Serious The desire for attention

[Misogynist Vegeta]

While incels as a collective often get attention from society via articles or some normalfags dumb opinion, as individuals most of us are completely deprived of any attention at all, Nobody cares about our struggles and nobody cares about what we have to say about the world. It's why they still use strawman arguments to argue against us, They simply do not care as we are just a stepping stool for them to spread their "righteous" opinions to other normalfags.

While most aren't even aware of it the desire to be acknowledged is very basic human desire, These people aren't aware of this desire because for them it is very easily met by their friends, family and other normalfags taking attention to the things they have to say, Incels however are unique in that we have this desire rarely met if met at all. So we seek out attention in the only way we can. "ITbait" the simple idea of saying something awful to get a crowd of people who have obsessive hatred for us to pay attention to us, The desire for attention and acknowledge so strong that we even begin to seek a completely negative version of it.

It's quite sad to think about, the only way normalfags will ever pay to attention to us is if say things that anger them. They have no concern about our suffering, we could tell them the saddest tales about our lives and they would have absolutely no interest in hearing about it.

 

[Kamanbert]

It's true sometimes i get this feeling that women pay attention to me when i write here

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

There's definitely truth to that.

 

[NonNTFailure]

Normies don’t acknowledge my existence whenever I voice a concern, so I refuse to acknowledge theirs. At this point there’s been quite a few days at work where I barely say anything to anyone.

 

[Paladin]

This also extends to a lot of the forum drama that takes place on here. People wanna get attention from other users on here because this is the only place we really have.

 

[Grodd]

There's definitely truth to that.

 

[CosmicInjustice]

I used to text my brother constantly and he would never respond. I’ve constantly search for attention anywhere but it’s largely been rejected. So yeah, that’s definitely a reason why I’m forced to post here; there is not many alternative that are adequate.

Also, I was neglected by my parents as a kid, so I’ve never known attention. Usually the attention I’ve received IRL is predatory or purely transactional.