SuicideFuel The Ghost of Inceldom - The Value of Young Love and Healthy Development

[Deleted member 1042]

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This was such a brutal read. If you've never experienced young love (teens & very early 20's) then your ability to pair bond is fucked. This is exhibit A. This in particular was hard to read:

With LTR 3, a few weeks ago, I was going through her old photo album, seeing a version of her with a youthful glow. There were hundreds of photos of friends, her at parties and celebrations, overseas travel, studies abroad, etc. Then I looked at her face, began noticing the crows feet, the subtle wrinkles and the slight thinning of hair. She smiled and I kind of had a moment of epiphany.
It was a strange feeling. I was suddenly aware that her youthful version would have never given me a second glance and her being deferential, caring and pleasing to me now is pure and part of who she is, a result of past foundational experiences she had, that which I lack. Our past experiences are nothing alike. I have no photo album.
She loves me as the man I’m now, not the man I was. The man I was needed love and companionship. I can’t truly reciprocate LTR 3’s devotion because I see things now on a purely transactional basis based on an unnatural way of maturing.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I remember when I still was on Wizchan, I read a thread in which the OP stated that not having sex in your youth will lead to permanent brain damage of some sort. But I don't think it's just the lack of sex that's fucking us young men up so much. It's a general lack of social interaction and intimacy. If we all had a tight-knight group of friends (real friends, not your discord faggot clique) that we'd hang out with every week and could have a good time with and a very close family, I'm sure most of us would develop better social skills. But instead, most of us are coped up inside our houses and were raised by refrigerator mothers. We missed major parts of our social development and as this guy proves, even if we do "make it", we'll just fuck it up somehow because we're not used to being around people.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

I remember when I still was on Wizchan, I read a thread in which the OP stated that not having sex in your youth will lead to permanent brain damage of some sort. But I don't think it's just the lack of sex that's fucking us young men up so much. It's a general lack of social interaction and intimacy. If we all had a tight-knight group of friends (real friends, not your discord faggot clique) that we'd hang out with every week and could have a good time with and a very close family, I'm sure most of us would develop better social skills. But instead, most of us are coped up inside our houses and were raised by refrigerator mothers. We missed major parts of our social development and as this guy proves, even if we do "make it", we'll just fuck it up somehow because we're not used to being around people.

High IQ read. It's over once you've been isolated/lacked intimacy past a certain age.

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

incelswithouthate is CUCKED

 

[Hikikomori]

We're doomed.

 

[Joelossus]

incelswithouthate is CUCKED

 

[Deleted member 17724]

incelswithouthate is CUCKED

Cuckswithouthate

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I remember when I still was on Wizchan, I read a thread in which the OP stated that not having sex in your youth will lead to permanent brain damage of some sort. But I don't think it's just the lack of sex that's fucking us young men up so much. It's a general lack of social interaction and intimacy. If we all had a tight-knight group of friends (real friends, not your discord faggot clique) that we'd hang out with every week and could have a good time with and a very close family, I'm sure most of us would develop better social skills. But instead, most of us are coped up inside our houses and were raised by refrigerator mothers. We missed major parts of our social development and as this guy proves, even if we do "make it", we'll just fuck it up somehow because we're not used to being around people.

This very accurately describes me tbh. When I actually had social skills though, making friends was really difficult. No one would accept me. Have had the same couple of friends for nearly a decade.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

This very accurately describes me tbh. When I actually had social skills though, making friends was really difficult. No one would accept me. Have had the same couple of friends for nearly a decade.

I don't even know where I'd make friends. Aside from not really having any opportunities for making them, I also have nothing in common with people my age so I'd have no idea what to talk to them with. I enjoy talking to people in their 40s and up way more than I do talking with people in their teens and 20s because with older people I don't have to worry about sounding "cool" or following the latest bullshit trend.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

that was fucking brutal.

i still wonder why he didn't just get on with the college chick, that was an amazing catch for a dude his age. muh "nothing in common" really, do you have more in common with an old woman that's slept with even more guys....like really......

 

[rahultmnt]

wagecucking has its merits

 

[Deleted member 1042]

that was fucking brutal.

i still wonder why he didn't just get on with the college chick, that was an amazing catch for a dude his age. muh "nothing in common" really, do you have more in common with an old woman that's slept with even more guys....like really......

He mentioned he can’t bond with anyone any more no matter how good they look. Mentions elsewhere his latest relationship is his last. It’s over.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

managed to get a high paying job after being NEET all his 20s

Literally how? A lot of shit missing here.

 

[Ugly_equals_Death]

This is fucking brutal

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Touching and true

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

He mentioned he can’t bond with anyone any more no matter how good they look. Mentions elsewhere his latest relationship is his last. It’s over.

i'm 31 and i'd bond with whatever woman was young, not uglier than me, and let me suck on her titties

 

[Schizoidcel]

Take the Houellebecq-pill