RageFuel The inner simp: HOW TO STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS AND PLEASE WOMEN???

[watcher]

I am constantly trying to figure out how to impress and please them. And I get so frustrated and sad when I see them being impressed with other guys for whatever reason.

I just want it to stop...

I want to be able to fuck a hooker on all fours without caring about what she thinks about me...

 

[Angry_runt]

It's natural. Your brain wants to reproduce and it doesn't understand anything about the current hypergamic environment.

 

[Deleted member 21768]

You stop by stopping. I do nothing to impress or please them. Whatever I feel comfy in doing, I'll do.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

You stop by stopping. I do nothing to impress or please them. Whatever I feel comfy in doing, I'll do.

 

[watcher]

It's natural. Your brain wants to reproduce and it doesn't understand anything about the current hypergamic environment.

But its preventing me from fucking hookers, which would be in theory "reproducing"

 

[Angry_runt]

But its preventing me from fucking hookers, which would be in theory "reproducing"

Your brain (sex drive specifically) doesn't understand prostitution either. It just wants to improve your chances with foids so it's constantly on alert and self-evaluating. It doesn't know a whore will let you fuck her no matter what.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

there's nothing to figure out. you must be chad. that's it. chad = foid impressed. not chad = betabux cuckold at best

 

[The Abyss]

You want to impress?
Get taller & get some forward growth in your face.

In reality try to see them as vermin & you won't feel the worry to disappoint.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Just stop

 

[Deleted member 24876]

Just think lowly of the hooker

 

[RollD20]

Start embracing 3DPD

 

[watcher]

It takes a lot of time to get these urges and feelings under control. You need to slowly let your hatred for women grow and not indulge in them in any way (following females on social media, watching romance movies/TV series, reading about their needs/wants).

Did it work for you?

there's nothing to figure out. you must be chad. that's it. chad = foid impressed. not chad = betabux cuckold at best

I just want to finally accept my position

 

[your personality]

I am constantly trying to figure out how to impress and please them. And I get so frustrated and sad when I see them being impressed with other guys for whatever reason.

I just want it to stop...

I want to be able to fuck a hooker on all fours without caring about what she thinks about me...

You have to stop trying to wonder whether they hate you and just acknowledge they hate you because of things you can't control and that anytime they seem "nice" they are just being polite and trying to seem like a good person and nothing else.
Easier said than done though.
If a sub8 male ignores foids and doesn't reciprocate any politeness they show things get very awkward and tense.
Idk how to get past this stage. Probably just be what normies consider a cocky careless "asshole" since it will repel them further since you are a sub 8 male.

Not being attentive to what people think of you and not reciprocating politeness when foids are polite to you and giving short word answers apparently equals being an asshole just because of how much foids are worshiped.
But at least it kind of gets them to leave you alone and not look at you as much.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Accept that no matter what you do she still won't like you so might as well not bother

 

[watcher]

You have to stop trying to wonder whether they hate you and just acknowledge they hate you because of things you can't control and that anytime they seem "nice" they are just being polite and trying to seem like a good person and nothing else.
Easier said than done though.
If a sub8 male ignores foids and doesn't reciprocate any politeness they show things get very awkward and tense.
Idk how to get past this stage. Probably just be what normies consider a cocky careless "asshole" since it will repel them further since you are a sub 8 male.

Not being attentive to what people think of you and not reciprocating politeness when foids are polite to you and giving short word answers apparently equals being an asshole just because of how much foids are worshiped.
But at least it kind of gets them to leave you alone and not look at you as much.

Yes, even the slightest cue can make you start believing in fairy tales. I can't help being nice to women when they treat me well (as a customer) it would just feel wrong to treat badly someone who treats you well, even if its all 'fake'

Accept that no matter what you do she still won't like you so might as well not bother

I know that
But I can't accept and internalize it

 

[your personality]

Yes, even the slightest cue can make you start believing in fairy tales. I can't help being nice to women when they treat me well (as a customer) it would just feel wrong to treat badly someone who treats you well, even if its all 'fake'

The worst is when you are determined to push ahead with just ignoring and acting neutral and people act all offended and things get awkward.
tbh I don't know a perfect fix other than to accept that no matter what all normies and all women no matter how polite they are hate you and will quickly snap at you if they get irritated unlike with other people that they actually respect or afford them dignity.

Thankfully covid has made it hard to do group projects

 

[Hate_my_life]

It's natural. Your brain wants to reproduce and it doesn't understand anything about the current hypergamic environment.

You need to slowly let your hatred for women grow

 

[Mainländer]

Bee yourself.

 

[your personality]

Yes, even the slightest cue can make you start believing in fairy tales. I can't help being nice to women when they treat me well (as a customer) it would just feel wrong to treat badly someone who treats you well, even if its all 'fake'

Well put it this way. Do you extend the same kind of benefit of the doubt and feeling bad to guys that you don't reciprocate politness to? If you don't there's no reason to feel bad if you felt you came off as rude to a foid for simply not reciprocating politeness and only being neutral.
It's here problem if she took it the wrong way and felt offended.
But don't try to be hostile either because sometimes foids feel like going after you for that and harassing you back in a mean way back for many months.

 

[watcher]

Well put it this way. Do you extend the same kind of benefit of the doubt and feeling bad to guys that you don't reciprocate politness to? If you don't there's no reason to feel bad if you felt you came off as rude to a foid for simply not reciprocating politeness and only being neutral.
It's here problem if she took it the wrong way and felt offended.
But don't try to be hostile either because sometimes foids feel like going after you for that and harassing you back in a mean way back for many months.

My problem is mostly with desire though. I crave female desire more than I crave their asses and tits (maybe due to my low T / high E profile)

 

[your personality]

My problem is mostly with desire though. I crave female desire more than I crave their asses and tits (maybe due to my low T / high E profile)

If it's more nebulous like that I haven't found a way to curb that either especially when in the presence of good looking quiet women IRL.
Ig you just have to know that no matter what they do it means nothing in the long run and they'll easily turn on you if convenient like any other normies would.

But their high pitched voice, laughter, intonation is very distracting and not easy to ignore imo
It's pretty hard to ignore them when they do weird things like sit next to you and then get up as soon as another seat opens up.

 

[watcher]

If it's more nebulous like that I haven't found a way to curb that either especially when in the presence of good looking quiet women IRL.
Ig you just have to know that no matter what they do it means nothing in the long run and they'll easily turn on you if convenient like any other normies would.

But their high pitched voice, laughter, intonation is very distracting and not easy to ignore imo
It's pretty hard to ignore them when they do weird things like sit next to you and then get up as soon as another seat opens up.

Yeah I get obsessed and can't ignore any slightly attractive girl around. When I see a really hot girl in the market, cafe, etc. I think about them for the rest of the day.

 

[your personality]

Yeah I get obsessed and can't ignore any slightly attractive girl around. When I see a really hot girl in the market, cafe, etc. I think about them for the rest of the day.

That's normal if you haven't had a lot of conversations with women and have never orbited a woman tbh
Right now looking at hot girls and their quirks especially when music is playing might give you an earworm and a lingering idea of them in your head and you think constantly about them for hours after that. But after you go through a situation where you get lead on and dropped by a woman it is easier to ignore them because being used by a woman makes you more wary of them unless they are more overt toward you like talking to you.
But at what cost? You get an idea of what you are missing when you orbit a woman and it's harder to live knowing a bit of what you're missing out on.

But the more you try to ignore attractive women IRL the more obvious it looks tbh and the more conscious of them you become.
I would just always assume they have a boyfriend or multiple orbiters already and keep it moving ngl
When they talk to others and you hear it just ignore it like it's background noise because it is.

 

[Speedloader]

It's natural. Your brain wants to reproduce and it doesn't understand anything about the current hypergamic environment.