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Blackpill (Social circle pill) Most guys here would have gf’s if they had social circles with girls in it.

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After being here for some time, I truly believe at least half the guys here are average looking with little to no friends who would have paired up had they not been impaired early on in life for one reason or another and lost their social connections. After my surgery, I feel like maybe I could have a girl by now if I had more friends who could hook me up with non land whales.
 
I also believe this

Im below average looking but Ive seen guys who are my looks level and lower have gfs

I dont have one because I dont interact with people, I spend virtually all of my time by myself
 
I also believe this

Im below average looking but Ive seen guys who are my looks level and lower have gfs

I dont have one because I dont interact with people, I spend virtually all of my time by myself
Yeah, and friends are like money, you have to have some to make some.
 
The reason we have no social circle is because of our looks, it's a vicious cycle.
 
Yeah, and friends are like money, you have to have some to make some.

I genuinely feel stuck, I feel like I have nothing to offer

At my age one of my female cousins was married and knocked up with a kid

One of my male cousins was in his 2nd LTR with the girl hes married to now

Meanwhile Im a kissless friendless virgin
 
I genuinely feel stuck, I feel like I have nothing to offer

At my age one of my female cousins was married and knocked up with a kid

One of my male cousins was in his 2nd LTR with the girl hes married to now

Meanwhile Im a kissless friendless virgin
Yeah, same brocel. It’s like there is no way out and no one willing to help. I get depressed thinking about it
 
Yeah, same brocel. It’s like there is no way out and no one willing to help. I get depressed thinking about it

And people say reach out and I get that but I feel like when Im a friendless loser who has nothing to offer reaching out = desperate

I had one friend back in elementary and I remember socializing being so easy back then because once you have your own friend circle even if its just one other person its easy not to come across as pathetic
 
And people say reach out and I get that but I feel like when Im a friendless loser who has nothing to offer reaching out = desperate

I had one friend back in elementary and I remember socializing being so easy back then because once you have your own friend circle even if its just one other person its easy not to come across as pathetic
100% agreed. I have few friends and feel like I’m leaching off them. It feels wrong
 
I think it can help guys who are borderline in terms of looks like 5s and 6s.
 
Lmao I have a social circle and the majority is girls,too bad they hate me and they dont want me to meet their other female friends
 
This has some truth to it, because after I finish clearing my skin up I will be slightly above average, but have no friends :feelsbadman:
 
You’re right. Friends will help friends find dates or hook them up with sisters or cousins. Unfortunately i have no friends
 
Only if you are not ugliest in the group.
 
Lmao I have a social circle and the majority is girls,too bad they hate me and they dont want me to meet their other female friends
Then this isn’t aimed towards you. Brutal.
This has some truth to it, because after I finish clearing my skin up I will be slightly above average, but have no friends :feelsbadman:
jfl. We are similar. Both ok looking post surgery but no friends, just left to rot forever alone :cryfeels:
You’re right. Friends will help friends find dates or hook them up with sisters or cousins. Unfortunately i have no friends
 
Then this isn’t aimed towards you. Brutal.
Bonus points- They say that they are lesbians or whatever monthly flavor of sexuality is trendy ,despite having dated/fucked guys before or currently :lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee:
 
You hit the nail on the head with this post. I've seen people who I have mogged in the past in terms of looks but they got gf's and moved on in their lives since they were sociale adaptable and outgoing. And to make things worse it's even more difficult to form a proper social circle after high school.
 
If you're sub 8 and have no social skills, it's over.
 
I also believe this

Im below average looking but Ive seen guys who are my looks level and lower have gfs

I dont have one because I dont interact with people, I spend virtually all of my time by myself
100% relatable for me too
I'm an autard
 
This was true up to 10-15ish years ago. I remember plenty of mediocre and slightly bad looking guys getting gfs by gigasocialmaxxing

Nowadays women don't get into relationships as much as before and when they do they use tinder. But I was shocked when i found out how many women in college just slept around at college parties or on tinder. A good chunk of women don't have any interest in dating someone unless he's a catch

Socialmaxxing is still really useful for normies and above for sure. But it's getting weaker every year
 
You hit the nail on the head with this post. I've seen people who I have mogged in the past in terms of looks but they got gf's and moved on in their lives since they were sociale adaptable and outgoing. And to make things worse it's even more difficult to form a proper social circle after high school.
This again

Holy fuck my chadlite classmates were nagging and pestering me to go to prom with but I'm such a brain dead freak
 
You hit the nail on the head with this post. I've seen people who I have mogged in the past in terms of looks but they got gf's and moved on in their lives since they were sociale adaptable and outgoing. And to make things worse it's even more difficult to form a proper social circle after high school.

I never understood why people believe that it's so difficult (at least pre-Covid) to make friends.

Just get a job, join a gym, join random stuff, whether it's recreational sports leagues or even just becoming a regular at a local bar or pub. You WILL meet people.

It won't get you a gf and it won't get you laid, but getting a social circle is really not hard. I certainly don't see any point to it, but I'm autistic and hate normies so that might explain my preference to be alone.

I think people are conflating having a social circle with getting a gf/sex. They are very different things.
 
Definately some truth to this. But also never underestimate female hypergamy in 2020
Alot here would be incel even in a social circle
 
I never understood why people believe that it's so difficult (at least pre-Covid) to make friends.

Just get a job, join a gym, join random stuff, whether it's recreational sports leagues or even just becoming a regular at a local bar or pub. You WILL meet people.

It won't get you a gf and it won't get you laid, but getting a social circle is really not hard. I certainly don't see any point to it, but I'm autistic and hate normies so that might explain my preference to be alone.

I think people are conflating having a social circle with getting a gf/sex. They are very different things.
I unironically do most of the things you mentioned.
I have a job unlike some NEETS here and I go to the gym whenever I'm able to do so.
Finding a stable group of friends after high school is difficult to say the very least since the Uni/college structure is very different.
Sure, you can interact with the people there but you won't hang out with them like you did with your childhood friends and you will most certainly break contact with them when your courses are finished.
Not saying it's impossible but I find it very hard to do so.
 
This was true up to 10-15ish years ago. I remember plenty of mediocre and slightly bad looking guys getting gfs by gigasocialmaxxing

Nowadays women don't get into relationships as much as before and when they do they use tinder. But I was shocked when i found out how many women in college just slept around at college parties or on tinder. A good chunk of women don't have any interest in dating someone unless he's a catch

Socialmaxxing is still really useful for normies and above for sure. But it's getting weaker every year
Brutal
 

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