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Venting Still can't get over my oneitus for about 7 years now...I don't even know what to do anymore. I refuse to accept I will never have her.

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It will be 6 years today since my oneitus messaged me on Instagram at 9:55 PM telling me "U need to fuck off", and ever since then, my life has went completely downhill. I'll never forget her smile and how cute she was. Because no matter how much I try to cope, the memories of her always come back. I became heavily addicted to drugs to try to replace her, but no hard drug has ever managed to recreate the dopamine rush every time I saw her at religious ed every week. I became severely distracted from my hobbies due to chasing the dragon, and now that I quit, I have to fight the feelings every single day because I have just started to gain progress in it. I don't even miss the drugs anymore. I just miss her. I would do anything to have her back! She got herself a chad almost 10 years older that giga-mogs me to hell and back every single day by racing bikes and bringing home big wins. All I have left is a huge crater in my soul that feel so empty, because I know being able to talk to her is almost impossible! I hate seeing my dream girl being stolen from me by chad, when I easily have more to offer than him. I have proven multiple times that I would be able to show more affection than him in my entire life towards her, AND SHE IS GONE!!!! IT'S KILLING ME!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!
 
Been 7 years for me, still stalk her socials to this day :cryfeels:
 
Also 7 years for me. Is it as brutal as my oneitis story?
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Bro, you really gotta let it go. I haven't had a oneitis since 9th grade. It's not healthy to obsess over some woman who couldn't give two fucks about you. She's getting railed by 10 different men and doesn't even think of you
 
Bro, I also would see her at a once a year festival in my town. The crazy fucking thing is that August 25th was when it opened year. August 25th 2018 was when she ghosted me irl.
I never forgot that day. Holy shit and the fact that we’ve both been affected for 7 years is fucking brutal. I always remember the numbers
 
7 years, brutal. That should be enough for lifetime autismbux.
 
I hope I don't turn into you OP but I've been you for nearly two years so it's not looking good. Oneitises never vanish they just fade and resurge.
 
I hope I don't turn into you OP but I've been you for nearly two years so it's not looking good. Oneitises never vanish they just fade and resurge.
It's not lookin' goooooood.
 
I hope I don't turn into you OP but I've been you for nearly two years so it's not looking good. Oneitises never vanish they just fade and resurge.
you don't have oneitises, you have foids who are destined to be ur soulmate (like zoe)
 
I could use a getaway driver so I can just jump right into the back of the van, it would save time. But I can't expect a bro to do that for free.
 
Oneitisis are overrated. There's far hotter whores out there anyway :feelshmm:
 
I fell in luv with a much too young teen online in the mid Two Thousands after unintentionally posting a creepy message. She' ll be forty in a few years. I'm still trying to find her but seems to have been erased from the web. My previous oneitis from the Eighties became a reporter in international relations.
 
I hope I don't turn into you OP but I've been you for nearly two years so it's not looking good. Oneitises never vanish they just fade and resurge.
It was the girl who Komersarji ascended with right? My condolences
 
I hope I don't turn into you OP but I've been you for nearly two years so it's not looking good. Oneitises never vanish they just fade and resurge.
You simply learn to live with it
 
It was the girl who Komersarji ascended with right? My condolences
it's not ascension if you're escortcelling and that's essentially what he was doing by paying all her rent and buying her drugs
 
It will be 6 years today since my oneitus messaged me on Instagram at 9:55 PM telling me "U need to fuck off", and ever since then, my life has went completely downhill. I'll never forget her smile and how cute she was. Because no matter how much I try to cope, the memories of her always come back. I became heavily addicted to drugs to try to replace her, but no hard drug has ever managed to recreate the dopamine rush every time I saw her at religious ed every week. I became severely distracted from my hobbies due to chasing the dragon, and now that I quit, I have to fight the feelings every single day because I have just started to gain progress in it. I don't even miss the drugs anymore. I just miss her. I would do anything to have her back! She got herself a chad almost 10 years older that giga-mogs me to hell and back every single day by racing bikes and bringing home big wins. All I have left is a huge crater in my soul that feel so empty, because I know being able to talk to her is almost impossible! I hate seeing my dream girl being stolen from me by chad, when I easily have more to offer than him. I have proven multiple times that I would be able to show more affection than him in my entire life towards her, AND SHE IS GONE!!!! IT'S KILLING ME!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!
I gotta learn from you. Mine has been for 1.5 and nearly 2 years now. And today I saw her with her bf after she rejected me. As angry as I am, I have to let go, or else I'll end up in your situation
 
Idk how people do this, its so cucked, its worse than paying for OF u waste time and get nothing.
 
how do you even do that without roping :worryfeels:
She turned out to be lesbian and hasn’t dated any Chad’s so that’s most likely why lol. If her instagram was filled with her and chads I would of definitely roped 7 years ago
 
My brain is smart enough to let them go away from my mind once I show him proof that the oneitis is already taken.
But my brain is still dumb to bring another to another
 
I get obsessed over women too, it must be something to do with autism or it's the damage from years of isolation.
 
I have stop been as obsessed with my oneitis as much as I use to. I don’t even know her in person but she was awful to me & I deserve better than to let her take over my life.
 
I don't wanna see her ever again. But oh well, for the time being I have to.
 
thank fuck this has never happened to me, at least not to this extend
 
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I don't wanna see her ever again. But oh well, for the time being I have to.
Cope
I have stop been as obsessed with my oneitis as much as I use to. I don’t even know her in person but she was awful to me & I deserve better than to let her take over my life.
Same here. I really appreciate moving on. Knowing they live fast paced lives helps with moving on
 
And today I saw her with her bf after she rejected me. As angry as I am, I have to let go, or else I'll end up in your situation
Would be just my luck if I walked past the dickhead holding the hand of my dream girl. I'd throw hands (in Mortal Kombat 3).
 
Would be just my luck if I walked past the dickhead holding the hand of my dream girl. I'd throw hands (in Mortal Kombat 3).
The rage I felt at that moment was immeasurable. But there was more to lose than to gain by throwing hands in that situation (in injustice 2)
 
This happened to me like 3 times, I got over it in like 1-2 years each time, I never had those girls in any sense though, no such thing as getting them 'back'
 

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