own suffering.


Giga High IQ btw.
Society is completely ok with expecting us to just sit in silence.
 
cucktears will never touch posts like these, too high iq for them.
 
OP, have to say that you are really good at writing and explaining stuff.
Cucktears will ignore your post, though.
They don't want to understand why we are like this
 
OP, have to say that you are really good at writing and explaining stuff.
Cucktears will ignore your post, though.
They don't want to understand why we are like this

I appreciate the complement man, I never get compliments anymore.

In regards to cucktears, they purposely leave out posts like these since it could potentially weaken the soy level of their male population. They will stick to screenshotting the usual shocker/venting threads and continue to never actually debate us on our viewpoints.
 
Wow, that hits close to home..
When he attempts this new behavior, he is met with disdain and humiliation. The female will reject him immediately, and will show anger towards him. He is then taunted by his peers for being unsuccessful with females. Behind his back, they will mock his appearance.
 
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Nice guy and can't get laid?
cucks: you're just an ugly entitled neckbeard

incels that can't get laid
cucks: it's your toxic personality!!!!!!
 
Incels are men who are gullible and good-natured enough to view as profound the ideas that obeying social norms leads to humiliating failure and everyone is a piece of shit.
 
Lmao shut the fuck up OP all of this could be summed up in the physiognomy theory
 
If you are ugly and a nice guy they you will be mocked.
 
This is why you never be nice to anyone.
 
I keep re-reading this post and it describes my life perfectly..it's such a accurate description that it seems like the OP is talking about me specifically..
 
Deserves to be pinned.

This pretty much sums us (truecels) up.
 
Being nice is cucked.
 

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