RageFuel "Stop caring what people think about you. Just love yourself!"

[deleted fren]

I cannot think of anything dumber than "just stop caring what people think about you. What you think is all that matters."

This is advice given by someone who's obviously privileged in life and ignorant to what it's like to have almost the entire population discriminate against you.

Ofc, these same people wouldn't tell someone "oh, people are racist but it doesn't matter. All that matters is what you think!"

And they're too ignorant to understand that lookism is far worse and common than racism.


People have evolved to see ugly people as a threat

Little is known about the psychology of ugliness. We propose that ugliness judgments are linked to the behavioral immune system, alerting us to objects that may contain potentially harmful diseases. Exploring this possibility, in five studies (N = 1,552), we found that ugly human faces (Studies 1a and 1b), ugly animals (Study 2), and—to a lesser degree—ugly buildings (Study 2) elicit disgust controlling for other avoidance-motivated emotional responses. Furthermore, the presence (vs. absence) of disease cues were found to elicit ugliness judgments (Studies 3 and 4) suggesting that ugliness judgments respond to cues of pathogen presence. As such, ugliness may activate the behavioral immune system, alerting us to stimuli that pose pathogen risk.

Ugliness Judgments Alert us to Cues of Pathogen Presence - Christoph Klebl, Katharine H. Greenaway, Joshua Ju-suk Rhee, Brock Bastian, 2021

Little is known about the psychology of ugliness. We propose that ugliness judgments are linked to the behavioral immune system, alerting us to objects that may...

journals.sagepub.com

And looks effect your career far more than sex or race. Especially in men. A study found that unattractive men earned ~9% less per hour than average-looking men, while handsome men earned ~5% more; for women, unattractive individuals earned ~5% less, and attractive ones earned ~4% more

Physical attractiveness and the accumulation of social and human capital in adolescence and young adulthood: assets and distractions - PubMed

Beauty has a well-documented impact on labor market outcomes with both legal and policy implications. This monograph investigated whether this stratification is rooted in earlier developmental experiences. Specifically, we explored how high schools’ dual roles as contexts of social relations and...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

In middle school, a study showed that ugly males are more likely to be bullied and mocked than other groups.

Students who perceived themselves to be more physically attractive than their peers reported sexually bullying others more, being sexually bullied by others more, observing more sexual bullying, and having more friends who sexually bully others than did students who perceived themselves as average looking. In addition, males who perceived themselves to be less physically attractive than their peers reported being victimized more and reported observing more sexual bullying in the school environment. These findings highlight the importance of physical attractiveness in the early initiation of sexual harassment. Implications for future research and interventions with early adolescents are discussed.

The relationship between self-perception of physical attractiveness and sexual bullying in early adolescence - PubMed

The relationship between self-perception of physical attractiveness and four measures of sexual bullying behavior (victimization, perpetration, having friends who sexually bully, and observation of sexual bullying among peers at school) was examined in a sample of 396 middle school age students...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Unattractive people are more likely to be bullied at work

Unattractive people more likely to be bullied at work, new study shows

p(image-right). !/assets/106124/judge_timothy_200dpi.jpg(Timothy Judge)! It’s common knowledge that high school can be a cruel environment where attractive students are considered “popular,” and unattractive kids often get bullied. While that type of petty behavior is expected to vanish with...

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Looks based discrimination is more prominent than discrimination based on ethnicity when it comes to hiring.

Remarkably, in second place was not ethnicity — the most studied discrimination ground worldwide — but low physical attractiveness, which led to 37% fewer positive responses. Age as a ground for discrimination ranked in third place at 34%. This phenomenon is more widespread in the European Union than in the United States.




Ethnicity was in fourth place with 29% of people receiving fewer positive responses for this reason. The study found there is hardly any recruitment discrimination against applicants from Northern or Western European minority groups.

Physical attractiveness pays off in the labour market, research finds

Low physical attractiveness was the second most common discrimination ground, leading to 37% fewer positive responses to job applications globally.

www.brusselstimes.com

Unattractive men are less likely to be hired in general due to the prominence of women in hiring positions.

Frontiers | Beauty is in the eye of the employer: Labor market discrimination of accountants

This research investigates labor market discrimination based on physical appearance in Israel’s Certified Public Accountant firms. Using a survey questionnai...

www.frontiersin.org

Being unattractive has a major on men's ability to find a partner but not women's

“male attractiveness had a massive effect on a man's ability to find a partner… in all areas of study, no major effects were seen for women based on their attractiveness

Unattractiveness effects men's ability to make social connections more than women's

For males, physical attractiveness related positively to the quantity of social interaction with females and negatively to that with males; for females, attractiveness did not relate to the quantity of socializing. Attractiveness related positively to the

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[ZeeZ]

Just love yourself

 

[AdolfRizzler]

Just love yourself

 

[aryanmikmaq]

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I cannot think of anything dumber than "just stop caring what people think about you. What you think is all that matters."

This is advice given by someone who's obviously privileged in life and ignorant to what it's like to have almost the entire population discriminate against you.

Ofc, these same people wouldn't tell someone "oh, people are racist but it doesn't matter. All that matters is what you think!"

And they're too ignorant to understand that lookism is far worse and common than racism.


People have evolved to see ugly people as a threat

Ugliness Judgments Alert us to Cues of Pathogen Presence - Christoph Klebl, Katharine H. Greenaway, Joshua Ju-suk Rhee, Brock Bastian, 2021

Little is known about the psychology of ugliness. We propose that ugliness judgments are linked to the behavioral immune system, alerting us to objects that may...

journals.sagepub.com

And looks effect your career far more than sex or race. Especially in men. A study found that unattractive men earned ~9% less per hour than average-looking men, while handsome men earned ~5% more; for women, unattractive individuals earned ~5% less, and attractive ones earned ~4% more

Physical attractiveness and the accumulation of social and human capital in adolescence and young adulthood: assets and distractions - PubMed

Beauty has a well-documented impact on labor market outcomes with both legal and policy implications. This monograph investigated whether this stratification is rooted in earlier developmental experiences. Specifically, we explored how high schools’ dual roles as contexts of social relations and...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

In middle school, a study showed that ugly males are more likely to be bullied and mocked than other groups.

The relationship between self-perception of physical attractiveness and sexual bullying in early adolescence - PubMed

The relationship between self-perception of physical attractiveness and four measures of sexual bullying behavior (victimization, perpetration, having friends who sexually bully, and observation of sexual bullying among peers at school) was examined in a sample of 396 middle school age students...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Unattractive people are more likely to be bullied at work

Unattractive people more likely to be bullied at work, new study shows

p(image-right). !/assets/106124/judge_timothy_200dpi.jpg(Timothy Judge)! It’s common knowledge that high school can be a cruel environment where attractive students are considered “popular,” and unattractive kids often get bullied. While that type of petty behavior is expected to vanish with...

news.nd.edu

Looks based discrimination is more prominent than discrimination based on ethnicity when it comes to hiring.

Physical attractiveness pays off in the labour market, research finds

Low physical attractiveness was the second most common discrimination ground, leading to 37% fewer positive responses to job applications globally.

www.brusselstimes.com

Unattractive men are less likely to be hired in general due to the prominence of women in hiring positions.

Frontiers | Beauty is in the eye of the employer: Labor market discrimination of accountants

This research investigates labor market discrimination based on physical appearance in Israel’s Certified Public Accountant firms. Using a survey questionnai...

www.frontiersin.org

Being unattractive has a major on men's ability to find a partner but not women's

Unattractiveness effects men's ability to make social connections more than women's

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brutal

 

[The Wolf]

I do not really care what people think about me... when I was in my early 20s, I did more. Today, instead, I care HOW they express these thoughts. Whether it is -- soon, looking for a job and being rejected -- or, for the past 15 years, through words, some form of sound, or with their mouth or eyes, how weird/"funny" I look (some random grown-ass man said this to his wife once). This is very DISRESPECTFUL.

 

[MRHK_57]

Just love yourself

I'd love to see me dead.

 

[The Wolf]

Correction: I do care, of course. I just care more how they express their disgust. And of course, that I'm less desirable than a piece of shit on the floor.

 

[deleted fren]

Just love yourself

"That's the real reason people love Chad bro! He loves himself!" Yes, that's definitely it and not the fact that Chad is constantly bombarded with positive reinforcement which leads him to have a high opinion og himself. Just love yourself after the constant humiliation, failure, rejection, and mockery.

I do not really care what people think about me... when I was in my early 20s, I did more. Today, instead, I care HOW they express these thoughts. Whether it is -- soon, looking for a job and being rejected -- or, for the past 15 years, through words, some form of sound, or with their mouth or eyes, how weird/"funny" I look (some random grown-ass man said this to his wife once). This is very DISRESPECTFUL.

What they think is just as important. Even if they don't verbalize their thoughts, those thoughts will dictate their actions and negatively effect you.

 

[The Wolf]

"That's the real reason people love Chad bro! He loves himself!" Yes, that's definitely it and not the fact that Chad is constantly bombarded with positive reinforcement which leads him to have a high opinion og himself. Just love yourself after the constant humiliation, failure, rejection, and mockery.



What they think is just as important. Even if they don't verbalize their thoughts, those thoughts will dictate their actions and negatively effect you.

Yes I corrected myself in the other comment

 

[AdolfRizzler]

its over when u realize that a dog have higher chances of fucking a human foid than an ugly short men

 

[deleted fren]

Correction: I do care, of course. I just care more how they express their disgust. And of course, that I'm less desirable than a piece of shit on the floor.

Yes. It hurts more when they share what they think about you. However, the disgusted looks are almost just as bad imo. Some of them are still carved into my mind despite occuring several years ago. (They still happen frequently nowadays too)

its over when u realize that a dog have higher chances of fucking a human foid than an ugly short men

Absolutely brutal. Women are such perverted cruel creatures, aren't they?

 

[McFlurryCel]

Just love yourself

but not enough

 

[FuckYou]

sometimes I think about telling people about lookism but I know it's pointless. you'll always get the same mindless NPC responses. "God has a plan for everyone bruh!" "you can do anything huhuhhuh!"

 

[Lonelyus]

I dont care about normscum anymore, They are retarded viscious creatures, Who cares what they would think, Ignore them.

Well i hope an alien mothership abductsthem, Probes them and sends them to hell!

 

[ImperialArk]

This is advice given by someone who's obviously privileged in life and ignorant to what it's like to have almost the entire population discriminate against you.

More people need to hear this, just like that "money can't buy happiness" shit propaganda by the oligarchy

 

[AdolfRizzler]

sometimes I think about telling people about lookism but I know it's pointless. you'll always get the same mindless NPC responses. "God has a plan for everyone bruh!" "you can do anything huhuhhuh!"

i told some people about lookism, but not in blackpill terms, simpler things like how face height makes u, pointless, NEVER GET UP, ldar is law!

 

[deleted fren]

sometimes I think about telling people about lookism but I know it's pointless. you'll always get the same mindless NPC responses. "God has a plan for everyone bruh!" "you can do anything huhuhhuh!"

Or worse yet, they'll shun you about laziness and tell you to work harder. Men sharing their struggles is rarely met with sympathy. Especially if they hold unattractive genetic traits.

I dont care about normscum anymore, They are retarded viscious creatures, Who cares what they would think, Ignore them.

Well i hope an alien mothership abductsthem, Probes them and sends them to hell!

I care because it effects my life and ability to be happy.

 

[The Wolf]

However, the disgusted looks are almost just as bad imo.

Absolutely true, I feel the same.

Some of them are still carved into my mind despite occuring several years ago. (They still happen frequently nowadays too)

Brutal, same

 

[H8mychudlife]

You should care about what others think about you since other people's impression of you will determine how easy or hard it will be for you to go through school, job market, and job security

Retardnormgroids have no idea what it's like to be hated by the majority of people, they have no conception of any other reality than the one they live in themselves

 

[deleted fren]

You should care about what others think about you since other people's impression of you will determine how easy or hard it will be for you to go through school, job market, and job security

Retardnormgroids have no idea what it's like to be hated by the majority of people, they have no conception of any other reality than the one they live in themselves

 

[NonNTFailure]

Yeah, I hate it when normies say this when nearly everytime I go out I catch people staring at me like I’m Darkseid from fucking DC Comics, yet these same idiots would probably tell me to “just be confident”. Being around normies with high standards and always judging every facet of a person—of COURSE you’re gonna care about what people think JFL. But normies don’t understand cause and effect so they’ll never make this connection.

The most brutal part is that I’m kind of getting used to the comments on my looks or all of the constant stares—this life has left me defeated and somewhat indifferent. There is nothing new under the sun

 

[antisocialcel]

never began

 

[deleted fren]

Yeah, I hate it when normies say this when nearly everytime I go out I catch people staring at me like I’m Darkseid from fucking DC Comics, yet these same idiots would probably tell me to “just be confident”. Being around normies with high standards and always judging every facet of a person—of COURSE you’re gonna care about what people think JFL. But normies don’t understand cause and effect so they’ll never make this connection.

The most brutal part is that I’m kind of getting used to the comments on my looks or all of the constant stares—this life has left me defeated and somewhat indifferent. There is nothing new under the sun

Yes. All the trauma from bullying/humiliation will numb you over time and make you feel dead inside. Normies could never understand.

 

[Grodd]

Just love yourself

 

[Grodd]

No loving yourself for your face.

 

[Lonelyus]

I care because it effects my life and ability to be happy.

Just dont worry about the people you walk past or people at grocery store, It will kill you with anxiety fear.

 

[deleted fren]

No loving yourself for your face.

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

Literally the dumbest advice imaginable. Society is other people. If you want to participate in society at all, you must take others' opinion of yourself into account, and no matter what you think of yourself, it is what others think about you that matters infinitely more.

Ofc, these same people wouldn't tell someone "oh, people are racist but it doesn't matter. All that matters is what you think!"

 

[jnoob60]

I'd love to see me dead.

 

[jnoob60]

What i dont get is why some of us are not getting like benefits they know why hace it hard out here there been scientific studies on this but we dont get no help at all its crazy to me

 

[Antorian]

Unattractive men are less likely to be hired in general due to the prominence of women in hiring positions

Which is why women should NEVER be in a position to determine if a man is hired or not.