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The concept of "dating" is just stroking a woman's ego

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Contrary to popular "thought", it's actually females who have a much larger ego than males and have a far greater propensity for narcissism. First order thinkers will wrongfully point out that it is actually men who are more likely to be diagnosed with narcissism and from that fact we are supposed to deduce that men are more narcissistic. The actual truth is men are overdiagnosed with narcissism since this trait is less tolerated in males, whereas female narcissism is simply expected.

Looksmaxxers or vain men are considered narcissistic, yet this is normal behavior for women because of their "insecurities, bro" (men's fault). Narcissus literally fell in love with his own reflection just like the women who take photos of themselves day after day but one is considered pathetic and the other it's just "how they are".

Anyway, this is just an introduction to this thread about how "dating" just caters to women's inherent narcissism.

As everyone knows, women know which guys they want to date already within the first 5 seconds of meeting males. So why won't women take initiative and just approach the chads themselves? Well, sometimes they do but mostly they just "drop hints" and hope the Chad initiates. Not only this, but they also want attention from men they have NO interest in whatsoever. The concept of "dating" gives women a sense of power watching pathetic simps jump up and down like monkeys at the circus to entertain them while they sit back and get the "ick" from this or that ridiculous thing. In addition, they will do mental gymnastics to justify their "icks" which are never their fault and project their negative qualities outward. For instance, a woman who communicates like a retarded child passive aggressively will claim that the man isn't communicating.

Women are inherent narcissists and gaslighters. They know EXACTLY who they want to fuck right off the bat, yet willingly waste the time of men that they genuinely have no interest in whatsoever just to string them along for entertainment or sadism. After doing all that and to top it off, they will actually claim the man wasted THEIR time even though the whole time it was clear the man obviously was pursuing them romantically whereas the woman was deceiving. These women will put "DO NOT WASTE MY TIME" in their dating bios yet will waste the time of 99% of the simps in her inbox. Since women are inherent narcissists, they don't even consider the time of the men they wasted to even be valid.

Will women ever "look inward" and reflect on their petulant behavior? NOPE. Narcissists are shallow and lack internal reflection. Several generations of men before us were raised to see this behavior as just a part of life or "game" that they have to overcome. They simply see dancing like a monkey for woman after woman in hopes that one of them decides to fuck them as a last resort as "normal" and you're "WEIRD" (death sentence if you get called this BTW) or an antisocial criminal if you choose not to participate
 
Also I forgot to add that men's "ego" is often tied to real achievements or skills whereas women's "ego" is usually completely unearned
 
Must-Read Content section worthy thread.
 
Yes, and apparently agreeing with this is terrorism. If you want to know who controls you find out who you can’t criticize.
 
As everyone knows, women know which guys they want to date already within the first 5 seconds of meeting males. So why won't women take initiative and just approach the chads themselves? Well, sometimes they do but mostly they just "drop hints" and hope the Chad initiates.
This is why having autism is a death sentence for SMV. NT is law.
 
The very foundation of society is foid worship
 
Dating is a new feminist invention, people didn't date in the past they just picked the woman they wanted and were guaranteed to get her, dating ONLY benefits women
 
Must-Read Content section worthy thread.
Thank you, but I doubt I would ever have a must read thread and this has most likely been discussed many times before
 
I rather be the clown that pisses infront of a woman unprovoked , then to be this dancing monkey dumbass " .
 
Thank you, but I doubt I would ever have a must read thread and this has most likely been discussed many times before
Narcissism is one of the core traits of women, and you explained how narcissistic men and women get treated differently exceptionally well. There have indeed been other quality threads which have spoken about women's narcissism, like this one:
But I think you tread on new ground by making this direct comparison between men and women. It might be water, but it is essential water.
 
I think if you added more examples and go more in depth this should be in the must read section
 
I think if you added more examples and go more in depth this should be in the must read section
Thanks, my attention span is fucked though. I've been meaning to write more but I am lazy as hell since my brain has turned to mush
 

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