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Blackpill Normies: "Incels Make Everything About Sex" (No, Everything ALREADY IS About Sex, Society Ransoms Women's Sexual Resources Against Men)

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That statement is one of the most foolish statements ever, because anyone who takes an honest look at society can see that everything is about sex, everything comes down to sex, its the primary motivator of all men, and men are the driving force of progress, innovation and development in a society

Nobody has to make everything about sex, sex already is everything, that is the nature of being a biological creature

THE PROCESS BY WHICH YOU CAME TO EXIST, AND BY WHICH YOU PROCREATE, IS THE CENTER OF YOUR EXISTENCE


ITS THE PRIMARY THING THAT DRIVES YOU

Men's sexual desire for women since the beginning of time has been the core driving force for invention, accruing wealth, fighting wars (the war for Helen of Troy is a well known example), etc

ITS ALWAYS BEEN ABOUT ACQUIRING THE MEANS TO CLAIM A WOMAN, IMPRESSING WOMEN, ACQUIRING RESOURCES TO ENTICE A WOMAN, SHAPING SOCIETY SO THAT ITS SAFER FOR WOMEN AND THE CHILDREN THEY PRODUCE (YOUR CHILDREN), ETC

Also women have always been the "spoils of war" and treated as such to get soldiers, mercenaries, etc to march to their deaths, all for the chance to claim a woman for yourself



Sex today is used to sell everything from books, tv shows, movies, games, cartoons, etc

ITS NOT MONEY THAT MAKES THE WORLD GO AROUND, ITS SEX, SEX JUST COSTS MONEY AND/OR RESOURCES

You ask the average man why he's buying an expensive car, wearing "fancy" suits and jewelry, buy "brand name" products, etc and his answer will be TO ATTRACT WOMEN

Society functions by ransoming women's sexual resources against men, to coerce and/or force men to be the instruments of labor, progress, invention, innovation, security, etc

SOCIETY IS THE MIDDLE MAN (PIMP), ALL WOMEN ARE ITS WHORES AND ALL MEN ARE THE "JOHNS"


All progress throughout the ages has basically happened via society leveraging women as a resource, to get men to work, invent, innovate, steal, murder, sacrifice, etc

EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX

TO DENY THAT IS TO DENY NATURE AND REALITY ITSELF
 
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Yeah, I agree. But a lot of it is coping with religions, politics, group-affiliations and so on, too.
 
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I really wish there was a way to like threads. You usually cover all the bases, and there's too many good choices to quote. You'd make a great psychology professor.
 
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I really wish there was a way to like threads. You usually cover all the bases, and there's too many good choices to quote. You'd make a great psychology professor.

I always planned on doing a psychology degree one day, but I don't see the point of getting any degree these days, I just want wealth, all knowledge is pretty much free these days, you can find a torrent for an entire psychology course and all the materials you'd need, so I could just learn whatever knowledge I seek itself and gain whatever use it provides me
 
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I always planned on doing a psychology degree one day, but I don't see the point of getting any degree these days, I just want wealth, all knowledge is pretty much free these days, you can find a torrent for an entire psychology course and all the materials you'd need, so I could just learn whatever knowledge I seek itself and gain whatever use it provides me
I got a psychology degree before I got blackpilled. I still have plans to get a masters degree once my health issues are resolved. Men need blackpilled therapists. I was saying that you'd make a good professor, not that you would benefit from getting the degree itself.
 
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Pop culture is filled with sex, sex seems to be the primary thing that normies talks about and what occupies their minds and yet when confronted about it like this they like to downplay the importance of it. That gotta be one of the most obvious NPC traits.
 
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That gotta be one of the most obvious NPC traits.

Normies have this weird thing where its not that they just lack self awareness, their mind puts up walls and they actively flee from self awareness, if you try to make a normie aware of something they will hate you for it, they don't want to have existential thoughts, they just want blissful ignorance and to think of nothing but their own enjoyment
 
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I strongly dislike being repetitive,
But i would buy a book with such truths inside it.

I have the feeling so would many men man!
 
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Society functions by ransoming women's sexual resources against men, to coerce and/or force men to be the instruments of labor, progress, invention, innovation, security, etc
this is some of the highest iq shit i've ever seen
 
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Humans are just animals with clothing and speech tbh
 
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That statement is one of the most foolish statements ever, because anyone who takes an honest look at society can see that everything is about sex, everything comes down to sex, its the primary motivator of all men, and men are the driving force of progress, innovation and development in a society

Nobody has to make everything about sex, sex already is everything, that is the nature of being a biological creature

THE PROCESS BY WHICH YOU CAME TO EXIST, AND BY WHICH YOU PROCREATE, IS THE CENTER OF YOUR EXISTENCE


ITS THE PRIMARY THING THAT DRIVES YOU

Men's sexual desire for women since the beginning of time has been the core driving force for invention, accruing wealth, fighting wars (the war for Helen of Troy is a well known example), etc

ITS ALWAYS BEEN ABOUT ACQUIRING THE MEANS TO CLAIM A WOMAN, IMPRESSING WOMEN, ACQUIRING RESOURCES TO ENTICE A WOMAN, SHAPING SOCIETY SO THAT ITS SAFER FOR WOMEN AND THE CHILDREN THEY PRODUCE (YOUR CHILDREN), ETC

Also women have always been the "spoils of war" and treated as such to get soldiers, mercenaries, etc to march to their deaths, all for the chance to claim a woman for yourself



Sex today is used to sell everything from books, tv shows, movies, games, cartoons, etc

ITS NOT MONEY THAT MAKES THE WORLD GO AROUND, ITS SEX, SEX JUST COSTS MONEY AND/OR RESOURCES

You ask the average man why he's buying an expensive car, wearing "fancy" suits and jewelry, buy "brand name" products, etc and his answer will be TO ATTRACT WOMEN

Society functions by ransoming women's sexual resources against men, to coerce and/or force men to be the instruments of labor, progress, invention, innovation, security, etc

SOCIETY IS THE MIDDLE MAN (PIMP), ALL WOMEN ARE ITS WHORES AND ALL MEN ARE THE "JOHNS"


All progress throughout the ages has basically happened via society leveraging women as a resource, to get men to work, invent, innovate, steal, murder, sacrifice, etc

EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX

TO DENY THAT IS TO DENY NATURE AND REALITY ITSELF
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Starving people make everything about food.
 
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For some reason after seeing it like this I started reading it with Samuel Jacksons signature scream voice :feelskek:


we opening some motherfuckin windows
 
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Starving people make everything about food.

My point is we don't have to make anything, it was already a fact of life, were just the only ones being honest about it, because were starved of it, we don't get to live in the illusion that there is "more to life" because were looking from an outside looking in perspective
 
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The premise that incels are angry because they can’t get sex is false.
The vast majority of incels are high inhib guys that only want companionship, but are cruelly rejected for shallow reasons. This makes us get angrier and angrier. A lot of normie guys are incel but either don’t know it or don’t admit it (due to recent demonization). The incels normies encounter online (I.e this forum) are the ones that have had enough
 
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normies: "not everything is about sex incel!1!"
also normies: *shoehorns romance/sex into all movies,songs,literature etc., constantly talks about sex and relationships,pays more attention to stuff if it features sexual content in it*
 
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The premise that incels are angry because they can’t get sex is false.
The vast majority of incels are high inhib guys that only want companionship

I have to call BS on this, the majority of incels aren't Low T and emotional thinkers, you are just projecting

Are you seriously saying you would take "companionship" without sex?

Also be specific, what does "companionship" entail?

Can't you do those things with male friends, sexual intimacy is the only difference between a relationship with a male friend and a "girl friend"/wife, so I don't get what you mean by "companionship", your male friends can be your companion, its seems rather odd to pedestalize women as these beings who are the gate keepers of "true companionship" as though these "companionship" activities can't be done with male friends

If all you want is "companionship" then why not just have it with a man, seems like you are just dancing around the fact that what you want is "sexual intimacy", that doesn't necessarily mean sexual intercourse, but it revolves around it, its "foreplay", stop saying vague BS like "companionship", tongue kissing, hand holding, cuddling, etc with a woman are all just light forms of foreplay and they are all sexual in nature
 
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I strongly dislike being repetitive,
But i would buy a book with such truths inside it.

I have the feeling so would many men man!

i have a section of my blackpill book dealing with a similar theme...however, i argue that incels want more than just sex. i can post it if youre interested.

the entire book will be released within the next two weeks fwiw - its about 275 pages long
 
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Very high IQ and something many normies know is true, but say otherwise so they can convince themselves that they are "better" than a mere animal built to fuck.
 
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The premise that incels are angry because they can’t get sex is false.
The vast majority of incels are high inhib guys that only want companionship, but are cruelly rejected for shallow reasons.

partly right. incels want both sex AND intimacy. they want to climb the whole fucking mountain. sex just gets latched onto as the primary motivator because... normie logic.
 
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Indeed, the only true goal we have biologically is to reproduce, this means that the only thing that matters is having sex and reproducing.
 
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i have a section of my blackpill book dealing with a similar theme...however, i argue that incels want more than just sex. i can post it if youre interested.

the entire book will be released within the next two weeks fwiw - its about 275 pages long
Sure brother I'll take a look. But i was referring to @BlkPillPres because he has a lot of angery smart. He has a interesting point of view...

I ain't seen too much of your stuff tbh. But I'll take a look.
Indeed, the only true goal we have biologically is to reproduce, this means that the only thing that matters is having sex and reproducing.
When i put on my (((glasses))) i see the propaganda saying, "marry and reproduce." But i always get refused.
 
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Indeed, the only true goal we have biologically is to reproduce, this means that the only thing that matters is having sex and reproducing.
Reproducing as an incel?
That is very cruel.
 
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It is true and it fucking hurts to know. Passive individuals are concerned about maintaining oneself by preserving the type nature bestowed on the species. The human species uses us to sustain itself. Love is also the result of this situation. Love is the illusion that the will of the species creates upon us. The genre essentially selects the people with whom it can protect its type the most (these types are already determined by the genre's will.) Then it leads you to turn to it, causing a range of emotions that you think you can't name. What you actually want is, no matter how much you deny it, to make love to that person and create a new individual.

For example, the reason why men like fuller breasts is to ensure that the will of the species can be fed abundantly by the new individual to be brought into the world. However, a man can think of it as a personal choice that arises from individual will. But it isn't.
 
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in ww1 the army made women distirbute white feathers to men in britain to simbolize their """cowardice""" to not enlist in said army.
Just a simple example. You can look it up. I think this also happened in ww2. ww3 we will see the same thing. dont fall for it.
 
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Well said, and should be pinned. It's hilarious that cucktears reject sex as a primary motivator. They think people create ideas and sacrifice themselves out of pure ideology. Cucktears and soyboys are sending mating signals through what pop culture deems virtuous. If foids say they don't want to mate to save the planet, those cucks will end their genetic line to impress the hole.
 
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Normies have this weird thing where its not that they just lack self awareness, their mind puts up walls and they actively flee from self awareness, if you try to make a normie aware of something they will hate you for it, they don't want to have existential thoughts, they just want blissful ignorance and to think of nothing but their own enjoyment
Could this be the reason why everyone gets drunk so often?
 
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EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX

TO DENY THAT IS TO DENY NATURE AND REALITY ITSELF


Tbh its really about creating a distraction for incels/sub8s....Chad is given another message...the opposite...that nothing is more important than him being a procreator/father/boyfriend/etc.


Cliffs: JBC Theory (Just be Chad)
 
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Men's sexual desire for women since the beginning of time has been the core driving force for invention, accruing wealth, fighting wars (the war for Helen of Troy is a well known example), etc
ITS ALWAYS BEEN ABOUT ACQUIRING THE MEANS TO CLAIM A WOMAN, IMPRESSING WOMEN, ACQUIRING RESOURCES TO ENTICE A WOMAN, SHAPING SOCIETY SO THAT ITS SAFER FOR WOMEN
All of this sounds cucked ngl.
 
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All of this sounds cucked ngl.

1. I don't see how, especially for the first part about "acquiring the means to claim a woman", there's some implied "force" there

2. You do see the irony in saying this whilst having a femdom fetish right?, cucked is right up your alley, whats more cucked than wanting to submit to a woman and have her dominate you?

Well other than being an actual cuck, but when you think about it, those men who are cucks have just taken the elements of femdom sexuality and extrapolated it onto their relationships dynamics, their women dominate them, and they are the submissives, they merely added another man to the picture
 
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1. I don't see how, especially for the first part about "acquiring the means to claim a woman", there's some implied "force" there

2. You do see the irony in saying this whilst having a femdom fetish right?, cucked is right up your alley, whats more cucked than wanting to submit to a woman and have her dominate you?

Well other than being an actual cuck, but when you think about it, those men who are cucks have just taken the elements of femdom sexuality and extrapolated it onto their relationships dynamics, their women dominate them, and they are the submissives, they merely added another man to the picture
I was talking about the legend of Troy. Some soy-fag troy prince runs away with the spartan kings wife, causing a bloody war that got his older brother mauled by Chad Achilles.
 
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This is why incels should fap 3 times a day, it keeps you from being controlled with sex
 
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This is why incels should fap 3 times a day, it keeps you from being controlled with sex

Its hard to be "controlled" by something that isn't anywhere in your vicinity JFL
 
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“Sex is like air; it's not important unless you aren't getting any.”
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Normies get sex with their partners regularly so its no something they even think about as an issue.
Whenever theyre not in relationship, their short tem sexless lif eis most often a temporary thought.
Sex is also like money.
The entire world revolves around it but those who complain about being poor are very often silenced by the satisfied majority.
 
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Sure brother I'll take a look. But i was referring to @BlkPillPres because he has a lot of angery smart. He has a interesting point of view...

I ain't seen too much of your stuff tbh. But I'll take a look.

I have 8 misconceptions surrounding inceldom.

This is the #2 misconception, here is an excerpt from the book:

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2. “Incels believe they are entitled to sex.”

Nope – this is just an easy way to demonize incels for an overly simplistic interpretation of entitlement.

Incels are entitled to a sexual drive – just as any non-incel is.

But they are not out in public ordering women to drop their pants. Incels are just frustrated that women do not find them sexually attractive enough to want to sleep with them. This frustration expands far beyond the realm of sex. Overwhelmingly, incels just want a normal life, nothing special, just to be able to partake in dating, and intimacy, and love, and hopefully, have a family someday.

After years and years of rejection, unfortunately, many do not even see a strategy to activate a path to this basic life model.

The act of sex is an indispensable part of the intimacy that incels want, but it is still just one aspect of several. To cuddle; to kiss; to hold and be held; to look someone in the eyes and see that she wants to be with you: these features of a standard relationship are all part of the intimacy that incels desire. Of course, once that variety of affection and intimacy is established, sex often follows naturally.

If intimacy were a mountain, sex would just be the ice-covered peak – and incels do not just want to plant the flag on the summit they want to climb that whole fucking thing.

We need to stop pretending that, solitary “sex” (masturbation), is real sex. Digital pornography cannot mimic the expressiveness of an actual intimate sexual outing with a willing partner. This claim, alongside the claim that, “greater sexual access is no longer just the purview of the most attractive, the wealthiest, the most discreet, or the biggest risk-takers” are both patently absurd.

This is not a preference of lingo, it is just reality. Sex is sex. Sitting in your bedroom, lonely and dejected, binging nightly on digital pornography, while fantasizing about an actual companion who would never consider you as a romantic prospect is sad and depressing. Masturbating is not and should not be considered as a permanent, lifetime replacement for a real-life, willing partner.

Sure, masturbation has its benefits, but not when it is your only source of intimacy or sexual behavior. It is a substitute.[ii]
The reason why incels (and non-incels) want intimacy is quite simple - humans have both an instinctive drive to want sex, and a remarkably deep-seated need for being touched in a benign way. For incels, these very strict biological demands are remaining unfulfilled.

One incel confesses to other members of the online community:

“The only extended physical contact I've received in recent memory was when I had my annual mental breakdown a month or so back, and I was sitting there sobbing like a bitch, so my mother and father came over and just gave me a hug while I cried. For a little while afterwards it was like 30 years of this crushingly immense amount of pain and stress and anger was temporarily lifted off my shoulders for a few precious minutes. I can't even begin to imagine how much healthier and happier I'd be if I experienced that on a regular basis.”

It is strange how a public misunderstanding of incels created this illogical leap that sexless men - who desires intimacy, and who want to be physically or emotionally valued - would feel entitled to commit physical assault or rape. Not only are these acts reprehensible and illegal – they are acts that most incelibate men would be mentally, emotionally, and probably physically incapable of performing.

The rationality just is not there. Sexual assault and rape are the literal opposite of wanting to feel loved or desired. Conceptually, these are two inherently opposing and incompatible concepts. Wanting to feel desired or appreciated necessitates that someone places value into you, which means that no force or coercion of any kind can or should be involved.

Of course, desiring love, intimacy, and sex are natural – especially when those needs have been unmet for extended periods, if not your entire life. We must look at incels, in general, as people with extremely common and normal desires - not as would-be criminals wanting to commit heinous, abusive, and violent acts.

It is totally understandable to feel a sense of loss, regret, or even resentment for opportunities lost and needs left unfulfilled during arguably the prime years of one’s life (not just in terms of physicality but also circumstance). These are normal and reasonable feelings.

It is shocking to observe people who are in a position of privilege regarding attractiveness (we will later discuss how attractiveness empowers and privileges people in nearly every arena of life) could so carelessly and easily flaunt that advantage and use it as a tool to shame, vilify, and delegitimize unattractive men. At the very least, we should be able to expect some level of self-awareness and humility.

The precise reasons why incels cannot fulfill this need for intimacy varies on a case by case basis. And it is almost always a combination of varied factors.

The potential limiting factors are described in further detail in Chapter VII – What Women Find Attractive.

Regnerus, M. (2017). Cheap sex: The transformation of men, marriage, and monogamy. Oxford University Press.
[ii] Kontula, O., & Haavio-Mannila, E. (2003). Masturbation in a generational perspective. Journal of Psychology & Human Sexuality, 14(2-3), 49-83.
 
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I have 8 misconceptions surrounding inceldom.

This is the #2 misconception, here is an excerpt from the book:

_________________

2. “Incels believe they are entitled to sex.”

Nope – this is just an easy way to demonize incels for an overly simplistic interpretation of entitlement.

Incels are entitled to a sexual drive – just as any non-incel is.

But they are not out in public ordering women to drop their pants. Incels are just frustrated that women do not find them sexually attractive enough to want to sleep with them. This frustration expands far beyond the realm of sex. Overwhelmingly, incels just want a normal life, nothing special, just to be able to partake in dating, and intimacy, and love, and hopefully, have a family someday.

After years and years of rejection, unfortunately, many do not even see a strategy to activate a path to this basic life model.

The act of sex is an indispensable part of the intimacy that incels want, but it is still just one aspect of several. To cuddle; to kiss; to hold and be held; to look someone in the eyes and see that she wants to be with you: these features of a standard relationship are all part of the intimacy that incels desire. Of course, once that variety of affection and intimacy is established, sex often follows naturally.

If intimacy were a mountain, sex would just be the ice-covered peak – and incels do not just want to plant the flag on the summit they want to climb that whole fucking thing.

We need to stop pretending that, solitary “sex” (masturbation), is real sex. Digital pornography cannot mimic the expressiveness of an actual intimate sexual outing with a willing partner. This claim, alongside the claim that, “greater sexual access is no longer just the purview of the most attractive, the wealthiest, the most discreet, or the biggest risk-takers” are both patently absurd.

This is not a preference of lingo, it is just reality. Sex is sex. Sitting in your bedroom, lonely and dejected, binging nightly on digital pornography, while fantasizing about an actual companion who would never consider you as a romantic prospect is sad and depressing. Masturbating is not and should not be considered as a permanent, lifetime replacement for a real-life, willing partner.

Sure, masturbation has its benefits, but not when it is your only source of intimacy or sexual behavior. It is a substitute.[ii]
The reason why incels (and non-incels) want intimacy is quite simple - humans have both an instinctive drive to want sex, and a remarkably deep-seated need for being touched in a benign way. For incels, these very strict biological demands are remaining unfulfilled.

One incel confesses to other members of the online community:

“The only extended physical contact I've received in recent memory was when I had my annual mental breakdown a month or so back, and I was sitting there sobbing like a bitch, so my mother and father came over and just gave me a hug while I cried. For a little while afterwards it was like 30 years of this crushingly immense amount of pain and stress and anger was temporarily lifted off my shoulders for a few precious minutes. I can't even begin to imagine how much healthier and happier I'd be if I experienced that on a regular basis.”

It is strange how a public misunderstanding of incels created this illogical leap that sexless men - who desires intimacy, and who want to be physically or emotionally valued - would feel entitled to commit physical assault or rape. Not only are these acts reprehensible and illegal – they are acts that most incelibate men would be mentally, emotionally, and probably physically incapable of performing.

The rationality just is not there. Sexual assault and rape are the literal opposite of wanting to feel loved or desired. Conceptually, these are two inherently opposing and incompatible concepts. Wanting to feel desired or appreciated necessitates that someone places value into you, which means that no force or coercion of any kind can or should be involved.

Of course, desiring love, intimacy, and sex are natural – especially when those needs have been unmet for extended periods, if not your entire life. We must look at incels, in general, as people with extremely common and normal desires - not as would-be criminals wanting to commit heinous, abusive, and violent acts.

It is totally understandable to feel a sense of loss, regret, or even resentment for opportunities lost and needs left unfulfilled during arguably the prime years of one’s life (not just in terms of physicality but also circumstance). These are normal and reasonable feelings.

It is shocking to observe people who are in a position of privilege regarding attractiveness (we will later discuss how attractiveness empowers and privileges people in nearly every arena of life) could so carelessly and easily flaunt that advantage and use it as a tool to shame, vilify, and delegitimize unattractive men. At the very least, we should be able to expect some level of self-awareness and humility.

The precise reasons why incels cannot fulfill this need for intimacy varies on a case by case basis. And it is almost always a combination of varied factors.

The potential limiting factors are described in further detail in Chapter VII – What Women Find Attractive.

Regnerus, M. (2017). Cheap sex: The transformation of men, marriage, and monogamy. Oxford University Press.
[ii] Kontula, O., & Haavio-Mannila, E. (2003). Masturbation in a generational perspective. Journal of Psychology & Human Sexuality, 14(2-3), 49-83.
High quality stuff there bro!
 
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High quality stuff there bro!


hey man, thanks i appreciate that, so much. this book has taken me over 6 months to write and im hoping to have it published on amazon by the weekend.
 
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hey man, thanks i appreciate that, so much. this book has taken me over 6 months to write and im hoping to have it published on amazon by the weekend.
Be sure to have Incel in the title!

It's really good and logical. You may want to promote it by doing interviews on various podcasts and radio stuff to get the word out.

I sure hope there's a chapter about the reasons we're "mad." And ofc bullies. And... Well.

Anyway it's better than i can do. Keep up the good work!
 
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But we kinda dont though.I dont see sex craving here anywhere as much as wanting a companion
hey man, thanks i appreciate that, so much. this book has taken me over 6 months to write and im hoping to have it published on amazon by the weekend.
bro.Tell me when you've placed it on amazon
 
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Be sure to have Incel in the title!

It's really good and logical. You may want to promote it by doing interviews on various podcasts and radio stuff to get the word out.

I sure hope there's a chapter about the reasons we're "mad." And ofc bullies. And... Well.

Anyway it's better than i can do. Keep up the good work!

it's called.

The Blackpilll Theory: why incels are right and you are wrong.

I'm going to market it strongly for sure - any advice on getting the word out to various podcasts? - i really just want to disseminate the message to as many people as possible.

here is the chapter by chapter breakdown. its 280 pages

Introduction
What is The Book About?
Warning to Incel Readers

Chapter I. Understanding the Incel Problem
Accurate Meaning of Incel
The Mischaracterization of The Word Incel
Dismissing Critics – The Biggest Incel Misconceptions

Chapter II. What is The Blackpill
The Refutation of The Just World Fallacy

Chapter III. The Background of The Blackpill
Nature & Nurture
The Bluepill
The Redpill

Chapter IV. Life is Easier When You Are Attractive
The Importance of Sex
Mental Health & Social Exclusion

Chapter V. What Women Find Attractive
Is It Really All About the Face?
The Importance of Being Tall
Just Be Confident Bro (Personality/Intelligence)
I Ain’t Sayin’ She’s a Gold Digger
Dual Mating Strategy & Hypergamy

Chapter VI. Dating Apps
“Dating Apps Are Not Real Life”
The Blackpill & Online Dating
“Chadfishing”
Research & Conclusions

Chapter VII. What Can You Do If You’re an Incel
Self-Improvement & A Positive Mindset
Is Therapy Worth It?
MGTOW
Consequences of Inceldom on Society
 
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