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Venting The extreme idealism my mother holds too blows my mind.

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Keep in mind that my mother is in her mid 50s and still believes complete horseshit like “if you respect others then others will respect you” or that “if your nice to others they will be nice to you”

She also seems to think that being well educated will get you everything you want in life, I.e, friends, happiness, foids, etc.

This is the fucking playground that normies have unconsciously put themselves in due to how they have had no fucking struggle in their day to day lives.
 
My mother is like that too. I've heard "efforts never betray" and "you'd stop being tired and bored if you imagine how successful you could be". This stupid charade ended after many years of fighting and heated discussions, and she just straight up told me "you can only rest and be happy when you die", when i told her i feel overwhelmed by everything. Boomers are incomprehensible retards, and they need to be purged off for good
 
its because that how it was like for HER back then my mom does the same and its getting on my fucking nerves i was talking with an older lady who is helping me with my depression and she spouted the same bullshit its so tiresome
 
My mother is like that too. I've heard "efforts never betray" and "you'd stop being tired and bored if you imagine how successful you could be". This stupid charade ended after many years of fighting and heated discussions, and she just straight up told me "you can only rest and be happy when you die", when i told her i feel overwhelmed by everything. Boomers are incomprehensible retards, and they need to be purged off for good
and somehow they still get positions of power
 
and somehow they still get positions of power
It's just the inheritance from the older generation. Being given power and the world on a silver platter and killing off any chance your children live happily just runs in their blood
 
It's just the inheritance from the older generation. Being given power and the world on a silver platter and killing off any chance your children live happily just runs in their blood
im so tired
 
I’ve come to think my parents are engaging in cognitive dissonance. I’ve said multiple times to them that I have no friends and they respond by saying that people my age (young adults) don’t have friends.
 
Keep in mind that my mother is in her mid 50s and still believes complete horseshit like “if you respect others then others will respect you” or that “if your nice to others they will be nice to you”

She also seems to think that being well educated will get you everything you want in life, I.e, friends, happiness, foids, etc.

This is the fucking playground that normies have unconsciously put themselves in due to how they have had no fucking struggle in their day to day lives.
She's a foid so obviously she doesn't know how much men have to suffer
 
Keep in mind that my mother is in her mid 50s and still believes complete horseshit like “if you respect others then others will respect you” or that “if your nice to others they will be nice to you”

She also seems to think that being well educated will get you everything you want in life, I.e, friends, happiness, foids, etc.

This is the fucking playground that normies have unconsciously put themselves in due to how they have had no fucking struggle in their day to day lives.
Even when I show her the black-pilled studies, she refuses to believe it. Humanism is a religion—The idea that every individual is born equal and deserves the same treatment.. Humanism is what we call blue pill
 
Boomers are stuck in time.

I know only two boomers who are pragmatic lol, my aunt and another dude, my aunt knows that most girls today are thots and the likelyhood of finding a girl that won't cheat on you is minimal, plus she understands most couples today can't tolerate each other thus divorces.

The other dude who was Chadlite knows without his $ he would not have a wife that is 30 years younger than him.

Besides these two boomers all boomers I've meet believe that effort = reward, which is not true, let alone in 2026 when we talk about Millennials and Zoomers.

Plus she is your mom, she MAY know the truth, but since the only women who are capable of love are mothers she may be lying to you so you 'keep going', no mother will admit their son is a failure, ever.
 
Boomers are stuck in time.

I know only two boomers who are pragmatic lol, my aunt and another dude, my aunt knows that most girls today are thots and the likelyhood of finding a girl that won't cheat on you is minimal, plus she understands most couples today can't tolerate each other thus divorces.

The other dude who was Chadlite knows without his $ he would not have a wife that is 30 years younger than him.

Besides these two boomers all boomers I've meet believe that effort = reward, which is not true, let alone in 2026 when we talk about Millennials and Zoomers.

Plus she is your mom, she MAY know the truth, but since the only women who are capable of love are mothers she may be lying to you so you 'keep going', no mother will admit their son is a failure, ever.
Do you think that she’s lying to her son or to herself?
 
Do you think that she’s lying to her son or to herself?

Honestly? I do not know, at least not when it comes to younger mothers (Millennials mostly).

Part of me wants to say she lies to herself but another wants to say to her son.

Between four walls is what truly matters, if she treats you nice when you are alone with her then she REALLY loves you.

This is why many narc mothers only treat their sons well in front of others but neglet then when alone, because after all her son is not doing his job as a man in society after all.

So her 'pride' is directly tied to how well you perform, you stop performing well she stops caring.
 
My mother knows that I am an incel and pays for my prostitutes literally.
 

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