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The fact that I will never have a woman that I find very attractive bums me out

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I'm an incel now, and likely for the rest of my life.

But even theoretically, even if by some miracle I got my shit together and everything in my life changed, I will never get to the level of actually getting a woman that I find very attractive. At the very best I'd get an average looking woman, and that's a scenario that's almost fantasy. Men are the strong, provider sex, and yet we're being evaluated by our looks as are women, whose sole job is to be pretty and who don't bring anything else to the table.

I will never have the skinny blonde with a beautiful face that I dream of. Not in the best possible scenario, never.
 
I'm an incel now, and likely for the rest of my life.
I will never have the skinny blonde with a beautiful face that I dream of. Not in the best possible scenario, never.

Does that mean you dream of Stacy?
 
I see that's what bums you out. Every single of us have that kind of thing. For me my real ropefuel is the fact that I will never be a girl's first and at best I'd only get a woman who has been in multiple relationship. No such thing as waking up with kisses from a girl saying "hey honey I love you today. My first and only love"
 
Almost everyone here wants an attractive woman. We're incel because we will never get those attractive women.
 
you need to get more pilled my dude.

if a woman has decent, non-deformed/syndrome-like facial bones, then she is a stacy.

it doesn't matter how much fat there is no top of that, or how many other physical or mental issues. everyone wants her, because she is stacy in 2019.

it's over.
 
Does that mean you dream of Stacy?
Unless a man somehow castrates himself, he will always think of a Stacy. Even I, a person who despises women and everything their represent, have moments of weakness, particularly when I'm ... pent-up, when I start aching for a hot woman.
you need to get more pilled my dude.

if a woman has decent, non-deformed/syndrome-like facial bones, then she is a stacy.

it doesn't matter how much fat there is no top of that, or how many other physical or mental issues. everyone wants her, because she is stacy in 2019.

it's over.
I know that. This is not something that I can control, it's something very natural. Every man would desire such a woman, and that's exactly the problem, I do too. No amount of the blackpill will castrate me enough to not low-key desire a hot woman. Of course I hate women and especially hot women, I'd never actually waste my money or time on them, my desire for them just exists.
 
I'm more upset that I will never be able to get my racematch, who is also my looksmatch, and is my IQmatch.

High IQ women are heavily impaired by estrogen and actually funnily enough make very dumb decisions and are much less likely to breed. Shit is despicable. I would trust a man with a 130 IQ to make rational decisions over a woman with a 160 IQ for example.

I think a major blackpill that needs to be spread to IQ worshippers on this forum knew the truth is that it's not this magic be all end all that'll save you, IQ needs to combine with your bodies chemical balance, your neurological makeup, and you also need to be in a society/culture that's willing to utilize and harness it and not just let it rot away.
 
I'm more upset that I will never be able to get my racematch, who is also my looksmatch, and is my IQmatch.

High IQ women are heavily impaired by estrogen and actually funnily enough make very dumb decisions and are much less likely to breed. Shit is despicable. I would trust a man with a 130 IQ to make rational decisions over a woman with a 160 IQ for example.

I think a major blackpill that needs to be spread to IQ worshippers on this forum knew the truth is that it's not this magic be all end all that'll save you, IQ needs to combine with your bodies chemical balance, your neurological makeup, and you also need to be in a society/culture that's willing to utilize and harness it and not just let it rot away.
yeah I've given up on hoping for a mind match long ago, we just don't have the leverage to worry about a woman's mental capabilities, every single extra requirement means several more years of waiting alone.

if she's your race, younger than 25 and her face is just barely good looking enough to brighten your day, then it's go time. we're literally staring death in the face if we don't do that, through genetic annihilation.

i would make even more concessions if she was 19 or 20, at that point I'd be willing to teach her proper grammar, health practices, how to eat and cook and keep house, teach her job skills that I have and whatever the fuck, help her get a job, I would literally do anything.
 
in this world or you're a chad or you're a cuck everything depends on your genetics, it's a game already decided bro
 
I know that. This is not something that I can control, it's something very natural. Every man would desire such a woman, and that's exactly the problem, I do too. No amount of the blackpill will castrate me enough to not low-key desire a hot woman. Of course I hate women and especially hot women, I'd never actually waste my money or time on them, my desire for them just exists.
i must have been mind-broken because i don't perceive women above 6/10 to be real anymore, they are that unattainable. i just rank very average girls on whether their face rubs me the right way or not, and whether it would brighten up my day to have them around.
 
I would be happy with an average femoid as long as she isn't fat and hasn't already given birth. Trouble is an average bird probably is fat these days.

I could even (in the end) accept a fat girl if she had a nice personality and she was feminine and knew how to treat me well. It's ironic because my whole life the media told me that it's women that are attracted to personality, not looks but no, they aren't but I can be (as long as they aren't physically repulsive).
 
i have come to a point that i see 4/10 women as hot so i dont mind tbh
 
yeah I've given up on hoping for a mind match long ago, we just don't have the leverage to worry about a woman's mental capabilities, every single extra requirement means several more years of waiting alone.

if she's your race, younger than 25 and her face is just barely good looking enough to brighten your day, then it's go time. we're literally staring death in the face if we don't do that, through genetic annihilation.

i would make even more concessions if she was 19 or 20, at that point I'd be willing to teach her proper grammar, health practices, how to eat and cook and keep house, teach her job skills that I have and whatever the fuck, help her get a job, I would literally do anything.
Yeah just because it's what i'd want, I know its not what i'll get. I mean my looksmatch/racematch who are much more low IQ than I am will reject me, finding a looksmatch/racematch/IQmatch is beyond fantasy. It's truly over, think about this, even if you are able to breed with your racematch, your children will likely be inferior to you cognitively. This is very sad. People wonder why people seem to be stupider and why everything is getting worse, it's because of hypergamy, we are actually experiencing a form of neurological dysgenics as women choose to breed based on primitive hunter/warrior genes instead of things that can actually benefit society.
 
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I always desired a virgin foid with my looksmatch (or upper tbh), but I know I'd be impossible to find her, but even if I will manage to find her she would reject me anyways. It's over for me.
 
Yeah just because it's what i'd want, I know its not what i'll get. I mean my looksmatch/racematch who are much more low IQ than I am will reject me, finding a looksmatch/racematch/IQmatch is beyond fantasy. It's truly over, think about this, even if you are able to breed with your racematch, your children will likely be inferior to you cognitively. This is very sad. People wonder why people seem to be stupider and why everything is getting worse, it's because of hypergamy, we are actually experiencing a form of neurological dysgenics as women choose to breed based on primitive hunter/warrior genes instead of things that can actually benefit society.
true, high IQ women are pretty much commiting genetic suicide.
a lower IQ mate means your only chance is to go scattershot and have many children, arguably a good idea even if you had a high IQ mate given regression to the mean.
 
I'm an incel now, and likely for the rest of my life.

But even theoretically, even if by some miracle I got my shit together and everything in my life changed, I will never get to the level of actually getting a woman that I find very attractive. At the very best I'd get an average looking woman, and that's a scenario that's almost fantasy. Men are the strong, provider sex, and yet we're being evaluated by our looks as are women, whose sole job is to be pretty and who don't bring anything else to the table.

I will never have the skinny blonde with a beautiful face that I dream of. Not in the best possible scenario, never.
yes. you can still catfish as chad and stacy
 
We're incel because we will never get those attractive women.
No that's not why we're Incel.


We're Incel because we can't get our looksmatch.
 
Why is everyone so obsessed with blondes tbh tbh.I don't find them so appealing
I dont get it tbh. The taste is so generic at this point.
I'm more upset that I will never be able to get my racematch, who is also my looksmatch, and is my IQmatch.

High IQ women are heavily impaired by estrogen and actually funnily enough make very dumb decisions and are much less likely to breed. Shit is despicable. I would trust a man with a 130 IQ to make rational decisions over a woman with a 160 IQ for example.

I think a major blackpill that needs to be spread to IQ worshippers on this forum knew the truth is that it's not this magic be all end all that'll save you, IQ needs to combine with your bodies chemical balance, your neurological makeup, and you also need to be in a society/culture that's willing to utilize and harness it and not just let it rot away.
women
high IQ

pick one
Almost everyone here wants an attractive woman. We're incel because we will never get those attractive women.
 
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They exist, you just wouldn't really be able to tell because estrogen and other differences in their neurological structure impair their rationality, reasoning, logic, and judgement.
 
They exist, you just wouldn't really be able to tell because estrogen and other differences in their neurological structure impair their rationality, reasoning, logic, and judgement.
is there a study or article on this? im curious tbh
 
is there a study or article on this? im curious tbh
If we're talking about neurology
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There's also connections between brain hemispheres, brain size itself, amount of white matter, delayed reaction time (they actually see and experience the world at a slight delay compared to men, it's extremely slight, I forget if its milliseconds, or nanoseconds but its still relatively big if we're talking about on the fly decision making).

If we're talking about estrogen, I don't know about a specific study, but this is pretty basic stuff in the evolutionary biology world. All you need to do is look at degenerate men who transition into females and take HRT/Estrogen. Estrogen highly impairs rationality, decision making, and can even make you have the urge to get pregnant, even if you don't have a womb or are a biological female.

This is why I said, I would trust a man with a lower IQ to make decisions, than a woman with a higher IQ. IQ is not this magical main determining factor of the decisions you will make or how you will act, it can indeed influence it quite a bit, but some people because of their chemical makeup will be more inclined to make different decisions than others regardless of IQ. This can apply on racial lines aswell. A Black Man with the same IQ as a white man, will have a different chemical makeup making him more inclined to make different behavioral choices because for example, he might have more testosterone on average.
 
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