Serious Talk to thereapist about sexual orientation? Guilt?

[Blacksmith]

After some consideration, I have gone to therapy. Mixed results. After a few appointments, she has not changed me in any fundamental way. It helps a bit to talk, brings clarity.

Have brought up loneliness, but not guilt. Is there a point in discussing being a fat admirer, and not being able to find a woman?
And then potential guilt for only wanting a woman so overweight it is negative for her health, at least long term.
It might further reduce the therapist's willingness to guide and support me.

 

[certified_rizzicist]

You can't unblackpill yourself, it's just way too logically sound of a philosophy. The only thing you can try to do is get some dating success.

You should probably try to change that fetish though, that's fucking ridiculous bro.

 

[Autist]

Have brought up loneliness, but not guilt. Is there a point in discussing being a fat admirer, and not being able to find a woman?
And then potential guilt for only wanting a woman so overweight it is negative for her health?

What the fuck

 

[Blacksmith]

Ok, so two members here try to find someone possibly lower ranking to kick on, me.
Someone like me, not able to find a girl, and also with an unusual orientation. Nice going, tough guys.

 

[D. B. Gooner]

I was like "does he mean far admirer?", but no this nigga is a feeder

 

[anglocelticcel]

Therapy is useless mate

 

[Blacksmith]

Therapy is useless mate

Not completely, for me. It has helped my thinking.

 

[Vector2800]

Your fetish is fat women?

 

[Blacksmith]

I was like "does he mean far admirer?", but no this nigga is a feeder

?
Nigga?
Feeder?
Far admirer?

 

[D. B. Gooner]

?
Nigga?
Feeder?
Far admirer?

Nigga is short for nigger but in this context used as a substitute for "guy". Feeder is a nigga who wants his partner to grow as fat as possible, it's a fetish. Far admirer as in a person who has a crush on someone but won't interact with them, thats what I thought you said because I've never heard the term fat admirer.

 

[Blacksmith]

Your fetish is fat women?

Not a fetish. Fetish is external object replacing (or complementing) a partner.
But this is WHAT i want my partner to be like, so yes fat.
Normal size = no attraction.
For instance, Ana deArmaz (?) is a "1" in my book.

 

[Bulbasaur]

Bro's a chubby chaser

 

[bronxpete]

I was like "does he mean far admirer?", but no this nigga is a feeder

What the hell is that?

 

[Blacksmith]

Bro's a chubby chaser

Yes. So what?

 

[TooSomething]

I was like "does he mean far admirer?", but no this nigga is a feeder

Yeah, he is one. This is funny tbh.

 

[TooSomething]

Bro's a chubby chaser

Well, he doesn't discriminate, alright.

 

[Blacksmith]

Digressing.
Is it meaningful to discuss with a female therapist that I am a chubby chaser and that makes it even harder to find a girl, and adds taboo to the picture?

 

[Dolls & Gor]

Digressing

Only goal of "Therapy" is to bring about your social conformity. Personal sexual preference is completely irrelevant to these agents. They want you plugged in, happy drone, and  presto, the logic holds, from that will develop 'whatever you set your heart to'.

Or so their manner of speech goes. A higher order answer to your question would read thus :
—This female therapist is without doubt a vile human being in every way, a true 'foid' which would, in any setting apart from her soul-sucking career, enjoy humiliating you. You haven't seen enough of the other side, of domesticity, how people live when they go home from the slick office presentation.

 

[Blacksmith]

Only goal of "Therapy" is to bring about your social conformity. Personal sexual preference is completely irrelevant to these agents. They want you plugged in, happy drone, and  presto, the logic holds, from that will develop 'whatever you set your heart to'.

Or so their manner of speech goes. A higher order answer to your question would read thus :
—This female therapist is without doubt a vile human being in every way, a true 'foid' which would, in any setting apart from her soul-sucking career, enjoy humiliating you. You haven't seen enough of the other side, of domesticity, how people live when they go home from the slick office presentation.

Thank you for elevating the average IQ of the thread.
Your words ring true in my ears. She has no power or influence over me, but I can see her trying to manipulate male clients if she finds someone more naive.
I have much inner doubt about therapy, but also no idea what else could help, wrt loneliness and guilt.

 

[Dolls & Gor]

inner doubt

I choose to not forgive the society which let this torture occur upon me.

I don't care for their promises of getting back on track. It's a lie, because  lots of people suffer from "loneliness and guilt", so they too pay into the huckster circus which our current soul-doctoring is (– and medicine more widely).
On the other hand, if they provide you access to resources you find helpful, then go for it. Psst– this your juicy tidbit preference isn't going to much come into play there. (!)

Personally, I will never confide in a female of the "helping industries".
I will never consciously work to in any way help a female or male-who's-had-female-friends of the human species.
This is my protest, my insignificant revenge.

 

[Blacksmith]

Yeah, "confide" feels like a problem here. She (like EVERY OTHER WOMAN I have seen in that sector) is obviously left leaning, tattooed, not overly bright and probably has no kids (missing that element of maturation).
Very far from any woman I would like to spend time with otherwise.

Therapy for me is of little effect to society in general. I already have a job so I am supporting myself.

Could you please explain what you mean by resourses in relation to my "tidbit preference"?

 

[pauseforever]

If you'd like to discuss your particular romantic preferences, I would recommend talking to an AI chatbot instead of a therapist. A chatbot will also reply with healthy coping skills, alternative ways to look at things (you mention "[therapy] helped my thinking"), etc. A good chatbot will provide advice to all the problems you mention (just reword the prompt if it doesn't) rather than picking one or two points and dwell on them, as human therapists often do, in this case they may brush off your particular romantic preference and focus on generic advice for loneliness and guilt. Lastly, a chatbot is not a foid so it would be less judgmental around a potentially taboo topic

 

[Blacksmith]

If you'd like to discuss your particular romantic preferences, I would recommend talking to an AI chatbot instead of a therapist. A chatbot will also reply with healthy coping skills, alternative ways to look at things (you mention "[therapy] helped my thinking"), etc. A good chatbot will provide advice to all the problems you mention (just reword the prompt if it doesn't) rather than picking one or two points and dwell on them, as human therapists often do, in this case they may brush off your particular romantic preference and focus on generic advice for loneliness and guilt. Lastly, a chatbot is not a foid so it would be less judgmental around a potentially taboo topic

Thanks!
Tried the chatbot approach. It has some partial benefits, at least trying to validate there is no reason for guilt.
But for not finding any girl at all that is not taken, not insane, suitable age, and interested in me? It comes up with totally insane ideas, over and over. That part is a total fail.

 

[pauseforever]

Thanks!
Tried the chatbot approach. It has some partial benefits, at least trying to validate there is no reason for guilt.
But for not finding any girl at all that is not taken, not insane, suitable age, and interested in me? It comes up with totally insane ideas, over and over. That part is a total fail.

True, chatbots aren't all-knowing. But my point is, in your case, I don't think a therapist would be able to give you tailored advice regarding your particular romantic preference more than a chatbot can.

 

[EcstasyCel]

Better to like fat chicks than being attracted to tweens. At least according to feminist society, they would be very happy with you if you were a chubby chaser.

 

[Dolls & Gor]

Could you please explain

Just a passing jest, that your stated preference for hefty hildas was not going to be drawn on as 'useful' by the priestesses of Therapy, who are taught an inhuman concept of utility. Anyways, @pauseforever gave you much better advice.

Here's why. Make it harder for females to get work at their standard sinecure these days, being some form of 'counsellor' — as if they had any wisdom!
Still, use AI and get what is rapidly going to become its primary purpose, pacification of the citizenry. It's looking to be programmed only to speak that which is "mentally healthy", so accept its usefulness within those parameters, knowing they'll define algorithm based eradication of heresies as protecting us from mentally ill concepts.

I'm giving you some dense nuggets.
Personally, I'm currently enjoying a robust femdom relationship with my doll. She keeps me highly motivated and active in other ways throughout the day, considering the limited means imposed upon me by our glorious gynocentrism. If any of this is confusing to you, you're probably not cut out to last as Incel, and should go sell your soul to the former e-thot who payed her way through college camwhoring, and now gets to suck your insurance copay. Copay-piggie. That desperate for female attention?

Nah, you're probably smarter than that. Don't let other people say otherwise.

 

[Blacksmith]

Better to like fat chicks than being attracted to tweens. At least according to feminist society, they would be very happy with you if you were a chubby chaser.

Sure better than lusting for underage girls. But ovese women (and not taken etc) are rare here and do not seem interested in me.

 

[Lonelyus]

I talked about the onitis i had feelings for and how she ended up in multiple open relationships and how i felt crushed that she did this.

 

[Blacksmith]

Just a passing jest, that your stated preference for hefty hildas was not going to be drawn on as 'useful' by the priestesses of Therapy, who are taught an inhuman concept of utility. Anyways, @pauseforever gave you much better advice.

Here's why. Make it harder for females to get work at their standard sinecure these days, being some form of 'counsellor' — as if they had any wisdom!
Still, use AI and get what is rapidly going to become its primary purpose, pacification of the citizenry. It's looking to be programmed only to speak that which is "mentally healthy", so accept its usefulness within those parameters, knowing they'll define algorithm based eradication of heresies as protecting us from mentally ill concepts.

I'm giving you some dense nuggets.
Personally, I'm currently enjoying a robust femdom relationship with my doll. She keeps me highly motivated and active in other ways throughout the day, considering the limited means imposed upon me by our glorious gynocentrism. If any of this is confusing to you, you're probably not cut out to last as Incel, and should go sell your soul to the former e-thot who payed her way through college camwhoring, and now gets to suck your insurance copay. Copay-piggie. That desperate for female attention?

Nah, you're probably smarter than that. Don't let other people say otherwise.

Haha, a well worded and slightly provocative response! I do not mind.
Hmm. Northern Europe, so no insurance cost associated with therapy.
Also no real fees at university, so no need for her to try only fans etc to cover tuition.
And as she is normal weight, I feel no attraction. I can however see, that also for normal men, she does not score high.

>Sigh<
Forcing myself to phrase the above text works EXACTLY like good therapy does. By letting my thoughts take shape as a text/sentence, they also reveal themselves to me.

So I still have faith in therapy, but I really need a different therapist. That I can get.

Let me emphasize, trying to do this with an LLM has not worked for me, at least beyond removing guilt.

Thanks guys!

 

[Blacksmith]

I talked about the onitis i had feelings for and how she ended up in multiple open relationships and how i felt crushed that she did this.

You told the therapist?
Did you get any feedback?

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

she

Worst choice you could have ever made.

 

[Blacksmith]

Worst choice you could have ever made.

Public healthcare. Choice was made FOR me, not BY me. But I can change.

Doubt a dude will be much better.