autism?
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Most likely, but I never tried to get diagnosed. As a kid I had serious OCD though.
ur still thinking of a high school love. ur definitely ill bro.
I guess it's true that many users here missed out on teen love.
fall in love this fall in love that. u just liked how she looked. u cant truly love someone u know so little about.
then what does it mean to fall in love? at what point do you fall in love with someone, and how do you know that it's "true love"? BS. it's purely physical. you become infatuated with someone because of their looks, that's it. love at first sight is the only true love, knowing a person has nothing to do with it.
let me put it this way. would anyone here cry if their "oneitis died"?
How do you have such a perspective? People develop feelings from shared experiences. My oneitis and I lived close to each other so we regularly went to school and go home together. I developed a crush on her because we were physically so close to each other. Then I started teasing her and she was so cute when she would get mad at me. I enjoyed so much teasing her which was what made me fall in love with her. But I teased her too much so she started hating me and when she started ignoring me I got heartbroken. Shared experiences are what develop feelings between people. How could you say it's just looks?
If not, it's out of bitterness. Any betabuxxer would leave their mid wife for their oneitis despite knowing the wife better.
I can't speak for you but if you didn't find her cute the first time you laid your eyes on her, it wasn't true love, it was settling for what was around you. If prime Brooke Shields smiled at you once in high school you would think about her for the rest of your life.
I found her cute the first day I met her. But I didn't love her from day one. My feelings for her grew throughout the school year. I'm trying to understand your point.
My point is, that feeling you had day 1 WAS love, getting to know her didn't change that. If getting to know someone could make you fall in love, we would all be happily married to women with deformities. You need those butterflies in your stomach, at least that's how I see it.
How did you tease her specifically what kind of things did you say or do?
if they had that level of bitterness they'd no longer have an oneitis in the first place (a truly blackpilled individual wont have one anyway). the real reason is that their attachment is superficial, weak, and easily replaced. why cry when ur oneitis died when u hardly know anything about her, haven't spent enough time with her to grow attached, and can just find another girl to idolize immediately after. ur right that love at first sight is just lust and infatuation due to looks. real love takes time to build and knowledge of the one u love.
Whats superficial about it? It's a chemical reaction, the realest form of love there is. It can't be faked. If anything being attached to someone because of shared experiences is superficial. It's as if you couldn't find anyone better so you settled for this person you know well, but aren't attracted to physically. I feel if you need to convince yourself you love someone, you don't truly love them.
That's brutal man, most relationships don't even last that long, I'm already going crazy with half of that time. Thinking about it every day is too much. To think that sexhaver normies have the chance to make these dreams become reality sometimes, must be crazy...
True but maybe different people act on it in different ways. And sorry for your OCD, it's hell when it's actually serious.
Radical take, but it's true. Infatuation between two people only wanes over time, knowing a person has nothing to do with love and the honeymoon phase that is the cause of the relationship, but it starts to matter after that to keep the couple together.
If she never played along or flirted back then it was over from the start, no amount of compliments would have changed things.
It has been over 7 years for me.
