Exactly, this is what my point is.
It isn’t easy to do, but you can build up a resistance to being mentally affected by what other people think of you. I think the best way to do this is to totally disregard your ego, it is the ego that most makes humans what they are in my opinion, traditionally it’s the driver behind most of our motivation, and usually the reason behind our most vulnerable fallibilities too. If you think about it, indulging your ego (essentially taking pride in who you are) doesn’t actually make any sense because no one really has a say in who they are and most of what makes you up as a person is beyond your control. Most humans don’t view it like this, but the truth is that taking genuine pride in who you happened to be born as is as unjustifiable as taking pride in the fact you happened to be born rich, total nonsense as it is entirely down to luck, and everyone can agree that taking pride in merely being lucky makes absolutely so sense.
So I suppose in conclusion; you can’t change the negative presuppositions people will make about you as a result of having been born ugly, or the fact they will view you as a lesser being for having been born a certain way. But you can come to understand the ridiculousness of the convention of judging yourself to be better than someone based on something they didn’t earn, and since nobody earned who they are that doesn’t actually make anyone any better or lesser than anybody else, though they may still perceive them self to be as a result of our flawed biases towards arbitrary metrics of value like aesthetic beauty.
I see your point
Some parts you make good points but you are playing with cuck ideas, you are on that line and some other part you go full cuck and soy, this was disgusting to read, you should change your post because its just too much soy. You should be banned for those cuck ideas for at least 3 days.
ADMINS PLEASE? wtf are we doing, I keep reading cucked things, these faggets need to lurk more before posting.
ADMINS PLEASE? wtf are we doing, I keep reading cucked things, these faggets need to lurk more before posting.
keep deepthroating my hairy cock and balls faggot
ahahaha okey
@mental_out
that's based af but im not sure my personal situation allows it tbh, because im not just ugly, in fact im not that ugly (but still not chad so its over), the main problem preventing me from being a normie is that my own parents bullied me growing up. i dont really value myself and i think if i fail to looksmaxx i'll just rope because becoming good looking is the only thing that could make my life worth living, otherwise its fucking over in all aspects, i'll be absolutely worthless
Are you a Spanish normie or is that a global normie """"""comeback""""""?
Anyway, that sentence is super cringe. Please go back to your little bluepill echo chambers where people are not allowed to vent negative feelings.
is there a difference between frustration and whining? i feel like i whine but i'm too low IQ to grasp what is being said here
for example i wanted to be a police officer when i was younger, but i lack the education levels and psychological abilities (i think the psych is 99% bullshit to begin with) to past the tests, i wanted to be a truck driver, just me and the road, but i failed to get my licence twice, i wanted to work in water treatment but my traineeship application was rejected. when you're constantly trying to escape from your current situation that you have been trapped in for years how exactly can you see it differently other than to express hopelessness and frustration? i am trying to do other things and not sit around and rot, but it's not really working. the constant rejection and failure always sets you back
for example i wanted to be a police officer when i was younger, but i lack the education levels and psychological abilities (i think the psych is 99% bullshit to begin with) to past the tests, i wanted to be a truck driver, just me and the road, but i failed to get my licence twice, i wanted to work in water treatment but my traineeship application was rejected. when you're constantly trying to escape from your current situation that you have been trapped in for years how exactly can you see it differently other than to express hopelessness and frustration? i am trying to do other things and not sit around and rot, but it's not really working. the constant rejection and failure always sets you back
It’s better to have a place to vent outside of just my head though so nah I think I’ll keep bitching
I'm naturally lazy, incompetent and hate hard work and have no passions, so I any self improvement will make me even more depressed
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Why do you keep on calling for people to be banned you pussy?
I won't stop.
Nice fake tag you troll.
Might as well have the balls to tag him yourself or maybe you're afraid you'll get banned for trolling lol.
@mental_out
What were the psychological repercussions of your parents bullying you? Are you NT or has it caused you a severe social deficiency? What total cunts by the way, I cannot imagine how sick you have to be to bully a child to the point where his self-worth is so severely damaged that he can no longer function properly. I hope they know they are entirely at fault for having caused such developmental damage and should be legally prosecuted for child abuse.
I dont hate myself I hate other people
Some of the things I say could be misconstrued as "self-pity" but I'm just saying how things are in this cold and harsh reality we have to exist in.
Thank you brocel this legit means a lot, most people wouldn't believe me or would just say that i should just take it bc they're family
The psychological repercussions are brutal in several ways, it's been 4 years since i left their house and severely reduced contact and im still a mess, and for the first few years i was barely functional. When actually living with them, I was a turboautist and had no social life and no life in general. It's hard to explain, saying there's been "repercussions" is an understatement because it has shaped my whole life. Fuck them.
It has caused severe social deficiency ofc, also yeah I can't imagine how they're so sick either. They deserve to face legal repercussions and to know what they did, but due to the repercussions of the abuse itself I can't even bring myself to so much as tell them. I did stop visiting them or calling them however bc otherwise it was impossible to mentally recover.
If you read some of my other posts, this is the reason why I'm 27 years old and just looksmaxxing now. Otherwise I would've done that earlier obviously. But up until 22 years old I was beyond autistic bc of them (I made a cringe compilation post about what my life was like), at 22 I got a job but got fired bc I was mentally unstable and also bc they directly sabotaged me, at 23 I tried again and successfully left them and until I was 24 I was too busy becoming financially safe, and that's when my life started. I'm 27 but you could say my life started 3 years ago which is just sad. That's why I barely had time to build up social skills etc yet.
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Reading this makes me genuinely angry. What specific things did they say/do to you that caused So much harm if you don’t mind me asking? If you ever want to send them a written message designed to elicit as much guilt and hard feelings as possible I could definitely help you with that.Thank you brocel this legit means a lot, most people wouldn't believe me or would just say that i should just take it bc they're family
The psychological repercussions are brutal in several ways, it's been 4 years since i left their house and severely reduced contact and im still a mess, and for the first few years i was barely functional. When actually living with them, I was a turboautist and had no social life and no life in general. It's hard to explain, saying there's been "repercussions" is an understatement because it has shaped my whole life. Fuck them.
It has caused severe social deficiency ofc, also yeah I can't imagine how they're so sick either. They deserve to face legal repercussions and to know what they did, but due to the repercussions of the abuse itself I can't even bring myself to so much as tell them. I did stop visiting them or calling them however bc otherwise it was impossible to mentally recover.
If you read some of my other posts, this is the reason why I'm 27 years old and just looksmaxxing now. Otherwise I would've done that earlier obviously. But up until 22 years old I was beyond autistic bc of them (I made a cringe compilation post about what my life was like), at 22 I got a job but got fired bc I was mentally unstable and also bc they directly sabotaged me, at 23 I tried again and successfully left them and until I was 24 I was too busy becoming financially safe, and that's when my life started. I'm 27 but you could say my life started 3 years ago which is just sad. That's why I barely had time to build up social skills etc yet.
It was more about the constant bullying than anything in particular they said, also, im in a state of fear and self doubt for as long as I can remember which suggest most of the damage was done when I was really young and can't really remember about it, but basically they told me I sucked and was worthless/retarded a lot, snapped and yelled at me for anything, one time for example I made my mom a fruit salad and, bc the pieces were too big, she went off on me and spend unironically 30 mins yelling at me that I was retarded and would never amount to anything
, shit like that. Also another example, my dad "taught me how to drive" and it consisted of him yelling at me the whole time in the car, and I took it like a cuck bc I didnt know that wasn't right as it was all I knew, and it actually made me a lot more nervous about driving and made getting a driver's license a lot harder.They also starved me, well, more like tried bc I fought back really hard on that, but had to go to bed hungry a handful of times. They also denied medical care and tried to tell me I was a hypochondriac to get away with it and repeated it so much I believed it, although now I realize I was more than reasonable and they were absolute cunts. Sometimes this kind of parents come up with "flaws" about you and repeat it so much you end up believing it and, even if you question it, thinking there's some truth to it, and its mind blowing when you realize it was 100% bullshit.
"If you ever want to send them a written message designed to elicit as much guilt and hard feelings as possible I could definitely help you with that." that's based af but unfortunately I can't even gather the courage to tell them they're abusive
only to stop talking to them (at least I'm not taking abuse anymore)
yeah just have sex incel
Wtf are you saying
what a massive cope.
Everything in life is about sex, if you're deprived of sex you're deprived of the primary purpose of life itself.
But yeah, just hit the gym bro and develop some hobbies, there's more to life than just sex!
Everything in life is about sex, if you're deprived of sex you're deprived of the primary purpose of life itself.
But yeah, just hit the gym bro and develop some hobbies, there's more to life than just sex!
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i don't have testosterone tbh and i'm useless at everything i'm just ldar until i die
Tbh lol
KekCatgirls or bust for me
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over for non 30k+ postcels tbh
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