Venting socialmaxxing is suifuel as an oldcel

[Deleted member 60]

I just want to fucking kill myself right now. Literally no one my age is interested in expanding their social circles and they're all jaded and boring af. How pathetic is it that I have to join special clubs, meetups, or support groups just to get some human interaction and I still get excluded? Meanwhile everyone else makes a million friends by simply showing up for school or work. This is the worst day I've had in a while. I probably wouldn't even care about being incel if I at least had a social life for the past decade. At the same time most people are truly insufferable and have nothing in common with me. What I'm looking for probably doesn't even exist and yet I feel like dying for not having it. I DESPERATELY NEED TO MEET UP WITH OTHER INCELS, BUT IT'S TOO DANGEROUS BECAUSE THE WORLD WANTS US DEAD.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Tell me about it. I’m in the same boat.

 

[Deleted member 60]

How old are you?

25 in a day

 

[happiless]

Getting a job reminded me of college which reminded me of high school: Never getting invited to anything.

 

[Mainländer]

You can meet other incels in your area through PM if you trust they are not infiltrates/larpers that will expose you based on their posts tbh.

Risky, but doable.

 

[BasedGod1]

25 in a day

Damn 24 here. I have the same problem.

 

[lesbianwalrus]

Meeting up with other incels would defeat the purpose of socialmaxxing.

 

[Deleted member 60]

People don’t even want to expand their circles at 19.

Loser in school = loser forever

in the age of social media, you're right. I'd say 19 is your last opportunity

 

[AR15]

Loser in school = loser forever

 

[Itsoverboyos]

Loser in school = loser forever

brutal

 

[Deleted member 60]

Meeting up with other incels would defeat the purpose of socialmaxxing.

it's not even about sluts for me at this point. I'm just so fucking lonely and bored sometimes

You think there is any chance when you start university?

yes, but it's much more difficult ngl. You have to make an effort to meet often outside of school, which is not easy when everyone lives in different areas and has conflicting schedules.

 

[4700euros]

In some hospitals where I worked I noticed that shit.

I seemed invisible and they said in my back that i didnt talked too much....

But when a Chad collegue arrived he couldnt even eat because foids didnt stop talking to him.

It is not your fault.

 

[fuck chad]

I'm 21 and I feel the same way. I have tried interacting with people from work and classes and even gone to a few clubs but I always get excluded and pushed away because I'm not chad. Its fucking over I just stopped trying

 

[rockwell1488]

Same problem and I'm 27. Everyone is "busy" these days. If you didn't make friends in your teens then it's pretty much over tbh

 

[NotQuiteChadLite]

>25
>Old

1 or the other

 

[imbored21]

They are. Just not with you unfortunately.

 

[E.C.C.O]

I'm in the same boat, honestly regret ditching my old friends now.

 

[Kirito3]

People don’t even want to expand their circles at 19.

Loser in school = loser forever

Truth. After the first week of college if you are still a loser you will be forever.

 

[E.C.C.O]

WTF did you do that for?

They were quite boring and I thought I could do better at uni... 6 years later and I haven't made any new friends

 

[VST]

I just want to fucking kill myself right now. Literally no one my age is interested in expanding their social circles and they're all jaded and boring af. How pathetic is it that I have to join special clubs, meetups, or support groups just to get some human interaction and I still get excluded? Meanwhile everyone else makes a million friends by simply showing up for school or work. This is the worst day I've had in a while. I probably wouldn't even care about being incel if I at least had a social life for the past decade. At the same time most people are truly insufferable and have nothing in common with me. What I'm looking for probably doesn't even exist and yet I feel like dying for not having it. I DESPERATELY NEED TO MEET UP WITH OTHER INCELS, BUT IT'S TOO DANGEROUS BECAUSE THE WORLD WANTS US DEAD.

As soon as you leave full-time education, and have no social circle, it's over.

 

[Zyros]

Im fucking 30 and still no problem socialising. What kind of place do you live in? do people settle down young?

 

[Deleted member 60]

They were quite boring and I thought I could do better at uni... 6 years later and I haven't made any new friends

yeah same, except 8.

Roommates seem the easiest way but my parents refuse to let me live in dorms and want to me to commute from home due to autism

Depends. Dorm life was the worst suifuel I ever experienced.

 

[VST]

Im fucking 30 and still no problem socialising.

That's because you most likely already have an established social circle.

 

[Incellectual]

If you didn't make friends in your teens then it's pretty much over tbh

 

[Deleted member 60]

Im fucking 30 and still no problem socialising. What kind of place do you live in? do people settle down young?

yeah, settling down or focusing on careers, all that boring shit. None of them are looking to expand their social circles.

 

[Woodvine Twiner]

Joining clubs never works. Back before I dropped out of college to become a hikikomori I tried joining the anime club at my school thinking it would be an easy place to make friends. Everybody there was already friends with each other and I didn't know a soul. I tried making small talk with a guy once and all I got was a curt reply. Why even allow new people in clubs if you are only barely going to acknowledge their existence?

 

[Deleted member 60]

Joining clubs never works. Back before I dropped out of college to become a hikikomori I tried joining the anime club at my school thinking it would be an easy place to make friends. Everybody there was already friends with each other and I didn't know a soul. I tried making small talk with a guy once and all I got was a curt reply. Why even allow new people in clubs if you are only barely going to acknowledge their existence?

this is always my experience. It's over if you aren't there when the group is just starting.

 

[mentalcel]

Where do you live? I can meet you.

 

[Evildoer]

25 in a day

I'm 21, but it's all the same, we have to do everything which normal people get by default, such injustice. I have no friends i have no idea how i start to socialise, lul
"Just quit your house bro"
I do. I go gymcelling everyday, and so? Nothing has changed so far.

 

[mentalcel]

this is always my experience. It's over if you aren't there when the group is just starting.

I totally agree with this. I am 28 and yesterday I went to a young meeting group of the church which was supposed to be for socializing, playing boardgames etc. It was literally a terrible experience. There was one stupid landwhale that dominated the place, couple of other literal landwhales above 90-100 kg, some ugly face normie girls with some husbands and some religous lifeless incels. All were listening to the landwhale and the bitch which literally laughed at me by making some bad joke. I was surprised that the ugly lowlife landwhale had a husband. The place itself was a meeting place of the trash of society, like they throw the garbage there but women still don't lose sex even the worst one.

 

[Deleted member 5089]

I was an outcast and without friends since elementary school, also badly bullied. High school was even worse, I was a complete loner and outsider, like if people from whole school were invited to a party I was always the only one excluded. Also I went to prom alone, only person in whole school. College was the same, plus throughout my teens and later I was plagued by mental and physical illness which prevented me from even trying to have friends. It escalated four years ago when I went almost fully psychotic. Now I'm on strong medications. On top of all that I am ugly, fat, socially awkward, terrible student, and even started having erectile problems from medications. Now I'm 27 and everything is the same, I rot in loneliness and insignificance. Tbh it was over from the start.

 

[anondump]

yeah same, except 8.

Depends. Dorm life was the worst suifuel I ever experienced.

College is the worst form of torture ever deviced.
I ended dropping out and getting nothing out of it.

 

[universallyabhorred]

What happened with that female friend of yours? Can't you just join her social circle or meet people the same way you met her?

 

[Fontaine]

"oldcel" at 25 okay dude

Anyway, it's always possible to make friends at any age. I suspect most here fail because they are seen as anxious tryhards. The way to make friends is not looking like you want to make friends.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I totally agree with this. I am 28 and yesterday I went to a young meeting group of the church which was supposed to be for socializing, playing boardgames etc. It was literally a terrible experience. There was one stupid landwhale that dominated the place, couple of other literal landwhales above 90-100 kg, some ugly face normie girls with some husbands and some religous lifeless incels. All were listening to the landwhale and the bitch which literally laughed at me by making some bad joke. I was surprised that the ugly lowlife landwhale had a husband. The place itself was a meeting place of the trash of society, like they throw the garbage there but women still don't lose sex even the worst one.

lmao, this is accurate af. Most groups I joined were like this. It's so much worse when you get lifemogged by a bunch of losers. Sorry you had to experience that but I know exactly how you feel.

College is the worst form of torture ever deviced.
I ended dropping out and getting nothing out of it.

same here, had to move back home after one semester. I actually dropped out a few times, JFL

What happened with that female friend of yours? Can't you just join her social circle or meet people the same way you met her?

I stopped talking to her, she's a fucking waste of time tbh. I met her at school through a group project. Also men and women can't be friends

"oldcel" at 25 okay dude

Anyway, it's always possible to make friends at any age. I suspect most here fail because they are seen as anxious tryhards. The way to make friends is not looking like you want to make friends.

take the agepill, we are oldcels bro. Anyway I have AvPD so I doubt that's the problem. I'm very reserved and distant in social situations (unless drunk). Most people wrongfully assume that I prefer to be alone.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I went to one of those meetups as well. Everybody there seemed like incels, but didnt know it yet. I tried so hard to be accepting but it was so sad. Leader of the meetup was a neckbeard type with an inceltears vibe. Seem like the type to actually make fun of incels. And other meetupsvwere filled with old ppl ... like really old.

Im thinking about getting back into art and trying to expand my network in that scene. The artistic fucked up girls are probably my statusmatch/vibematch.... but i bet they only go for emo chad...

 

[Flabcel Repulsive]

The trick about college is to study in a small college town heavy on university tradition and really not much else. That way everyone you study with are from somewhere else, have left their previous social circles behind and are as compelled as you too seek new acquintances. You also study, party, breathe and live in the same air all the time. I did exactly this back in the 90's and got to know tonnes of new people.

Could be though that the university town phenomenon is not typical of American universities the same way it is in Europe.

 

[mentalcel]

I went to one of those meetups as well. Everybody there seemed like incels, but didnt know it yet. I tried so hard to be accepting but it was so sad. Leader of the meetup was a neckbeard type with an inceltears vibe. Seem like the type to actually make fun of incels. And other meetupsvwere filled with old ppl ... like really old.

Im thinking about getting back into art and trying to expand my network in that scene. The artistic fucked up girls are probably my statusmatch/vibematch.... but i bet they only go for emo chad...

What kind of art are you doing? I want to start doing art but have no talent to draw or paint well.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

What kind of art are you doing? I want to start doing art but have no talent to draw or paint well.

Visual arts - painting, drawing. Classmates used to say i had talent, but deep down i laughed. When i was a kid i had nothing else to do, my mother was a controlling psycho who kept me isolated. And we were poor. So the only thing keeping me company were cartoons, books, pencil, paper, and my imagination. There was a lot of practice because i had nothing else better to do. That was it. No talent. I just regret stopping during high school because i let my dad influence me.... he said it was a bullshit waste of time. You should try getting into something like this. Creation is good cope.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I went to one of those meetups as well. Everybody there seemed like incels, but didnt know it yet. I tried so hard to be accepting but it was so sad. Leader of the meetup was a neckbeard type with an inceltears vibe. Seem like the type to actually make fun of incels. And other meetupsvwere filled with old ppl ... like really old.

Im thinking about getting back into art and trying to expand my network in that scene. The artistic fucked up girls are probably my statusmatch/vibematch.... but i bet they only go for emo chad...

damn, so it's not just me then. I always got SJW vibes from these people too. "Artistic fucked up girls" huh? idk what you mean by that, but hopefully it's not those sluts with piercings everywhere and purple hair...

 

[IsolationHurts]

Very interesting thread, thanks

 

[Indari]

in the age of social media, you're right. I'd say 19 is your last opportunity

over4me

 

[EthnicelNL]

Socialmaxxing is overrated boyos

 

[Colly]

Loser in school = loser forever

This is so true

 

[Stoiccel]

Very interesting thread, thanks

 

[Deleted member 10150]

i PM to fellow incels frоm my shit hole but they ghost me , im not surprise .

 

[BabyFacedIncel]

I said this before, if you look anything like this. No one cares what you have to say and having you in a social group is awkward, your face is literally awkward

I get the same treatment at work, people stand in a group and talk. I go and stand with the group and everyone says "Hey, whatsup???" Like "What do you need?" And once I said "Oh nothing" and everyone was just kind of weirded out that I wanted to join an adult conversation. Like What does it want??? It must need something?

Oh it wants to talk??? Uhmmmm.....

 

[EthnicelNL]

i PM to fellow incels frоm my shit hole but they ghost me , im not surprise .

Damn u got ghosted by other incels? Its over boyo

 

[happiless]

The maximum reward we can get for socialmaxxing is to not be hated. But to be liked and befriended you need to fit in, which requires friends and foids before your early 30s and settling down after.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

if you are good looking, they'll come to you.