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Discussion The difference between preferences and requirements (and my own requirements)

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Inspired by @The Judge's reply to a thread on this subject:
There is a difference between a preference and a requirement.

"I slightly prefer taller men" is a perfectly preference. Perfectly normal.

"I REFUSE to date any man under this specific height, even if we have everything in common!" is a requirement. An insane one, at that.

Take a guess which option women embody more?
The truth is, women believe we are shallow, when this is projection. They are the ones with absolutely delusional requirements such as 6ft+, having a model-tier face, etc.. While yes, all of us would like a virgin Stacy, the truth is, ALL of us know that is delusional. Which is why none of us have that as a requirement.

I want you to tell ME if MY requirements are delusional or not:
- Capable of having open, honest conversations.
- Able to respect boundaries.
- Able to take care of their own body.

The third point doesn't mean shaving/wearing makeup. What it means is showering twice a week, not being morbidly obese, and in general, staying healthy.

Also note what ISN'T on my list. For instance, virginity. I'm 18. I don't expect, assuming I even ascend at all, the girl I would ascend with to be a virgin. While I would like it, that is a mere PREFERENCE, not a requirement. I will, however, be very unlikely to go forward with a woman for anything long term if she has had more than 5 previous partners.
 
I made a thread on this before
 
When we talk about our "ideal" women, normies have to realize that those are preferences, not requirements.

They lack the intellectual honesty to admit they're wrong on us.
 
When we talk about our "ideal" women, normies have to realize that those are preferences, not requirements.

They lack the intellectual honesty to admit they're wrong on us.
:yes:
 
my requirements: dont talk and have sex with me
 

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