I don't think I'm breaking any new territory by saying guys get the short end of the stick when it comes to healing from being in abusive relationships, being shamed by boomers because "you let a chick hit you?", and having the problem be mostly overlooked by people even to this day, but honest to god I myself didn't even think much of it until it happened to me, it was in this moment when I realized how fucked things really are LMAO. About two years ago I started hanging around with this girl my age mostly because of a similar music taste and a similar class schedule, I never wanted something from her in return, never expected it at least, every time a sexual conversation started it was because of her, I was very depressed at the time and felt very insecure about opening to someone like that, still I tried my best to never let her down and actually replied back a few times,
I always knew she was an attention seeking type person but I mostly decided to overlook it as her having no one to talk to sooner than later I decided to ask her out and unofficially started dating soon after, I immediately realize she's a massive slut talking to three different people at the same time, giving out blowjobs and receiving dick pics like her life depended on it. When I confront her about it suddenly I'm the bad guy because I'm too controlling, you know asking her not so suck people off while we were seeing each other was "controlling", I once try actually making a move by touching her over the shoulder she then proceed to punch me in the face as hard as possible when i tell her how much it hurt she proceeds to laugh about it, soon she goes as far as to talk about being a slut openly and how much she craves being with someone else when she's with me, but the final straw came the day of her birthday, even tho the relationship was already crumbling
I make sure to get her a gift in an attempt to try to salvage it an expensive gift too, one that costed me nearly as much as my entire pay check I give it to her and expect nothing as usual later than same day i still manage to be disappointed the moment she proudly sends me a pic of her going out to eat with two men, she had a birthday party in which she invited both her ex and the guy she was sucking off but hadn't invited me I call quits and tell her to go fuck herself she then proceeds to block me on everything. I didn't give it too much attention and continue with my life, it wasn't until a week later I realized half my friends had cut all contact with me, rumors are being spread about me being an abuser and a monster, group chats are being made behind my back to talk shit about me, teachers stop joking with me and before I know it my entire image is ruined, I try to look for help with one of the only people who was still willing to listen to me, they tell me to "grow a pair" and asked if "i knew how the other girl was feeling about all of this". Lads, if you ever see a femoid with a hello kitty phone case, GTFO as soon as possible.
I always knew she was an attention seeking type person but I mostly decided to overlook it as her having no one to talk to sooner than later I decided to ask her out and unofficially started dating soon after, I immediately realize she's a massive slut talking to three different people at the same time, giving out blowjobs and receiving dick pics like her life depended on it. When I confront her about it suddenly I'm the bad guy because I'm too controlling, you know asking her not so suck people off while we were seeing each other was "controlling", I once try actually making a move by touching her over the shoulder she then proceed to punch me in the face as hard as possible when i tell her how much it hurt she proceeds to laugh about it, soon she goes as far as to talk about being a slut openly and how much she craves being with someone else when she's with me, but the final straw came the day of her birthday, even tho the relationship was already crumbling
I make sure to get her a gift in an attempt to try to salvage it an expensive gift too, one that costed me nearly as much as my entire pay check I give it to her and expect nothing as usual later than same day i still manage to be disappointed the moment she proudly sends me a pic of her going out to eat with two men, she had a birthday party in which she invited both her ex and the guy she was sucking off but hadn't invited me I call quits and tell her to go fuck herself she then proceeds to block me on everything. I didn't give it too much attention and continue with my life, it wasn't until a week later I realized half my friends had cut all contact with me, rumors are being spread about me being an abuser and a monster, group chats are being made behind my back to talk shit about me, teachers stop joking with me and before I know it my entire image is ruined, I try to look for help with one of the only people who was still willing to listen to me, they tell me to "grow a pair" and asked if "i knew how the other girl was feeling about all of this". Lads, if you ever see a femoid with a hello kitty phone case, GTFO as soon as possible.
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