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News The Hill: Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

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Reminder: Anthony McRae was the 43-year-old Wakanda warrior who shot and offed 3 normies, and injured 5 people on the campus of Michigan State last Monday. Therefore, the Jew-run media is finally reporting on the phenomenon of increasing loneliness among American males.

Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

BY DANIEL DE VISÉ - 2/22/23

More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women, signaling a larger breakdown in the social, romantic and sexual life of the American male.

Men in their 20s are more likely than women in their 20s to be romantically uninvolved, sexually dormant, friendless and lonely. They stand at the vanguard of an epidemic of declining marriage, sexuality and relationships that afflicts all of young America.

“We’re in a crisis of connection,” said Niobe Way, a psychology professor and founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our Common Humanity at New York University. “Disconnection from ourselves and disconnection from each other. And it’s getting worse.”

In the worst-case scenario, the young American man’s social disconnect can have tragic consequences. Young men commit suicide at four times the rate of young women. Younger men are largely responsible for rising rates of mass shootings, a trend some researchers link to their growing social isolation.

Societal changes that began in the Eisenhower years have eroded the patriarchy that once ruled the American home, classroom and workplace. Women now collect nearly 60 percent of bachelor’s degrees. Men still earn more, but among the youngest adults, the income gap has narrowed to $43 a week.

Scholars say the new era of gender parity has reshaped relationship dynamics, empowering young women and, in many cases, removing young men from the equation.

“Women don’t need to be in long-term relationships. They don’t need to be married. They’d rather go to brunch with friends than have a horrible date,” said Greg Matos, a couple and family psychologist in Los Angeles, who recently penned a viral article titled “What’s Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men.”

Recent years have seen a historic rise in “unpartnered” Americans, particularly among the young. The pandemic made things worse.

As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men.

Not surprisingly, the decline in relationships marches astride with a decline in sex. The share of sexually active Americans stands at a 30-year low. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to about 20 percent of young women.

Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining.

“You have to think that the pandemic had an impact on some of those numbers,” said Fred Rabinowitz, a psychologist and professor at the University of Redlands who studies masculinity.

Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.”

Even seasoned researchers struggle to fully account for the relationship gap between young women and men: If single young men outnumber single young women nearly two to one, then who are all the young women dating?

Some of them are dating each other. One-fifth of Generation Z identifies as queer, and research suggests bisexual women make up a large share of the young-adult queer community.

Young women are also dating and marrying slightly older men, carrying on a tradition that stretches back more than a century. The average age at first marriage is around 30 for men, 28 for women, according to census figures.

Heterosexual women are getting more choosy. Women “don’t want to marry down,” to form a long-term relationship to a man with less education and earnings than herself, said Ronald Levant, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Akron and author of several books on masculinity.

In previous generations, young women entered adulthood in a society that expected them to find a financially stable man who would support them through decades of marriage and motherhood. Over the 1950s and 1960s, that pattern gradually broke down, and today it is all but gone.

Women are tiring of their stereotypical role as full-time therapist for emotionally distant men. They want a partner who is emotionally open and empathetic, the opposite of the age-old masculine ideal.

“Today in America, women expect more from men,” Levant said, “and unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.”

The same emotional deficits that hurt men in the dating pool also hamper them in forming meaningful friendships. Fifteen percent of men report having no close friendships, a fivefold increase from 1990, according to research by the Survey Center on American Life.

“Men are less naturally relational than women,” said Richard Reeves, a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution whose new book, “Of Boys and Men,” has drawn wide praise.

Reeves points to a recent Saturday Night Live sketch that reimagined the neighborhood dog park as a “man park,” poking fun at “this reliance of men on women to do the emotional lifting for them.”

Social circles have been shrinking for men and women, especially since the pandemic, but men struggle more. Thirty years ago, 55 percent of men reported having six or more close friends. By 2021, that share had slipped to 27 percent.

“Women form friendships with each other that are emotionally intimate, whereas men do not,” Levant said. Young women “may not be dating, but they have girlfriends they spend time with and gain emotional support from.”

Aaron Karo and Matt Ritter, both in their early 40s, study the male “friendship recession” in their “Man of the Year” podcast. It arose out of an annual tradition of gathering at a steakhouse with several male friends, all close since elementary school.

“Guys are taught to prioritize career,” Karo said. “Also romantic relationships, although it doesn’t seem like they’re doing a very good job at that. Making friends and keeping friends seems to be a lower priority. And once guys get older, they suddenly realize they have no friends.”

The podcasters and their friends created the annual gathering as a way to keep their friendship alive. It spawned a year-round group chat and a “Man of the Year” trophy, awarded to the most deserving friend at the annual dinner.

“We treat friendship as a luxury, especially men,” Ritter said. “It’s a necessity.”
 
To be fair - males treat each other like shit in order to impress foids.
 
Chadsexuality in full display
 
Wakanda:

 
Maybe the downfall of the west isn't that bad
 
Maybe the downfall of the west isn't that bad
It’s over, I probably will end up sending this article to my mother - without a doubt she will just foidsplain it and excuse it as males needing to rise to the challenge of feminism.
 
It’s over brocels.
  1. All the males that live on my street - are broke, lonely, living with their parents, and probably coping with porn. All the foids have moved out and away. Even the white thrash whore that lived across the street from me, and got pregnant at the age of 18 and shitted out two bastard kids is living her best life (I think the father joined the military).
  2. University is brutal for ugly males. I went through hell just for being ugly. I spent an incredible amount of money for an education, and I couldn’t even get laid once in college. Meanwhile, foids are making OnlyFans accounts.
  3. Males are treated like dirt in the corporate world. Foids are treated like goddesses just for existing. Promotions and praise await foids in business, males are treated like slaves.
  4. Hollywood hates males. Notice how Disney has taken masculinity out of Marvel movies, Captain America has had one kiss throughout all of his films. Hollywood no longer wants to make romance movies, they would rather focus on fantasy.
  5. Men are giving up when it comes to competing with foids at school, and while at work. Foids are buying homes with the money they earned living life on easy-mode. :feelsrope:
 
There is a lot to pick out from this article, but I will refrain - it has been done to death. Let things continue to decline to the point of no return. It no longer matters; the jig is very much up.

Men are playing with a losing hand, and yet we are still being blamed for not meeting the ever-increasing standards of women who have very much NOT improved. They only think they have because they are measuring their success with markers that were traditionally male-only, now independent and having their own disposable income. They are glorified men at this point, not having improved upon their feminine qualities - if anything, they have declined considerably in that area.

Fuck it all.
Women want to be men and want men to turn into women. It’s funny how these cucks only talk about relationships from a female point of view. They never talk about what men want from women in a relationship. Instead they just denigrate us saying women need to be our second mom jfl. We’re just supposed to cater to every standard women expect in a relationship yet we’re the childish ones.
 
Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.”
What a :bluepill:, women are controlling the market.
 
The powers that be are freaking out, more men are leaving the workforce in droves planning to never return back. They're planning a new world war on the future horizon but no rational man wants to fight for or defend this faggot gay ass society where we would rather topple our own governments. Consequences of imposed western feminism 101 and now they're wondering how to solve a problem of their own creation, it's really hilarious. As the old saying goes, it just takes three generations of feminism to destroy a society or civilization completely. :feelsjuice: :blackpill:
 
They are glorified men at this point, not having improved upon their feminine qualities - if anything, they have declined considerably in that area.
They don't have any male quality either since they don't chase and marry inferior guys like guys would do with girls. They are a walking hyper feminine spoiled abomination
 
Women want to be men and want men to turn into women.
No. This is boomer shit. Women want chads. Hyper masculine men not turning men into women. The more you let those animals choose the more they will force men to be hyper tall, hyper big, hyper rich etc
 
The powers that be are freaking out, more men are leaving the workforce in droves planning to never return back. They're planning a new world war on the future horizon but no rational man wants to fight for or defend this faggot gay ass society where we would rather topple our own governments. Consequences of imposed western feminism 101 and now they're wondering how to solve a problem of their own creation, it's really hilarious. As the old saying goes, it just takes three generations of feminism to destroy a society or civilization completely. :feelsjuice: :blackpill:
Still they want to fucking save this fucktard disgusting feminism. It's like a fetish for those satanic assholes
 
Still they want to fucking save this fucktard disgusting feminism. It's like a fetish for those satanic assholes
It's a society and civilization now run by women, so of course they want to save it with all the perks they have. Still, wanting and being able to are two separate things, the reality is that nothing is going to save or preserve the current system. :feelsEhh:
 
It's a society and civilization now run by women, so of course they want to save it with all the perks they have. Still, wanting and being able to are two separate things, the reality is that nothing is going to save or preserve the current system. :feelsEhh:
Yes it's like a vicious cyrcle self fueling into more and more shitshow. However it feels like it's on the verge of destruction but never actually falls
 
Water detected
 
It’s over brocels.
  1. All the males that live on my street - are broke, lonely, living with their parents, and probably coping with porn. All the foids have moved out and away. Even the white thrash whore that lived across the street from me, and got pregnant at the age of 18 and shitted out two bastard kids is living her best life (I think the father joined the military).
  2. University is brutal for ugly males. I went through hell just for being ugly. I spent an incredible amount of money for an education, and I couldn’t even get laid once in college. Meanwhile, foids are making OnlyFans accounts.
  3. Males are treated like dirt in the corporate world. Foids are treated like goddesses just for existing. Promotions and praise await foids in business, males are treated like slaves.
  4. Hollywood hates males. Notice how Disney has taken masculinity out of Marvel movies, Captain America has had one kiss throughout all of his films. Hollywood no longer wants to make romance movies, they would rather focus on fantasy.
  5. Men are giving up when it comes to competing with foids at school, and while at work. Foids are buying homes with the money they earned living life on easy-mode. :feelsrope:
 
Reminder: Anthony McRae was the 43-year-old Wakanda warrior who shot and offed 3 normies, and injured 5 people on the campus of Michigan State last Monday. Therefore, the Jew-run media is finally reporting on the phenomenon of increasing loneliness among American males.

Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

BY DANIEL DE VISÉ - 2/22/23

More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women, signaling a larger breakdown in the social, romantic and sexual life of the American male.

Men in their 20s are more likely than women in their 20s to be romantically uninvolved, sexually dormant, friendless and lonely. They stand at the vanguard of an epidemic of declining marriage, sexuality and relationships that afflicts all of young America.

“We’re in a crisis of connection,” said Niobe Way, a psychology professor and founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our Common Humanity at New York University. “Disconnection from ourselves and disconnection from each other. And it’s getting worse.”

In the worst-case scenario, the young American man’s social disconnect can have tragic consequences. Young men commit suicide at four times the rate of young women. Younger men are largely responsible for rising rates of mass shootings, a trend some researchers link to their growing social isolation.

Societal changes that began in the Eisenhower years have eroded the patriarchy that once ruled the American home, classroom and workplace. Women now collect nearly 60 percent of bachelor’s degrees. Men still earn more, but among the youngest adults, the income gap has narrowed to $43 a week.

Scholars say the new era of gender parity has reshaped relationship dynamics, empowering young women and, in many cases, removing young men from the equation.

“Women don’t need to be in long-term relationships. They don’t need to be married. They’d rather go to brunch with friends than have a horrible date,” said Greg Matos, a couple and family psychologist in Los Angeles, who recently penned a viral article titled “What’s Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men.”

Recent years have seen a historic rise in “unpartnered” Americans, particularly among the young. The pandemic made things worse.

As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men.

Not surprisingly, the decline in relationships marches astride with a decline in sex. The share of sexually active Americans stands at a 30-year low. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to about 20 percent of young women.

Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining.

“You have to think that the pandemic had an impact on some of those numbers,” said Fred Rabinowitz, a psychologist and professor at the University of Redlands who studies masculinity.

Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.”

Even seasoned researchers struggle to fully account for the relationship gap between young women and men: If single young men outnumber single young women nearly two to one, then who are all the young women dating?

Some of them are dating each other. One-fifth of Generation Z identifies as queer, and research suggests bisexual women make up a large share of the young-adult queer community.

Young women are also dating and marrying slightly older men, carrying on a tradition that stretches back more than a century. The average age at first marriage is around 30 for men, 28 for women, according to census figures.

Heterosexual women are getting more choosy. Women “don’t want to marry down,” to form a long-term relationship to a man with less education and earnings than herself, said Ronald Levant, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Akron and author of several books on masculinity.

In previous generations, young women entered adulthood in a society that expected them to find a financially stable man who would support them through decades of marriage and motherhood. Over the 1950s and 1960s, that pattern gradually broke down, and today it is all but gone.

Women are tiring of their stereotypical role as full-time therapist for emotionally distant men. They want a partner who is emotionally open and empathetic, the opposite of the age-old masculine ideal.

“Today in America, women expect more from men,” Levant said, “and unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.”

The same emotional deficits that hurt men in the dating pool also hamper them in forming meaningful friendships. Fifteen percent of men report having no close friendships, a fivefold increase from 1990, according to research by the Survey Center on American Life.

“Men are less naturally relational than women,” said Richard Reeves, a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution whose new book, “Of Boys and Men,” has drawn wide praise.

Reeves points to a recent Saturday Night Live sketch that reimagined the neighborhood dog park as a “man park,” poking fun at “this reliance of men on women to do the emotional lifting for them.”

Social circles have been shrinking for men and women, especially since the pandemic, but men struggle more. Thirty years ago, 55 percent of men reported having six or more close friends. By 2021, that share had slipped to 27 percent.

“Women form friendships with each other that are emotionally intimate, whereas men do not,” Levant said. Young women “may not be dating, but they have girlfriends they spend time with and gain emotional support from.”

Aaron Karo and Matt Ritter, both in their early 40s, study the male “friendship recession” in their “Man of the Year” podcast. It arose out of an annual tradition of gathering at a steakhouse with several male friends, all close since elementary school.

“Guys are taught to prioritize career,” Karo said. “Also romantic relationships, although it doesn’t seem like they’re doing a very good job at that. Making friends and keeping friends seems to be a lower priority. And once guys get older, they suddenly realize they have no friends.”

The podcasters and their friends created the annual gathering as a way to keep their friendship alive. It spawned a year-round group chat and a “Man of the Year” trophy, awarded to the most deserving friend at the annual dinner.

“We treat friendship as a luxury, especially men,” Ritter said. “It’s a necessity.”
Dnr
 
Having fuckbuddy doesnt count for relationships so these new age women are lonely.:feelsugh:
 
Having fuckbuddy doesnt count for relationships so these new age women are lonely.:feelsugh:
Not to women. The fact they are fucked means they can delude themselves into thinking “oh he really likes me and he’ll be my boyfriend at some point”, not realizing he’s fucking multiple women.

I think they are aware of it at some level, but women don’t give a shit.

Plus, having a fuckbuddy is better than nothing.
 
Not to women. The fact they are fucked means they can delude themselves into thinking “oh he really likes me and he’ll be my boyfriend at some point”, not realizing he’s fucking multiple women.

I think they are aware of it at some level, but women don’t give a shit.

Plus, having a fuckbuddy is better than nothing.
Of course this also stands
 
Toilets living life on dog-mode, what else is new? :feelshmm:
 
I hate those normfags who did that to me
Yeah, I knew males were doomed since I was in high school. Even back in 2005 to 2009, males at my high school hated on each other to the point you would think they were foids.

Things became much better for me Freshman year of university, but that feeling of brotherhood fades fast around the age of 25 - guys start behaving like their fathers.
 
Yeah, I knew males were doomed since I was in high school. Even back in 2005 to 2009, males at my high school hated on each other to the point you would think they were foids.

Things became much better for me Freshman year of university, but that feeling of brotherhood fades fast around the age of 25 - guys start behaving like their fathers.
Fax b
 

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