i have long left the incel "community". while i am an incel and will be for a long time, i dont enjoy spending time in these spaces. i only joined here out of loneliness, i was looking for brocels who could sympathize with each other and be the friends to those who saw the rest of the world as their enemy...but the sincere racism(directed at my group, rather than self-hate racism) ruins this place for me as any sort of way to connect in a human way to others like me. ive returned to just post some truth to those who didnt get as lucky as i did with life
I am a non-NT ethnicel who lives amongst a lot of normies and has a normie life and normie friends and i see a lot of normie interactions every day. i was a "weird" kid who grew up indoors and sheltered, and turned out effeminate clingy emotional etc. but as an adult i moved away from home and finally went into the real world and started just observing how normal people act. its like watching TV i finally understand how social dynamics and appropriate human behaviour/interaction works, bit by bit
I just want to bring one FACT to all brocels attention-
Laugh off the rare, don't let them weigh, pay attention to what's common, come what may.
STOP TAKING EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULE AS TRUTH. this hyberbole only distorts your view of reality. i see some idiotic incels arguing over some USELESS INCONSEQUENTIAL BULLSHIT OF NO EDUCATIONAL VALUE because their reality is so warped. you can probably start a thread on "why women get tattoos to ward off sub5 men" and some freaks will actually spend whole day discussing this shit
some examples-
women do NOT have a bodycount of 300 "on average", its likely closer to 6-8 at age 21 for urban western women. it is high, but not so ridiculously exaggerated and FALSE.
most women do not have an onlyfans. prostitution is done by a small minority of women that appears large because you follow the lives of "internet people" who are already attention whoring themselves out in some way
you will NOT get reported to the police for talking to women...stop fear mongering incels into being afraid of asking whether a bus seat is occupied. its so fucking ridiculous, even if you are Subhuman-3000, women will likely say no so you go away or they will pick up their bags and return to scrolling tiktok/instagram. yes you will get a disgusted look. no she will not call the police on you. this was originally a failed normie COPE for why they didnt approach women, but now i see it everywhere
the % of women who use online dating apps
seriously is so indescribably small, its crazy that there is full male subculture dedicated to either dating app pickup or "LOL@ these entitled women". everyday couples meet through common friends, college, work, and sometimes at a bar.
(this may be different in the US, but this is what ive observed living in europe)
money is not that important when "picking up" women. you just need to be able to afford good clothes, and be able to pay for a fancy date...its not only millionares who can do that. looks and NT/game are way more important
BBC/brown people taking all our white women is COPE.
JBW is law. ive seen many people IRL talk about how "the BBC" etc. meanwhile in reality black people are the most hated ethnicity, public enemy #1. i travel a lot and i have seen 10x more W.EU male- non-W.EU female couples than ANY combination of IR relationships with a black man... its not even close. ive seen enough of (sometimes not so)subtle anti-ethnic behaviour from europeans as well as educated, affluent "international" people. even for these BBC couples, the guy is always tall, fashionable, ripped, masculine and social. you seriously putting down black people who have -6 points in looks for being black for getting white gfs by having these other desirable traits and being an exception?? look at most of the blacks and arabs, are 170cm and if they dont dress in expensive fashionable style they look like homeless/hoodrats which women do not go anywhere near.most of my friends are arabs/muslims and they are the second most hated race here, women treat you like an unpredictable animal and you get treated like shit. seriously put this JBW argument to rest, ive seen many many white guys who are nerdy, feminine, awkward etc. etc. ( i can tell many real stories that ive seen) who still get attention and sex from women(of all ethnicities)
all women dont expect a 6 foot man. go out in public into a city center and you will see there is little truth to this.realistically its about 175cm(5 cm less than 6ft!!- this is a huge difference! like 40% more of the human population from the tallest 5%ile!). women being taller than them is required,absolutely true
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there are truths that are actually discussed and broughtt into the light on mens spaces like attractiveness rating, desirable features, NT/game/pick up/manipulation, looksmaxxing, gamemaxxing, dark triad and sexually successful personality traits, how buff is too buff, human sexual selection, female behaviour,how masculine is too masculine etc. but i feel like these spaces have completely lost their minds in the last few years and are just discussing things that are already known for the 10000th time or discussing bullshit like "how starbucks is RACIST towards white incels by marketing towards women [3000 replies]"