PolarIce20
what i feared has come upon me
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- Joined
- Apr 7, 2023
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After getting 1-2 matches and finding out they’re joke matches or ghosting me, i’ve had some thoughts about things.
1. Maybe it’s my photos? Maybe i’ve just got bad photos like if i had my cat in one it would help or some more casual thing but then i realise ITS THE SAME FACE! Doing any of these wouldn’t change a thing.
2. Is this normal? To get basically no likes. I don’t think it’s normal to get as little as i do but i see the average guy gets 10 likes a month and they say to not even try on tinder while the average girl gets somewhere around 100-200 a likes a month.
3. Am i going to die alone? My mother has infinitely more options than me and she is almost 60. Maybe i’ll just become a monk or something.
4. Has it always been this bad? for men i mean to get *something*, even one date or one message back.
Just some of my thoughts from being on tinder the short while that i have been.
1. Maybe it’s my photos? Maybe i’ve just got bad photos like if i had my cat in one it would help or some more casual thing but then i realise ITS THE SAME FACE! Doing any of these wouldn’t change a thing.
2. Is this normal? To get basically no likes. I don’t think it’s normal to get as little as i do but i see the average guy gets 10 likes a month and they say to not even try on tinder while the average girl gets somewhere around 100-200 a likes a month.
3. Am i going to die alone? My mother has infinitely more options than me and she is almost 60. Maybe i’ll just become a monk or something.
4. Has it always been this bad? for men i mean to get *something*, even one date or one message back.
Just some of my thoughts from being on tinder the short while that i have been.





