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Blackpill The key to life is what you spend most of your time thinking about

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There are loads of content ugly guys who survive on being able to very rarely think about their looks. It's not that they don't understand that they are ugly, it's that they keep that concept so diffuse and abstract in their heads that they think about other, practical matters much more often. This is why getting a non-retard level job could be very helpful for incels, as it requires them to think about non-looks and sex related matters.

Most ugly guys, if masculine and loud enough, will manage to secure a few fucks before they betabux with a makeup caked 4/10. During that time they almost never think "wow if I weren't so ugly my dating life would be 100000x better", they just focus on the delusion that girls like muscles alone, and not face, or they reminisce about those times those drunk girls grinded on them at the club. One can become so brainwashed as to his sexual prospects that the fact that most women he meets find him repulsive never occurs to him.

Incels cannot break from the mental loop of "it's over". It's not that we are irrationally depressive, it's that we understand just enough of human biology/behavior to understand why it's over, and there's no sense of Justice in the world. I'm certain 95% of normies fully believe in the just world fallacy.
 
"You are what you think about all day long." I got that in a fortune cookie once and it blew my mind, because I was fixated on something at the time.
 
"You are what you think about all day long." I got that in a fortune cookie once and it blew my mind, because I was fixated on something at the time.
But I think of multiple things a day.
 
But I think of multiple things a day.

I was at a point in my life where I could only focus on the one thing.
 
Reproduction
 
That's why Nofap is bad for you unironically
 
There are loads of content ugly guys who survive on being able to very rarely think about their looks. It's not that they don't understand that they are ugly, it's that they keep that concept so diffuse and abstract in their heads that they think about other, practical matters much more often. This is why getting a non-retard level job could be very helpful for incels, as it requires them to think about non-looks and sex related matters.

Most ugly guys, if masculine and loud enough, will manage to secure a few fucks before they betabux with a makeup caked 4/10. During that time they almost never think "wow if I weren't so ugly my dating life would be 100000x better", they just focus on the delusion that girls like muscles alone, and not face, or they reminisce about those times those drunk girls grinded on them at the club. One can become so brainwashed as to his sexual prospects that the fact that most women he meets find him repulsive never occurs to him.

Incels cannot break from the mental loop of "it's over". It's not that we are irrationally depressive, it's that we understand just enough of human biology/behavior to understand why it's over, and there's no sense of Justice in the world. I'm certain 95% of normies fully believe in the just world fallacy.
Part of being eternally incel is severe depression and Asperger’s syndrome. We are more mentally fucked than normals are and that’s just part of the equation.
 
Part of being eternally incel is severe depression and Asperger’s syndrome. We are more mentally fucked than normals are and that’s just part of the equation.

True. "Mentalcels" could score a cute gf on tinder, charismatic ugly guys could charm a girl after enough time, but without looks or charm (and charm is solely the capacity to create illusions of status in a woman's mind,) and you're fucked
 
Yes man, but if we were not so ugly, then it would not matter what we thought and we could easily get sex.
 
Yes man, but if we were not so ugly, then it would not matter what we thought and we could easily get sex.
True, but if you are ugly, you have limited options:

1. Get plastic surgery, which may or may not fuck you up worse
2. Go the expected bluepilled route and end up with a menopausal 3/10 well into your 30s
3. Go to South East Asia and set yourself up with an insane, but young 5/10
4. Avoid sex alltogether, focus on your hobbies until you become a bitter old man, filled with regret, waiting to die alone
5. Go ER (I dont recommend this)

Every one of these options is a comprimise, and the best way to stay happy regardless is to shift your worldview, and only think about stuff that benefits YOUR life.

Chad is living in your brain rent free for as long as you keep fretting about his exploits. He already dominates the physical world, dont let Chad dominate your emotional one.
 
True, but if you are ugly, you have limited options:

1. Get plastic surgery, which may or may not fuck you up worse
2. Go the expected bluepilled route and end up with a menopausal 3/10 well into your 30s
3. Go to South East Asia and set yourself up with an insane, but young 5/10
4. Avoid sex alltogether, focus on your hobbies until you become a bitter old man, filled with regret, waiting to die alone
5. Go ER (I dont recommend this)

Every one of these options is a comprimise, and the best way to stay happy regardless is to shift your worldview, and only think about stuff that benefits YOUR life.

Chad is living in your brain rent free for as long as you keep fretting about his exploits. He already dominates the physical world, dont let Chad dominate your emotional one.


I don't get what you're trying to say

What do you suggest incels think about? What kind of principles/beliefs? What kind of mental talk? Give practical examples.
 
I'm terrible at deluding myself. I'm addicted to harsh realities and truths, more than it would be recommendable for my mental health.
 

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