Serious Talked to a professional - He said I need to get in a social circle

[AntiPain]

He said I need to have a social circle and to communicate with women in order to actually take care of my unfulfilled sexual drive.
This didn't make me happy one bit, having to spend my fucking time around women for that seems so, so, pathetic.

I'm sick and tired of this. Most men-women relationships I need in places like high school and even in work places have really shown themselves to be a representation of men trying to get some pussy. All these fake ass "laughter" and jokes around young men-women are really just a cover up for the social jungle-like circus that is this life.

A girl laughing with an ugly ass goblin male making her stupid unfunny jokes and his bestial ass enduring that all for that laugh stock of a life - Just to get pussy.
Even "True" friendships between heterosexual attractive men-women always include sexual tension.

This is a fucking joke. I can't fucking walk outside without seeing this joke of a reality - Girls raising their SMV and social stance, men cucking and just enduring horrible unfunny "jokes" and "banter" with women for that sexual tension, this is fake.

You can not go to a regular normal social circle of young men and women without seeing this bullshit drama.
I can't believe this is what I have to do to get pussy while Chads need only be present to get this.

And let's say I entered a social circle, what next? My psychologist isn't going to be able to fix my genetic inferior traits.
And I'm not even low inhib, I'm not the type of guy that can actually build up confidence and be this attractive confident guy, I lack in both departments.
In contrary to bluepilled bullshit - Confidence and personality are also primarily genetic, yes, long term memory affects your behavior but so do other genetic components.

I'm genetically prone to being a soyboy, and only harsh reality and daily blackpills keep me awake.

 

[Getlooksordie]

good point.

I have basically completely given up trying to socialize. A lot of times I have funny and interesting stories to tell, but I never do. People, especially women have made my life a living hell, the last thing I want to do is entertain them and brighten their day with funny jokes or witty banter.

The women don´t want to fuck me anyway so I´m not gonna entertain them and be the dancing monkey.

 

[jerrycan dan]

Retarded advice, did he tell you how to get into a social circle?

 

[The Abyss]

Either play the game or say fuck y'all & make 'em suffER.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

"Just orbit some women bro."

Agreed so much. 99% of social interaction is part of the sexual human struggle. It is disgusting tbh.

Some training might not be wrong though.

Try to make him give you solid techniques how to become mentally stronger and then use this to apply your blackpill knowledge to advance further in RL. The bluepilled talk part of therapy is rather useless, avoid.

 

[AntiPain]

Retarded advice, did he tell you how to get into a social circle?

I wouldn't say it's a retarded advice, this is the beta's way, and I'm no chad, what can he already tell me? Go on Tinder to get blocked?
Sadly he's right, male goblins usually use these social tactics cause if it was their looks only the only thing they would hump would be an anime sex doll.

 

[The Abyss]

Retarded advice, did he tell you how to get into a social circle?

I bet he didn't or it was, just be confident, take a shower, smile a lot & take an interest in something they're doing.

 

[wizardcel]

LMFAO. Bluepilled advice.

 

[Deleted member 250]

to your therapist No fucking shit, you can't make friends if you have no frieneds

 

[AntiPain]

"Just orbit some women bro."

Agreed so much. 99% of social interaction is part of the sexual human struggle. It is disgusting tbh.

Some training might not be wrong though.

Try to make him give you solid techniques how to become mentally stronger and then use this to apply your blackpill knowledge to advance further in RL. The bluepilled talk part of therapy is rather useless, avoid.

He's not a regular liberal faggot "therapist" from Tumblr, but I hope he actually helps. I told him, if I feel it's not going anywhere I'll cut this.
But I am willing to take actual advice from him because up until now nothing else worked and I told him that as long as I roam the earth I'll at least try not be a martyr.

I do however have mental problems so I need a psychologist anyways because I'm also mentally deformed. He does give practical advice, it's a risk but I prefer this than rotting to death.

to your therapist No fucking shit, you can't make friends if you have no frieneds

Interestingly though males have found me to be funny and interesting or so it seems since some have actually talked to me without me initiating the conversation, girls how ever have shown distaste for me.

 

[tiredofthisshit]

just join a club bro

 

[Getlooksordie]

Social circle is somewhat legit though.

Your chances of getting a girl increase if you hang out with good looking, attractive people.

However in order to do that you need to be good looking and attractive yourself.

 

[AntiPain]

Social circle is somewhat legit though.

Your chances of getting a girl increase if you hang out with good looking, attractive people.

However in order to do that you need to be good looking and attractive yourself.

I hate this, I have a hard time socializing especially with unfunny and uninteresting people, so socializing with women doesn't look promising to say the least. I hate this, I didn't ask to be a god chad just to be able to feel like a human being and to not constantly suffer because of unfulfilled desires.

 

[Phallusy]

Social circle is somewhat legit though.

Your chances of getting a girl increase if you hang out with good looking, attractive people.

However in order to do that you need to be good looking and attractive yourself.

You have to be a respected and important member of a social circle though. You can't just be a passerby type that "hangs out" with a social group. Knowing someone by passing doesn't mean you're part of their group. Developing a close-knit connection and being renown within a group can take a long time and isn't easy, especially if you're older (and ugly).

Yeah, the good looking guys have their options of who to hang out with and which clique to immerse themselves from a very young age. There's no need to gain any respect either, it's already given, it's automatic

 

[Dr. Rothschild]

I hate this, I have a hard time socializing especially with unfunny and uninteresting people, so socializing with women doesn't look promising to say the least. I hate this, I didn't ask to be a god chad just to be able to feel like a human being and to not constantly suffer because of unfulfilled desires.

How old are you? If you're young you might still be able to get a social circle

 

[Deleted member 250]

 

[Indari]

my high tier normie 'friend' told me to hang out with girls and be myself yesterday

 

[Stoiccel]

Stop seeing these "professionals". Your problems go beyond most normie debbie downer days. WERe all fucked.

 

[Life Wasted]

Hope you didn't pay money to get that "advice". Going to professionals is a waste of time. You're just talking to some normie who will give you bluepilled platitudes. If that's what you want you may as well go over to cucktears and ask them for help and you'll get the exact same "advice".

 

[Lubricure]

He said I need to have a social circle and to communicate with women in order to actually take care of my unfulfilled sexual drive.
This didn't make me happy one bit, having to spend my fucking time around women for that seems so, so, pathetic.

The problem is that femoids eat time and resources like there's no tomorrow, and on top of that they have absurd requirements they won't lower because of pussy market value. I went to a couple of shrinks, my impression is that most of them are programmed to bluepill people and prevent them from going ER. I received the same advice, but I can tell you that it's totally bullshit. Social interactions are an exchange, and you can't really "interact" with a femoid, due to their super sayan tier solipsism.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

my high tier normie 'friend' told me to hang out with girls and be myself yesterday

should've made a pun about hanging yourself

 

[acnescarcel]

social circles are dead post college

 

[Kent]

You should honestly blackpill this "professional". LOL how is he going to refute the blackpill archive that backs up so much of the shitposts here?

social circles are dead post college

No they are on life-support post college...they are legitimately dead once people start getting married. No use to invite the weird loner friend to things.

 

[Gesidor]

Social circle is somewhat legit though.

Your chances of getting a girl increase if you hang out with good looking, attractive people.

However in order to do that you need to be good looking and attractive yourself.

Shit, i just realised that my whole lifetime i hanged with fucking low tier normies and even literal truecels.

And very few of my friends are "good looking and attractive". Your social circle affects your attractivness as well.

 

[shadowsoulz125]

Socialising is cope. If you arent the alpha good looking top dog in the circle your presence is dispensible.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

lol @ paying someone to tell you this shit.

 

[Figthcel]

Full fukkng agree

I am sick of small talk with foids at work. Guys hiding their dick agenda and foids their SMV agenda.

There is no honest talk between them. The only honest talk is between men cooperating on something.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

good point.

I have basically completely given up trying to socialize. A lot of times I have funny and interesting stories to tell, but I never do. People, especially women have made my life a living hell, the last thing I want to do is entertain them and brighten their day with funny jokes or witty banter.

The women don´t want to fuck me anyway so I´m not gonna entertain them and be the dancing monkey.

Last paragraph.

Full fukkng agree

I am sick of small talk with foids at work. Guys hiding their dick agenda and foids their SMV agenda.

There is no honest talk between them. The only honest talk is between men cooperating on something.

Second paragraph.

Socialising is cope. If you arent the alpha good looking top dog in the circle your presence is dispensible.

You should honestly blackpill this "professional". LOL how is he going to refute the blackpill archive that backs up so much of the shitposts here?


No they are on life-support post college...they are legitimately dead once people start getting married. No use to invite the weird loner friend to things.

1st paragraph.

 

[Blue Squirtle]

Either play the game or say fuck y'all & make 'em suffER.

you got the right idea.

 

[bakadesu]

“Just run social circle game bro “

 

[Blue Squirtle]

They all say the same thing, it's like they're programmed, being around foids when you're a manlet framecel isn't going to help you at all.

 

[AntiPain]

How old are you? If you're young you might still be able to get a social circle

Relatively young.

Full fukkng agree

I am sick of small talk with foids at work. Guys hiding their dick agenda and foids their SMV agenda.

There is no honest talk between them. The only honest talk is between men cooperating on something.

Yes, it's a joke. Even back then in high school you could feel the sexual tension that people tried to deny the existence of.
I fucking hate it, I don't want to socialize as a chore, I primarily want to not feel like a beast - So either make my sexual attraction disappear or try to fulfill it, as much as it could be a dream being a chad this isn't my goal nor could it be.

Fuck this, don't wanna talk to "heehee" girls if I don't find them actually interesting or funny, and I think most males I've seen feel the same - Difference is most of them just do it for a not so hidden sexual tension social relationships so they don't even expect humor or actual conversation.

The problem is that femoids eat time and resources like there's no tomorrow, and on top of that they have absurd requirements they won't lower because of pussy market value. I went to a couple of shrinks, my impression is that most of them are programmed to bluepill people and prevent them from going ER. I received the same advice, but I can tell you that it's totally bullshit. Social interactions are an exchange, and you can't really "interact" with a femoid, due to their super sayan tier solipsism.

Are your shrinks westerners? Mine isn't your liberal Tumblr "therapist" he is an actual professional.
But he has a point, if you're not a chad you can't expect women to just magically find interest in you, you have to actually work. That is given you're not a Gollum, being attractive isn't nearly enough to be able to avoid these social rituals.

 

[Fontaine]

If you're ugly, NTmaxxing will just give you friends, not opposite sex attention.

 

[Hunter]

fucking useless normieshit advice

 

[Felix97]

If you're ugly, NTmaxxing will just give you friends, not opposite sex attention.

fucking useless normieshit advice

 

[Lubricure]

Are your shrinks westerners? Mine isn't your liberal Tumblr "therapist" he is an actual professional.
But he has a point, if you're not a chad you can't expect women to just magically find interest in you, you have to actually work. That is given you're not a Gollum, being attractive isn't nearly enough to be able to avoid these social rituals.

Yes, they´re western. I´m happy for you that yours is better than average. I agree, being just attractive doesn´t cut it. You must be in the best echelon. I was told that I have to endure this social rituals, but I can´t really muster the patience anymore, given my looks and uncertainty of the outcome (which is close to always loss of time/resources). I tried and I failed too many times.

 

[randomloli]

Therapists: getting paid for stating the obvious

 

[Lord Byron]

Hope you didn't pay money to get that "advice". Going to professionals is a waste of time. You're just talking to some normie who will give you bluepilled platitudes. If that's what you want you may as well go over to cucktears and ask them for help and you'll get the exact same "advice".

You have to find a therapist that works for you. I usually advise people to try at least five before they give up on it. So much of its success is based on the doctor patient bond. There are different school with very different styles. The biggest problem isn’t that it’s uselss. It’s that it is difficult and expensive.

Most incels will need a male therapist. That's a difficult thing to find alone. They will also need a man who isn’t completely bluepilled. That’s another huge challenge, feminism has infiltrated the discipline to the extent they are actually taught feminist bullshit as part of their training.

Therapy is also a dangerous thing to do. Many incels are very angry. The very instant he panics and does something stupid, you may be subject to an involuntary order. There is also the fact that one you have a diagnosis, that can impact very heavily on your future choices, and is almost impossible to challenge.

Therapy can really help, if you can stand it. But it won’t help everyone. And it certainly is unlikely to cure an incel, because most of the time it’s based on factors outside the person’s mind/attitude.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

"JuSt bE MorE SosHuL TEeHeE"

 

[IsolationHurts]

I completely agree OP
Social relantionships are just a game, a fucking jungle where everyone tries to get what they want, to further they agendas, while pretending to do and think something different, even if everyfuckingone knows what you want perfectly. Its so painfully obvious that no girl is or is going to be funny ever, but everyone laughs like theres no tomorrow when any foid, specially stacy, makes the most unfunny joke possible. The lack of honesty is total in every social setting, everyone knows it, but they still want to play the social game because of sexual urges caused by our fucking genes. It makes me fucking sick. Its fucking impossible to not hate humans when you have to endure this fake shit again and again and again.

I also saw two therapists in the past. One told me that i suffered from social anxiety and the second told me that i sufferend from avoidant personality disorder, and both told me the same: the solution is basically making friends. Any of them believed me when i told them that i already tried it all, and that i just cant approach a group and try to befriend them, that never worked for me. I just stopped seeing them,they were 110% bluepilled, its like the main source of the bluepill comes from therapists i swear.

I have basically completely given up trying to socialize. A lot of times I have funny and interesting stories to tell, but I never do. People, especially women have made my life a living hell, the last thing I want to do is entertain them and brighten their day with funny jokes or witty banter.

The women don´t want to fuck me anyway so I´m not gonna entertain them and be the dancing monkey.

"Just orbit some women bro."

Agreed so much. 99% of social interaction is part of the sexual human struggle. It is disgusting tbh.

The problem is that femoids eat time and resources like there's no tomorrow, and on top of that they have absurd requirements they won't lower because of pussy market value. I went to a couple of shrinks, my impression is that most of them are programmed to bluepill people and prevent them from going ER. I received the same advice, but I can tell you that it's totally bullshit. Social interactions are an exchange, and you can't really "interact" with a femoid, due to their super sayan tier solipsism.

social circles are dead post college

Full fukkng agree

I am sick of small talk with foids at work. Guys hiding their dick agenda and foids their SMV agenda.

There is no honest talk between them. The only honest talk is between men cooperating on something.

Therapy can really help, if you can stand it. But it won’t help everyone. And it certainly is unlikely to cure an incel, because most of the time it’s based on factors outside the person’s mind/attitude.

Indeed

but I prefer this than rotting to death.

Lucky. Keep trying if thats true.

I hate this, I didn't ask to be a god chad just to be able to feel like a human being and to not constantly suffer because of unfulfilled desires.

Good luck. Ive given up, but i know this is not really a human life.

 

[AntiPain]

You have to find a therapist that works for you. I usually advise people to try at least five before they give up on it. So much of its success is based on the doctor patient bond. There are different school with very different styles. The biggest problem isn’t that it’s uselss. It’s that it is difficult and expensive.

Most incels will need a male therapist. That's a difficult thing to find alone. They will also need a man who isn’t completely bluepilled. That’s another huge challenge, feminism has infiltrated the discipline to the extent they are actually taught feminist bullshit as part of their training.

Therapy is also a dangerous thing to do. Many incels are very angry. The very instant he panics and does something stupid, you may be subject to an involuntary order. There is also the fact that one you have a diagnosis, that can impact very heavily on your future choices, and is almost impossible to challenge.

Therapy can really help, if you can stand it. But it won’t help everyone. And it certainly is unlikely to cure an incel, because most of the time it’s based on factors outside the person’s mind/attitude.

It does depend on the person.
I for instance do have mental problems regardless of my exterior and thus I do need a psychologist anyways, but yes, mentally healthy people can't solve some regular problems by merely going to a psychologist, psychology isn't magic, it's a field that specializes in specific subjects.

I agree that incels would need a male psychologist and not too bluepilled. People in general from the psychological/psychiatric field would generally be a lot more self restraining, but there's a difference between a good one and a Tumblr liberal trump hating therapist.
That is especially true if you're in places such as California where you really need to see the therapist is restraining his bias and tries to be professional.

As for the 5 though I can't say that, it costs money and time, better just check if it's a male for starters.

 

[SnakeBarrier]

Welp, this is what you get for paying 150 dollars to see a norman and him/her giving you basic norman trash advice.

 

[AntiPain]

I completely agree OP
Social relantionships are just a game, a fucking jungle where everyone tries to get what they want, to further they agendas, while pretending to do and think something different, even if everyfuckingone knows what you want perfectly. Its so painfully obvious that no girl is or is going to be funny ever, but everyone laughs like theres no tomorrow when any foid, specially stacy, makes the most unfunny joke possible. The lack of honesty is total in every social setting, everyone knows it, but they still want to play the social game because of sexual urges caused by our fucking genes. It makes me fucking sick. Its fucking impossible to not hate humans when you have to endure this fake shit again and again and again.

I also saw two therapists in the past. One told me that i suffered from social anxiety and the second told me that i sufferend from avoidant personality disorder, and both told me the same: the solution is basically making friends. Any of them believed me when i told them that i already tried it all, and that i just cant approach a group and try to befriend them, that never worked for me. I just stopped seeing them,they were 110% bluepilled, its like the main source of the bluepill comes from therapists i swear.










Indeed



Lucky. Keep trying if thats true.



Good luck. Ive given up, but i know this is not really a human life.

It is a fucking joke. It's still saddening to know that I'm held back so badly by my bestial urges, that I need to be fake to allegedly increase my chances of fulfilling it.

Having read threads and stories about romantic/social problems such as "my girlfriend might be cheating on me" "this dude tries to steal her from me" and stories such as love-triangles are just a fucking joke. It seems so redundant and uncalled for, yet this has and is the reality we live in.

As for your therapists, from my experience it depends on the political atmosphere that exists in your area. Naturally if you live in California chances are your therapist aren't going to be redpilled, and it does affect you. The location is one of the things to consider before actually knowing your therapist in a personal matter.

And thanks, I hope this "social circle" bullshit or the possible effort will pay off.

 

[50ChadsOfGrey]

Full fukkng agree

I am sick of small talk with foids at work. Guys hiding their dick agenda and foids their SMV agenda.

There is no honest talk between them. The only honest talk is between men cooperating on something.

Or with a prositute.
Prostitution might be the most honest male/female relationship. Ever.
And you know why ?
Like every single relationship it's TRANSACTIONNAL, this time everything is clear, BOTH m&f know it and they accept it. Sex versus money. You pay, you fuck, thank you & have a good day.

 

[Mokocchi]

>Going to therapist on your own volition

 

[grayjedi90]

He said I need to have a social circle and to communicate with women in order to actually take care of my unfulfilled sexual drive.
This didn't make me happy one bit, having to spend my fucking time around women for that seems so, so, pathetic.

I'm sick and tired of this. Most men-women relationships I need in places like high school and even in work places have really shown themselves to be a representation of men trying to get some pussy. All these fake ass "laughter" and jokes around young men-women are really just a cover up for the social jungle-like circus that is this life.

A girl laughing with an ugly ass goblin male making her stupid unfunny jokes and his bestial ass enduring that all for that laugh stock of a life - Just to get pussy.
Even "True" friendships between heterosexual attractive men-women always include sexual tension.

This is a fucking joke. I can't fucking walk outside without seeing this joke of a reality - Girls raising their SMV and social stance, men cucking and just enduring horrible unfunny "jokes" and "banter" with women for that sexual tension, this is fake.

You can not go to a regular normal social circle of young men and women without seeing this bullshit drama.
I can't believe this is what I have to do to get pussy while Chads need only be present to get this.

And let's say I entered a social circle, what next? My psychologist isn't going to be able to fix my genetic inferior traits.
And I'm not even low inhib, I'm not the type of guy that can actually build up confidence and be this attractive confident guy, I lack in both departments.
In contrary to bluepilled bullshit - Confidence and personality are also primarily genetic, yes, long term memory affects your behavior but so do other genetic components.

I'm genetically prone to being a soyboy, and only harsh reality and daily blackpills keep me awake.

Im so socially retarded it never began for me lol. In general i just can't connect or relate to other people. This makes it almost impossible for me to socialize in any social setting. Im lost like a fish in a desert