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How do you feel about this dynamic assuming you could experience it. I'd rather find my companion later in life and I feel like the relationship between man and woman who have been friends since early childhood and grew up together is closer to that of brother and sister rather than lovers.
 
I feel like the relationship between man and woman who have been friends since early childhood and grew up together is closer to that of brother and sister

What is the problem?
 
How do you feel about this dynamic assuming you could experience it. I'd rather find my companion later in life and I feel like the relationship between man and woman who have been friends since early childhood and grew up together is closer to that of brother and sister rather than lovers.
i haven't experienced it, but i assume it would not go well. your childhood foid friend would leave you for chad. you can't befriend an foid.
 
This is something that I wrote a few months ago:
people don't do incest because of nature. there are biological mechanisms naturally baked into humans, which makes them unable to comprehend or do incest. its our programming to ensure the fittest offspring. if we had no natural mechanisms. incest would be more commonplace.
 
people don't do incest because of nature. there are biological mechanisms naturally baked into humans, which makes them unable to comprehend or do incest. its our programming to ensure the fittest offspring. if we had no natural mechanisms. incest would be more commonplace.

Biological mechanisms reduce the likelihood of incest, sure, but they do not make it incomprehensible. Historical and anthropological evidence shows that incest has occurred in many cultures, so it is better understood as a social taboo reinforced by biology rather than an instinct that completely prevents it.
 
Well my childhood female friend turned into an obese normie, unrecognizable from the sweet girl I knew, but even back then her female nature was slowly creeping in, my male friends all got chopped too, no peace for a sensitive nostalgiccel. Could have been a cute story, but no.
 
Biological mechanisms reduce the likelihood of incest, sure, but they do not make it incomprehensible. Historical and anthropological evidence shows that incest has occurred in many cultures, so it is better understood as a social taboo reinforced by biology rather than an instinct that completely prevents it.
by incomprehensible. i mean that it doesn't cross their mind. as they don't see it that way. because, without these biological principles guarding us. a lot more people would see their sisters are nothing more than foids/friends, and therefore able to be fucked.
 
by incomprehensible. i mean that it doesn't cross their mind. as they don't see it that way. because, without these biological principles guarding us. a lot more people would see their sisters are nothing more than foids/friends, and therefore able to be fucked.

I understand what you mean, but thoughts like that do cross some people's minds; they are just rejected because of upbringing and social norms.
 
I understand what you mean, but thoughts like that do cross some people's minds; they are just rejected because of upbringing and social norms.
yeah i guess
 
i also had an simliar thing happen, but i had two sisters, one older, one younger. so i was the middle child :D

You are Turkish, so that is not surprising.
 
It would be cool I guess. I don’t really wanna think about it though since my childhood days are long gone.
 
i haven't experienced it, but i assume it would not go well. your childhood foid friend would leave you for chad. you can't befriend an foid.
That is what happened in my case, I had this tomboy female friend I had a crush on, met her during middle school. She was the only girl in a group of 5 other beta males. I was a blue pilled cuck at that time I even gave her a gift before she moved state. Can’t say I didn’t try and make a move, but iam just an ugly incel that can’t compete with looks, hight or dick. Turns out she had a crush on who I considered my best friend at that time the most outgoing and normal looking of the group. Fast forward like 10 years she managed to reconnect with my middle school best friend and apparently hooked up before he dumped her for being obsessive. I got this told 2nd hand as I had not kept in contact with them.

As a incel life manages to shit on you in creative ways.
 
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That is what happened in my case, I had this tomboy female friend I had a crush on, met her during middle school. She was the only girl in a group of 5 other males. I was a blue pilled cuck at that time I even gave her a gift before she moved state. Turns out she had a crush on who I considered my best friend at that time. Fast forward like 10 years she managed to reconnect with my middle school best friend and apparently hooked up before he dumped her for being obsessive. I got this told 2nd hand as I had not kept in contact with them.

As a incel life manages to shit on you in creative ways.
its horrific. and all of our copes are going out one by one.
 
I've never had anything like that, even though I would've loved to and it would've made my life experience much richer, but I would imagine it would in fact be something of a sibling-like relationship. Though I can imagine that it not being romantic would lead to her eventually betraying me for Chad.

That is what happened in my case, I had this tomboy female friend I had a crush on, met her during middle school. She was the only girl in a group of 5 other beta males. I was a blue pilled cuck at that time I even gave her a gift before she moved state. Can’t say I didn’t try and make a move, but iam just an ugly incel that can’t compete with looks, hight or dick. Turns out she had a crush on who I considered my best friend at that time the most outgoing and normal looking of the group. Fast forward like 10 years she managed to reconnect with my middle school best friend and apparently hooked up before he dumped her for being obsessive. I got this told 2nd hand as I had not kept in contact with them.

As a incel life manages to shit on you in creative ways.
Is it weird if I think that the saddest part of this is you falling out of touch with them?
 
I think it used to be like that , people having female friends in the village ending up marrying that friend.

The issue is that today your female friend have access to internet and know that you are a chopped mofos
 
I can't personally find any major issue with a romantic relationship that develops from a childhood one; it could even be considered naturally congenial—to grow up with a girl, make memories, and eventually grow closer.

Unfortunately, such a scenario is implausible if your physical attractiveness is inadequate and does not meet the ridiculous standards imposed by women. The relationship would gradually weaken as you age as it becomes one-sided and exploitative, and she will inevitably pursue Chad and leave you to rot.
 

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