ok so if you had a terrible environment then why the fuck are you saying bluepilled shit like an incel and chadlite will have completely different lives under the same bad environment?
Dropping the smug sarcastic crap.
For the sake of argument, let's pretend that this Chadlite (8/10 dude), had the EXACT same problems I did, minus bullying (I don't think I need to tell you that very attractive people don't get bullied, outside of some VERY rare exceptions). He was abused by his parents, he was born in poverty, he is suicidal, so on.
My argument here is that I and him, will have different lives, not completely, but different, based on, our exterior. And those things will affect our mental state in different ways.
Back when I was in High School, I was getting double timed. Abused at home, bullied and humiliated out loud, because I was butt ugly (They told me). I had no highs, just lows, that has been the case, till this day. I was completely alone, and my self esteem was non-existent. I was a complete freak.
A Chadlite, who went to school, while being abused at home, will have a easier time making friends, and attracting attention from girls (If you are gonna argue that's not the case, then I literally don't know what to tell you), He is quite probably experiencing teen love/hook ups/sex. He is probably getting some sympathy, if he is open about what he is dealing with. Abuse and poverty.
And just that fact, will shape him differently, then it shaped me.
The Chadlite, had highs and lows, during his equally as shitty as mine, upbringing.
While I, an fucking ugly Incel, had only lows. Had no friends (despite trying), had no sympathy, and attention from girls? haha, what a joke.
While also being bullied. While also being abused, and while also being suicidal.
My mental state, and his mental state, will be quite different as we age.
He will very much still have trauma, and bad mental consequences from his past. I don't deny that in the slightest.
But, he will also have a level of self esteem, and confidence in himself, that I will never have. And he will continue to have, because a Chadlite in his mid to late 20s, is still going to be, a Chadlite.
He had happy moments. He had pleasure. He had moments of peace.
While also, going through bad shit. That I again, don't dismiss.
I, and other people like me, did not have those.
That is pretty much my argument.
If your argument is that me and Chadlite, will have a equally bad life, then I will agree to disagree with you.