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So I’m not really sure how to put this other than that our son has knocked up our maid, and now we’re just completely lost for what to do.
My husband and I live in Hong Kong where having a domestic helper (maid) is the norm rather than the exception. Ours is a nice girl from the Philippines that sends money back home.
We just found out this week that:
- our son and maid have been having an on going sexual relationship for a while now
- she’s pregnant
Our maid has been secretly having relations with him since he was in high school. We worry she has groomed him in order to acquire residency (domestic helper visas do not contribute towards this).
How do we talk to our son about this without it coming across that we are trying to ruin his (one and only ever) relationship?