The problem with Daygame (from a 5 yr veteran)

[Actually Autistic]

I’ve decided to sum up why Daygame is no better than tinder. Here we go

1. MOST girls walk away. I’ve seen this with wings and myself. Every once in a while you’ll find a crazy/hippie/anomaly/free spirited girl who is down to go on a platonic ‘insta date’. This happens every 1/300 approaches

2. Given the fact an average guy needs to do massive volume to get unimpressive results from Daygame (Insta dates, dates from number closes, girls who hang out but froendzone you) keep in mind you start to develop a reputation after about 3000 approaches. This happened to me early in 2017. I was avoided in malls and laughed at as the “creative and artistic vibe guy”-A line from Justin Wayne

3. Your approach count never goes down aka you cannot un-do a bad social interaction. It’s a very real possibility to run out of girls and become a social outcast in your city

4. Most numbers flake. Infact the chance of getting a date is like winning $200 from a scratch-n-win. I can’t remember the last time I had a successful number from DG

 

[Braincel14w]

I Don't get why anyone below 7/10 would cold approach

 

[Mopey]

Why the fuck would you even play without the DLC.

 

[San Salvador]

I’ve decided to sum up why Daygame is no better than tinder. Here we go

1. MOST girls walk away. I’ve seen this with wings and myself. Every once in a while you’ll find a crazy/hippie/anomaly/free spirited girl who is down to go on a platonic ‘insta date’. This happens every 1/300 approaches

2. Given the fact an average guy needs to do massive volume to get unimpressive results from Daygame (Insta dates, dates from number closes, girls who hang out but froendzone you) keep in mind you start to develop a reputation after about 3000 approaches. This happened to me early in 2017. I was avoided in malls and laughed at as the “creative and artistic vibe guy”-A line from Justin Wayne

3. Your approach count never goes down aka you cannot un-do a bad social interaction. It’s a very real possibility to run out of girls and become a social outcast in your city

4. Most numbers flake. Infact the chance of getting a date is like winning $200 from a scratch-n-win. I can’t remember the last time I had a successful number from DG

Wow, you actually made an ass out of yourself by following TRP PUA bullshit.

I am genuinely sorry

 

[mylifeistrash]

But I thought tinder was not real life?

 

[Hate_my_life]

Daygame only works if you're a tall, 8.5 or 8/10, NT and not socially inept.
If you dont fit all those categories dont bother approaching.

 

[Cuyen]

It was a good post OP.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

It was a good post OP.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

Daygame only works if you're a tall, 8.5 or 8/10, NT and not socially inept.
If you dont fit all those categories dont bother approaching.

Being tall is the more important with NT.

 

[Cuyen]

Why the fuck would you even play without the DLC.

why would anyone even pay

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I’ve decided to sum up why Daygame is no better than tinder. Here we go

1. MOST girls walk away. I’ve seen this with wings and myself. Every once in a while you’ll find a crazy/hippie/anomaly/free spirited girl who is down to go on a platonic ‘insta date’. This happens every 1/300 approaches

2. Given the fact an average guy needs to do massive volume to get unimpressive results from Daygame (Insta dates, dates from number closes, girls who hang out but froendzone you) keep in mind you start to develop a reputation after about 3000 approaches. This happened to me early in 2017. I was avoided in malls and laughed at as the “creative and artistic vibe guy”-A line from Justin Wayne

3. Your approach count never goes down aka you cannot un-do a bad social interaction. It’s a very real possibility to run out of girls and become a social outcast in your city

4. Most numbers flake. Infact the chance of getting a date is like winning $200 from a scratch-n-win. I can’t remember the last time I had a successful number from DG

As a 1 year veteran, I find you're observations accurate, especially 1 and 2 and 3. Out of hundreds of approaches I can almost count the number of successful interactions on my fingers.

A lot of the chicks fitted the stereotype of slightly alternative and open minded. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but the classical slutty dressed chicks aren't easy to access. Ironically the chicks you can meet are not the kind you would want to "take advantage" of, since they are decent foids.

I am becoming that guy in my town, especially after getting arrested for day gaming. It doesn't really bother me, tbh. I have no other need to go into town other than day gaming.

3. The only thing I can say is, this doesn't really matter. Social interactions are so fleeting that the target or by standers never really remember them, only you do really and you can look back and laugh at embarrassing situations. I sure as hell know I do.

I'd rather day game than not, it's the approach and living in the moment that counts, not the results. That's how I actually feel now, it's not even a cope.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I Don't get why anyone below 7/10 would cold approach

Or ethnic

 

[Mainländer]

Roaming the streets and approaching casually dressed girls looks way more inviting than going to a bar or club at night to approach girls who look like prostitutes for most men who have trouble with women, but in fact, day game, especially street game (unless there is some kind of event going on) is the hardest type ogf "game" by far.

I have personally never seen it working, and I was a practicing PUA who knew tons of other guys who also did it for years.

 

[Deleted member 11032]

As a 1 year veteran, I find you're observations accurate, especially 1 and 2 and 3. Out of hundreds of approaches I can almost count the number of successful interactions on my fingers.

A lot of the chicks fitted the stereotype of slightly alternative and open minded. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but the classical slutty dressed chicks aren't easy to access. Ironically the chicks you can meet are not the kind you would want to "take advantage" of, since they are decent foids.

I am becoming that guy in my town, especially after getting arrested for day gaming. It doesn't really bother me, tbh. I have no other need to go into town other than day gaming.

3. The only thing I can say is, this doesn't really matter. Social interactions are so fleeting that the target or by standers never really remember them, only you do really and you can look back and laugh at embarrassing situations. I sure as hell know I do.

I'd rather day game than not, it's the approach and living in the moment that counts, not the results. That's how I actually feel now, it's not even a cope.

 

[Brahcel]

Way too much effort is needed for shit results now a days. Then when u even get the number. They like to teehee and it never amounts to anything.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

The problem with daygame is your looks

 

[Lubricure]

I’ve decided to sum up why Daygame is no better than tinder. Here we go

1. MOST girls walk away. I’ve seen this with wings and myself. Every once in a while you’ll find a crazy/hippie/anomaly/free spirited girl who is down to go on a platonic ‘insta date’. This happens every 1/300 approaches

2. Given the fact an average guy needs to do massive volume to get unimpressive results from Daygame (Insta dates, dates from number closes, girls who hang out but froendzone you) keep in mind you start to develop a reputation after about 3000 approaches. This happened to me early in 2017. I was avoided in malls and laughed at as the “creative and artistic vibe guy”-A line from Justin Wayne

3. Your approach count never goes down aka you cannot un-do a bad social interaction. It’s a very real possibility to run out of girls and become a social outcast in your city

4. Most numbers flake. Infact the chance of getting a date is like winning $200 from a scratch-n-win. I can’t remember the last time I had a successful number from DG

Very interesting post, OP. I want to chip in with my personal experience. Although I didn't perform a thousand approaches, I understood the game is rigged about after 50 or something. Girls in my case dismissed me as quickly as they could, leading to a 0% success rate. Sorry if I'm not genetically perfect, stupid femoids.

On the point 2, I was careful with the number of approaches and I always changed places, and cities. I spent quite a bit in train fares, but I don't regret it. Luckily, nobody knew about my daygame. Paradoxically it's more accepted going full blackpill when around normies than being recognized as a serial daygamer, NPCs being NPCs.

Point 3 and 4, given the high number of fake contacts and number, and the irreversibility of the approach, my total number was about 400-500 approaches in my life (indirect approaches included in the count, assuming I recall correctly), without any luck, of course. I would say that for many could be a lot, but I've personally known of people quitting a job to daygame full time, ded srs tbh.

Fuck that shit, I burned out at about 200 approaches and I went on for desperation, until I surrendered to escortcelling.

All of this while I've seen femoids daygaming chadlike friends. The problem with daygame was and is looks (you must be at least 8/10 for a good ROI), now it's also legal liabilities with diminishing returns, aka fattier and more entitled femoids.

However, with such a fucked and cucked sexual marketplace, I've recently known about a chad fac-simile, close to 8/10, with a PTSD due to sex starvation and failed approaches, but that will be a story for another day and another thread.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

If I tried to be this persistent people would start to hunt me, especially white knights, foids would not find it funny, they would say I'm a danger for them for trying to approach them, it would not take long before everyone harasses me in the streets and even come in groups to beat me

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I’ve decided to sum up why Daygame is no better than tinder. Here we go

1. MOST girls walk away. I’ve seen this with wings and myself. Every once in a while you’ll find a crazy/hippie/anomaly/free spirited girl who is down to go on a platonic ‘insta date’. This happens every 1/300 approaches

2. Given the fact an average guy needs to do massive volume to get unimpressive results from Daygame (Insta dates, dates from number closes, girls who hang out but froendzone you) keep in mind you start to develop a reputation after about 3000 approaches. This happened to me early in 2017. I was avoided in malls and laughed at as the “creative and artistic vibe guy”-A line from Justin Wayne

3. Your approach count never goes down aka you cannot un-do a bad social interaction. It’s a very real possibility to run out of girls and become a social outcast in your city

4. Most numbers flake. Infact the chance of getting a date is like winning $200 from a scratch-n-win. I can’t remember the last time I had a successful number from DG

Good post. I tried approaching for the first time in 2015 and have been sporadically approaching since, and from personal experience I think most of what you say here is accurate.

Most girls walk away within seconds when I approach them. I can usually only get prolonged interactions with girls who are stationary or in a closed environment (in a shop, at their work).

I've approached 186 girls and still have a 0% success rate for dates. 5/186 girls agreed to a date in principle and gave me their contact details. 4 of them never responded, 1 of them did but didn't come out on a date. Most of them probably weren't interested and only gave me their contact details to get rid of me.

I've approached a lot of girls who work in the same mall, so I probably have a reputation there, but to be honest I don't give a shit. If they want to judge me for trying, that's up to them.

I'm at the point of burnout now. I'll get to 200 approaches because I might as well, being so close, but beyond that I really don't know how much I have left in me. My desire to go out and keep doing it has vanished.

 

[Actually Autistic]

If I tried to be this persistent people would start to hunt me, especially white knights, foids would not find it funny, they would say I'm a danger for them for trying to approach them, it would not take long before everyone harasses me in the streets and even come in groups to beat me

It’s not likely gonna happen. At worst, people start to avoid you. I never had any bad experiences like a white knight intervening except once a guy threatened to call the police on my cameraman for filming me.

I was HEAVILY obsessed with PUA to the point of attending RSD free tours and filming a guy for free in exchange to learn game. I filmed a dude running bootcamps and coaching students for free

All in all it created irreversible damage to me to the point I drink alcohol to cope. Knowing 5-10k girls hate my existence

What eventually helped is running tinder morph game on Asian foids. I strongly reccomend morph game if ur low inhibition. Basically what it is is photoshopping your face and running mass online approach game

 

[ovrload]

Can’t believe ugly or average men fall for this PUA scam.

 

[Actually Autistic]

Can’t believe ugly or average men fall for this PUA scam.

What’s the alternative? Tinder?

 

[Deleted member 4760]

The problem with daygame is your looks

 

[mylifeistrash]

Only place you can even daygame in america is maybe parts of LA or venice beach and NYC.

Even during its peak, to do PUA you had to live in a big city.

 

[Deleted member 1060]

PUA is a scam. How much time and money have wasted on these PUA shit? Just curious.

 

[FlamingCel]

It was a good post OP.

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

The problem with daygame is your looks