Venting "Supportive" communities

[Misogynist Vegeta]

Lying to somebody about something just to be "kind" to them is not real support, It's not supportive to give someone a false confidence that will be completely shattered by reality, Real support is telling them the ugly truth and giving them ways to either work around it or giving them copes to deal with it. Whenever someone is told by a community like ours that they are indeed ugly their always so faggot who will sarcastically spew out "wow real supportive community you have here" as if lying to this person is actual support for them. No you don't support a schizophrenic person by playing into their delusions and you don't support someone whose an ugly loner by telling them everything will magically just be alright because it won't.

 

[|R12|]

Real support is telling them the ugly truth and giving them ways to either work around it or giving them copes to deal with it.

Hey Vegeta, isn't that what the bluepillers, normies and ITfags are trying to do to us?

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

Hey Vegeta, isn't that what the bluepillers, normies and ITfags are trying to do to us?

Bluepillers will literally tell to just keep dating because eventually you will find someone, ITfags and normies like to appear to others like they want to help but actually have no concern for us as they hand wave away all our problems as being solvable by therapists.

 

[|R12|]

Bluepillers will literally tell to just keep dating because eventually you will find someone, ITfags and normies like to appear to others like they want to help but actually have no concern for us as they hand wave away all our problems as being solvable by therapists.

Yes, that's our truth and what we really know, but this

Real support is telling them the ugly truth and giving them ways to either work around it or giving them copes to deal with it.

Normies might read this and think they are doing just what you say.

I think "Real support" is understanding what the other person decides to do, and stop bothering them if they don't take your advice.

You can't force on someone what you believe, because that's exactly what ITfags do as they think they are trying to save those incels who listen to the shit they say.

 

[Benteveo]

Telling a short man that no one cares about his height is an example. It's gaslighting.

 

[Leon98]

It’s their just world fallacy “If it worked for me then anyone can do it like I did”

 

[FuckYou]

Real support is telling them the ugly truth and giving them ways to either work around it or giving them copes to deal with it.

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