LifeFuel Starting to get over my oneitis

[Deleted member 41431]

She was in my lab TAing as usual.
I tried as hard as I could to fight the urge to look at her.
Even if she's in my peripheral vision it feels like my mind instantly locks on all attention on her, even before I realize it consciously.
I still caught a glimpse of her legs in her skirt today, but I managed to completely avoid all eye contact any time she came around to check on my lab project.
She giggled at something I said before I left, which felt so good and torturous at the same time.

Slowly I'll erase her from my mind, I hope.

 

[epillepsy]

u dont get over a oneitis

bro my oneitis rejected me 8 years ago im still not over it

you get over it once you find out she's a whore.
maybe that never happened with you.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Even if she's in my peripheral vision it feels like my mind instantly locks on all attention on her, even before I realize it consciously.

Yes. In group therapy and the hospital ward, I had a similar experience.

 

[uo89997]

I've gotten over all my oneitises in the past. Once you move on and stop seeing them on a constant basis or once they hit the wall, you will lose attraction

 

[Billowel]

u dont get over a oneitis

bro my oneitis rejected me 8 years ago im still not over it

brutal. how have you not gotten over her yet? i usually forget about my oneitis as soon as they reject or as soon as they have a bf,so i have no idea how you still like her.have you made any music about your oneitis?

She was in my lab TAing as usual.
I tried as hard as I could to fight the urge to look at her.
Even if she's in my peripheral vision it feels like my mind instantly locks on all attention on her, even before I realize it consciously.
I still caught a glimpse of her legs in her skirt today, but I managed to completely avoid all eye contact any time she came around to check on my lab project.
She giggled at something I said before I left, which felt so good and torturous at the same time.

Slowly I'll erase her from my mind, I hope.

do you still speak to her? if i had to interact with my oneitis 24/7 i probably also would go crazy

 

[InternalJizzz]

The faster you get over her the better. no point in dwelling on a fantasy, dude. Better to focus on making yourself the best version of you, she might not be the one but visualize yourself gymaxxed, with a solid career and in good mind. if you're still in school like me focus on finishing strong, keep your head up king, it's not over till it's over.

 

[Izayacel]

Oneitis is a curse.

Once you realize you will never fuck her ( Katana Takagi / Madlen Weber ) in My Case

It becomes pretty easy to accept

 

[Deleted member 41431]

do you still speak to her? if i had to interact with my oneitis 24/7 i probably also would go crazy

I try not to now. There was a period of time, already after her rejecting me, that I lost my dignity and started to befriending/simping for her. I just craved her attention so badly.
One time I was working together with her on something, we were facing each other and our legs were nearly interlocked and touching, and our hands would touch every time I passed her something. I was sitting so close I could smell all of her scent. For those four hours my entire body was fried and I started becoming desperate for more interaction with her to get that high again.

Glad I put a stop to that now.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

One time I was working together with her on something, we were facing each other and our legs were nearly interlocked and touching, and our hands would touch every time I passed her something. I was sitting so close I could smell all of her scent. For those four hours my entire body was fried and I started becoming desperate for more interaction with her to get that high again.

Justus Grossbier experienced similar. In group therapy, I kept my head down and could barely look in the direction of the orange basket.

 

[Loner94]

Can't relate never had a oneitis.

 

[InMinecraft]

u dont get over a oneitis

bro my oneitis rejected me 8 years ago im still not over it

 

[Misogynist Curry 卐]

I haven't seen my oneitis for more than one week. Feeling depressed

 

[subhuman]

bro i used to suffer from oneitis too let me tell you how to get over it.

the first thing you do is jerk off. then figure out how you can go fuck an escort. bitches are a dime a dozen and you have oneitis because you've deluded yourself into thinking this cumslut is special. when you have sex with an escort it will show you that there are plenty of fish in the sea