Venting Still can't get over my oneitus for about 7 years now...I don't even know what to do anymore. I refuse to accept I will never have her.

[SupremeAllah]

I'm lucky that the girl I was dreaming about in highschool got married and hit the wall at like 25 she genuinely looks terrible and it's like her looks dropped to match the betabuxx she married

 

[Ellsworth]

Damn 7 years is brutal. Only had mine for like 10 months and that is a bad enough. I hope I can fully move on in less than 7 years kek.

 

[TheCatMan]

After almost 5 years I finally found mine on Facebook. She's a tour guide and on the side a wedding planner. From what I can tell she's single no kids and just turned 28. She is one year younger than me. Thankfully she's Asian and Asians age like dog crap in the hot afternoon sun and culturally be seen as a "leftover" so the more time goes by maybe she won't get married and have kids. I think about her everyday. I've liked girls in the past but I don't think I've ever truly fallen in love with the butterflies in my stomach feeling.

 

[iRespectFatLink]

I'm lucky that the girl I was dreaming about in highschool got married and hit the wall at like 25 she genuinely looks terrible and it's like her looks dropped to match the betabuxx she married

Mine still looks good. Guess the crushing will continue....

 

[LifeMaxxer]

This shit has to be torture bro

 

[yourbod_ymychoicel]

I'm not allowed to give you one simple trick how you could ascend with her here

 

[fatass30000]

i don’t get how you niggas become obsessed with woman that hate you, if i sense hate from someone i start hating them 10 times more

 

[K9Otaku]

It will be 6 years today since my oneitus messaged me on Instagram at 9:55 PM telling me "U need to fuck off", and ever since then, my life has went completely downhill. I'll never forget her smile and how cute she was. Because no matter how much I try to cope, the memories of her always come back. I became heavily addicted to drugs to try to replace her, but no hard drug has ever managed to recreate the dopamine rush every time I saw her at religious ed every week. I became severely distracted from my hobbies due to chasing the dragon, and now that I quit, I have to fight the feelings every single day because I have just started to gain progress in it. I don't even miss the drugs anymore. I just miss her. I would do anything to have her back! She got herself a chad almost 10 years older that giga-mogs me to hell and back every single day by racing bikes and bringing home big wins. All I have left is a huge crater in my soul that feel so empty, because I know being able to talk to her is almost impossible! I hate seeing my dream girl being stolen from me by chad, when I easily have more to offer than him. I have proven multiple times that I would be able to show more affection than him in my entire life towards her, AND SHE IS GONE!!!! IT'S KILLING ME!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!

You are worshiping a ghost. She doen't exist.

In reality, you oneitis is a Chad-only female mammal just like any other. There are billions of female mammals of all shapes an sizes. What would make that particular one special if not some brain malfunction inside your own cranium?

 

[iRespectFatLink]

I'm not allowed to give you one simple trick how you could ascend with her here

Just say it

You are worshiping a ghost. She doen't exist.

In reality, you oneitis is a Chad-only female mammal just like any other. There are billions of female mammals of all shapes an sizes. What would make that particular one special if not some brain malfunction inside your own cranium?

A. She belongs to me!
B. I know her irl!
C. I have never had the chance to meet any other foids in an attempt to ascend!
D. Don't give me that "oh you are just a delusional love-obsessed" crap

 

[JustanotherKanga]

Bro, you really gotta let it go. I haven't had a oneitis since 9th grade. It's not healthy to obsess over some woman who couldn't give two fucks about you. She's getting railed by 10 different men and doesn't even think of you

Brutal blackpill,
Even made me shiver
Hope OP gets over his oneitis, cause it is dangerous to get emotionally invested in females these days

 

[yourbod_ymychoicel]

Just say it

well, as a man you have to push yourself through nowadays. it's called kidnapmaxxing.

 

[suicidecase]

Also 7 years for me. Is it as brutal as my oneitis story?
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My family didn't think twice about seeing her because she was just family in their eyes

 

[charlieQ009]

16 years for me. Still get butterflies whenever I think about her. Fuck man...

 

[CEO of Simps]

Bro, you really gotta let it go. I haven't had a oneitis since 9th grade. It's not healthy to obsess over some woman who couldn't give two fucks about you. She's getting railed by 10 different men and doesn't even think of you

 

[iRespectFatLink]

well, as a man you have to push yourself through nowadays. it's called kidnapmaxxing.

r/usernamechecksout

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Brutal blackpill,
Even made me shiver
Hope OP gets over his oneitis, cause it is dangerous to get emotionally invested in females these days

Fr

 

[PrototypeCel]

put in the work and see if she comes back when youre a high value man

 

[Leonardo Part V]

it took me 15 years

one day, you'll just accept it is over

 

[K9Otaku]

D. Don't give me that "oh you are just a delusional love-obsessed" crap

If you want to be masochistic, fine. Just saying; the way you imagine her does not exist. In reality, she is just another Chad-obsessed whore.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

when I easily have more to offer than him. I have proven multiple times that I would be able to show more affection than him in my entire life towards her,

You're not Chad. Even if Chad did such bs, she would loose her attraction for him and fuck with another Chad who treats her like a pile of dog shit.

 

[iRespectFatLink]

put in the work and see if she comes back when youre a high value man

She is dating a chad though.

You're not Chad. Even if Chad did such bs, she would loose her attraction for him and fuck with another Chad who treats her like a pile of dog shit.

Exactly bro. It doesn't make any sense. Why would she go after wigger scum, when she can have somebody like me, who would take great care of her? It fills me with ungodly rage!

If you want to be masochistic, fine. Just saying; the way you imagine her does not exist. In reality, she is just another Chad-obsessed whore.

;(

 

[Johnny_Connecticut]

Show photo of the slut.

 

[K9Otaku]

She is dating a chad though.

....

;(

Yup

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Exactly bro. It doesn't make any sense. Why would she go after wigger scum, when she can have somebody like me, who would take great care of her? It fills me with ungodly rage!

I know. I had to swallow the same bitter pill. Reality is cruel.

 

[iRespectFatLink]

Show photo of the slut.

No thank you. I don't want someone with the wrong idea to reverse search the image and the next thing I know all the nincompoops are flooding her dms.

 

[Johnny_Connecticut]

What is reverse search?

 

[iRespectFatLink]

What is reverse search?

Where you look up a photo on a search engine or website, and it locates the source.

 

[Aku no Hana]

You are worshiping a ghost. She doen't exist.

In reality, you oneitis is a Chad-only female mammal just like any other. There are billions of female mammals of all shapes an sizes. What would make that particular one special if not some brain malfunction inside your own cranium?

I don't see how someone could justify oneitis unless they reject the blackpill. They're diametrically opposed to each other. Oneitis is just foid worship/idealization. (Note: Redpillers/PUA say men shouldn't do this, but are actually gynocentric and foid apologists/defenders just like Feminists are)

Any idiot knows one foid isn't special. If anything, the internet should make this more clear than ever. Oneitis is rooted in biology as much as anything, the fixation boils down to the biological drive to reproduce. Men who fall victim to oneitis have just had their biology convince them this is woman is the most physically attractive available oppurtunity, thus ensuring their hypothetical child likewise has the optimal attractiveness and chances for mating success. (whether or not the guy has any plans to have kids is irrelevant, because the basis for sexual attraction is obviously reproduction regardless.) Especially in the modern world, they need to snap out of it and see that there are literally millions of other women available. But our biology is still wired as if we were cavemen, and always will be.

 

[Persecuted]

It's cucked to obsess over foids when superior, 2d options exist