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Discussion The mind of a person who has sex is fundamentally different from those who do not.

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Sex changes an individual's perception of themselves and their capabilities. People who have sex exercise their biopsychological nature and acquire a behavioral repertoire. The repertoire serves to associate previous experiences with future experiences, creating new neural pathways that enable similar opportunities to occur. In addition to this point, there is the fact that those who are deprived of sex are prone to developing self-rejection and unlovability.

Having sexual freedom is one of the greatest privileges anyone could have. It contributes significantly to human happiness and self-realization. Having this freedom restricted is analogous to a dog having its testicles castrated.

It is not a coincidence that incels.is users are disturbed.
 
Sex changes an individual's perception of themselves and their capabilities. People who have sex exercise their biopsychological nature and acquire a behavioral repertoire. The repertoire serves to associate previous experiences with future experiences, creating new neural pathways that enable similar opportunities to occur. In addition to this point, there is the fact that those who are deprived of sex are prone to developing self-rejection and unlovability.

Having sexual freedom is one of the greatest privileges anyone could have. It contributes significantly to human happiness and self-realization. Having this freedom restricted is analogous to a dog having its testicles castrated.

It is not a coincidence that incels.is users are disturbed.
Fascinating
 
Not just people who have sex, since many sub 5s pay for it, but people who are sexually DESIRED are fundamentally different and cannot relate to those who are NOT, unless they themselves were sexually undesirable in the past.
 
Short, but great insight, and worded very elegantly. I wish to articulate my thoughts into words just as well.
 
but people who are sexually DESIRED
It's a very important distinction. Sex doesn't matter. Being wanted does. Everything we do and don't do in life is about getting desired. And in that sense I absolutely agree, your entire existence hinges on your sexual value. Happiness without attraction is an oxymoron. Being happy is being attractive.

Observe people who at least sporadically get relationships and/or hookups. Look at how they move, how they talk, the way they carry themselves. What they say, what they do, what they don't do. There is a certain confidence and security in all that which cannot be understood or imitated by us. It's a sense of belonging. They have a place in this world.

Don't ever think you are experiencing life without female desire. Everything you do as an ugly man, from brushing your teeth in the morning to having dinner in the evening is fake. Every breath, every movement - just a facade. You would at any moment jump naked into fire without a second thought to experience only once what it means to wanted.
 
It's a very important distinction. Sex doesn't matter. Being wanted does. Everything we do and don't do in life is about getting desired. And in that sense I absolutely agree, your entire existence hinges on your sexual value. Happiness without attraction is an oxymoron. Being happy is being attractive.

Observe people who at least sporadically get relationships and/or hookups. Look at how they move, how they talk, the way they carry themselves. What they say, what they do, what they don't do. There is a certain confidence and security in all that which cannot be understood or imitated by us. It's a sense of belonging. They have a place in this world.

Don't ever think you are experiencing life without female desire. Everything you do as an ugly man, from brushing your teeth in the morning to having dinner in the evening is fake. Every breath, every movement - just a facade. You would at any moment jump naked into fire without a second thought to experience only once what it means to wanted.
Sexhavers are accepting of their own bodies when receiving touch from others; they appreciate their own image through external social validation.
 
It's a very important distinction. Sex doesn't matter. Being wanted does. Everything we do and don't do in life is about getting desired. And in that sense I absolutely agree, your entire existence hinges on your sexual value. Happiness without attraction is an oxymoron. Being happy is being attractive.

Observe people who at least sporadically get relationships and/or hookups. Look at how they move, how they talk, the way they carry themselves. What they say, what they do, what they don't do. There is a certain confidence and security in all that which cannot be understood or imitated by us. It's a sense of belonging. They have a place in this world.

Don't ever think you are experiencing life without female desire. Everything you do as an ugly man, from brushing your teeth in the morning to having dinner in the evening is fake. Every breath, every movement - just a facade. You would at any moment jump naked into fire without a second thought to experience only once what it means to wanted.
This is why paying for prostitutes is not a solution to inceldom and anyone who says so is not trying to argue in good faith.
 
I would even go so far as to say that being sexually attractive is more important than actually having sex itself.
 
Just expand it to being validated and desired by people around you. Having good experiences in general and consistently matters.
 
I would even go so far as to say that being sexually attractive is more important than actually having sex itself.
Sexhaving LTN is happier than sexless HTN
 
Sexhaving LTN is happier than sexless HTN
Yeah if LTN is in a happy relationship with a Stacy
Most LTNs are in oofy-doofy relationships with low tier beckys and I don't really think that's something to envy even if you're incel
 
This is why paying for prostitutes is not a solution to inceldom and anyone who says so is not trying to argue in good faith.
Came to the same conclusion. Last year I intended on taking the jump and seeing an escort, saved quite a bit of money for it. I couldn't do it. It would have solved nothing. There are kids out there fucking each other right now and I, a grown man, am sitting there and browsing hooker websites. We have to do it the right way. Prostitutes won't ascend us.
Sexhaving LTN is happier than sexless HTN
How long sexless are we talking? A lifetime? Sure. A few weeks or months? No. Sexhaving LTN will be having sex with a skinny-fat LTB with no tits and ass who will spend his money and cheat on him. HTN is by definition able to attract hot girls. HTN is genetically valuable. As long as we aren't talking decades, I would choose HTN any time.
 

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