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It's Over Social anxiety is a death sentence

LostSoulUK

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Not only are we ugly sub humans, but we also have to deal with social anxiety. I struggle with this so bad, I'm so fucking shy and awkward it makes any interaction an act of torture.

Its even worse when you work in an office like I do, I'm literally the only guy as well. The feeling of dejection as a sub human man in an office of women is soul destroying. The rare glimmer of positive interaction leads to false hope and its the hope that kills you. Most of the time I'm sat in silence on my laptop. People generally perceive me as autistic because I'm unusually quiet for long periods of time. I believe its more anxiety based as my heart is racing and I'm twitching like a motherfucker, especially on no sleep.

Any time the boss speaks to me I'm a quivering wreck, my anxiety escalates around people in authority. Even around undesirable people I'm an anxious mess. This is what years of rejection does to you, it destroys all confidence. We're literally years behind in our social development because of how oppressed we are as a sub human, fuck this life :whatfeels: .
 
nigga the excuse of social anxiety is cope U just understand what's up and don't wanna talk to niggas because you already know what's predetermined
 
I've had social anxiety for years. Whenever someone talks to me or I try to talk to someone, my hands start shaking and I start sweating.
my anxiety escalates around people in authority
That happens to me too.
 
wish to socialize cannot, people stare at me, the pressure immediately builds.
 
:horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror::horror:
I can't believe you would use such an mean word!!!
What an cruel and hateful person!!!!!!
Your going on my ignore listttttttttttttttttttttttttttt REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE :horror: :horror: :horror: :horror: :horror: :horror:
 
Not only are we ugly sub humans, but we also have to deal with social anxiety. I struggle with this so bad, I'm so fucking shy and awkward it makes any interaction an act of torture.

Its even worse when you work in an office like I do, I'm literally the only guy as well. The feeling of dejection as a sub human man in an office of women is soul destroying. The rare glimmer of positive interaction leads to false hope and its the hope that kills you. Most of the time I'm sat in silence on my laptop. People generally perceive me as autistic because I'm unusually quiet for long periods of time. I believe its more anxiety based as my heart is racing and I'm twitching like a motherfucker, especially on no sleep.

Any time the boss speaks to me I'm a quivering wreck, my anxiety escalates around people in authority. Even around undesirable people I'm an anxious mess. This is what years of rejection does to you, it destroys all confidence. We're literally years behind in our social development because of how oppressed we are as a sub human, fuck this life :whatfeels: .
It's really hard for me to even say "hi" to someone like a neighbor. I cancel appointments with the doctor because I don't want to have to talk.
 
It's really hard for me to even say "hi" to someone like a neighbor. I cancel appointments with the doctor because I don't want to have to talk.
 
social anxiety = sub5 incel well informed
 
Nothing to be ashamed of
Social anxiety is just your brain telling you the real value of those interactions and how they will go
 
and the fuckin awkward silences, honestly this is the worst. It seems like every interaction is an awkward silence for me, it stresses me out so much. I hate crossing paths with the boss for instance, I fuckin hate small talk because small talk is meaningless and awkward as hell. As an introvert the workplace is a death sentence.
 
nigga the excuse of social anxiety is cope U just understand what's up and don't wanna talk to niggas because you already know what's predetermined
This is not a cope. It's real symptom of being autistic incel.
 
I struggle to go outside or really do anything meaningful with my severe social anxiety. Everytime i go outside, i can feel everyone’s sharp glances, piercing me each second. I struggle with conversations and often overthink with what i’m going to respond to with which is why i stay quiet often.

I'm so fucking shy and awkward it makes any interaction an act of torture.
everything we do or say is just a humiliation ritual for us
 
Uglyness and social incompetence caused by either low IQ or autism are worse, social anxiety can be overcome sometimes, but those can't.
 
Are you allowed to wear headphones whilst you work? That's what I used to do in the office.
 
This is not a cope. It's real symptom of being autistic incel.
This is almost all incels, even NT. I'm NT and am just like OP. It's just the result of being ugly and rejected throughout your entire life.
 
Being ND is a faith worse than death. We will never belong anywhere in this world.
 
This is almost all incels, even NT. I'm NT and am just like OP. It's just the result of being ugly and rejected throughout your entire life.
It's over for anxieitycel
 
Not only are we ugly sub humans, but we also have to deal with social anxiety. I struggle with this so bad, I'm so fucking shy and awkward it makes any interaction an act of torture.

Its even worse when you work in an office like I do, I'm literally the only guy as well. The feeling of dejection as a sub human man in an office of women is soul destroying. The rare glimmer of positive interaction leads to false hope and its the hope that kills you. Most of the time I'm sat in silence on my laptop. People generally perceive me as autistic because I'm unusually quiet for long periods of time. I believe its more anxiety based as my heart is racing and I'm twitching like a motherfucker, especially on no sleep.

Any time the boss speaks to me I'm a quivering wreck, my anxiety escalates around people in authority. Even around undesirable people I'm an anxious mess. This is what years of rejection does to you, it destroys all confidence. We're literally years behind in our social development because of how oppressed we are as a sub human, fuck this life :whatfeels: .
Being ugly=being treated like shit=developing social anxiety
 
Developing social anxiety fucking right of passage of being an incel. You’ll get used to it
 
Often I can't put thoughts into words properly and make a coherent statement, my brain is wired the wrong way.
 
This is almost all incels, even NT. I'm NT and am just like OP. It's just the result of being ugly and rejected throughout your entire life.
nah because incels in denial have no "social anxiety" its just the fact that we know what's going on and wouldn't bother dealing with the backlash we get for existing
 
This is not a cope. It's real symptom of being autistic incel.
Exactly, its our right of passage as someone said. Only trucels can identify with social anxiety because its in our DNA. There's a reason why most chads don't experience mental health, at least to not this extent.

Uglyness and social incompetence caused by either low IQ or autism are worse, social anxiety can be overcome sometimes, but those can't.
They tend to go hand in hand, although there is a misconception about social anxiety and asperger's as they have very similar traits.

This is almost all incels, even NT. I'm NT and am just like OP. It's just the result of being ugly and rejected throughout your entire life.
A lifetime of oppression

Are you allowed to wear headphones whilst you work? That's what I used to do in the office.
ye they provide headphones in my laptop bag, I even have my own work phone. I'd feel even more like an outcast if I woe them tbh. Today I had to sit next to 2 women on a sofa watching the Grinch movie. 1 of them even pointed out how anxious I was. It was very awkward, I was sat in silence watching this shit film that was out of sync next to some boss lady.

I struggle to go outside or really do anything meaningful with my severe social anxiety. Everytime i go outside, i can feel everyone’s sharp glances, piercing me each second. I struggle with conversations and often overthink with what i’m going to respond to with which is why i stay quiet often.


everything we do or say is just a humiliation ritual for us
I hear you on that, I have to force myself to work. The office environment is honestly a hellscape for anxiety sufferers. So much awkward tension simply because of our demeanour. I'm a friendly guy but people can sense my awkwardness from a mile off. I hate small talk, I hate awkward silences which is agonising for me. Those awkward moments when you cross paths with the boss at the coffee machine, absolute nightmare fuel.

Often I can't put thoughts into words properly and make a coherent statement, my brain is wired the wrong way.
Same, people often ask me to repeat myself. I'm often spoken down to like I'm a fuckin toddler. The irony is, we're more switched on than people realise but our mental health and demeanour paints the impression that suggests otherwhise.
 
ye they provide headphones in my laptop bag, I even have my own work phone. I'd feel even more like an outcast if I woe them tbh. Today I had to sit next to 2 women on a sofa watching the Grinch movie. 1 of them even pointed out how anxious I was. It was very awkward, I was sat in silence watching this shit film that was out of sync next to some boss lady.

Why did she feel the need to point that out, foids and normfags are insufferable.

You should buy yourself some small in-ear headphones, that have active noise cancellation. If all your coworkers do is either ignore you, or say dumb shit then it's better to block their noise out.
 
People generally perceive me as autistic because I'm unusually quiet for long periods of time.
I hate being perceived as "weird", and have been told numerous times I'm normal when you get to know me (which takes at least 4 years).
At least when you are actually autistic and weird you aren't aware where you are fucking up. When you are extremely socially anxious it's a cycle that feeds on its self.
small talk because small talk is meaningless and awkward as hell.
 
I struggled with social anxiety for as long as I can remember and I just have no idea how I'm still managing to wake up and do shit on the daily. All the normies at school (I'm senior in hs) see me as an animal and it can't be fully because of my overall phenotype since there's plenty of ugly people walking around with their ugly friends doing normie shit it just feels like they're excluding me cuz they can sense there's something wrong with me. Yeah I do talk to like a couple of them who tolerate me but they WOULDN'T DARE to invite me somewhere. I could never be something more than an acquaintance.
Don't even get me started on how this impacts any of my attempts at getting with a girl because that is just simply off limits. What i hate most about this is all the bluepill cope you see online and offline.
They say you just need to "fake confidence" which is not a thing it's just silly neurotypical rambling, a therapist told me it's a matter of me breathing incorrectly (jfl) like there is no cure for this.
Society expects people like me to put up with this and I really do, with what I had to experience troughout all my life by now I should be roping or doing some ER type spectacles but I won't, and I don't hate anyone for this because there's no one to blame. It's simply life being unfair, normies can't help their feeling of hating anyone who is even slightly different so I'm not able to harbour any negative feelings towards them.
 
this is retarded

why do you care so much about what others think if you’re subhuman

kill your “social anxiety”


you have “social anxiety” because you still believe there’s hope left for you of some social approval

freedom starts when embarrassment becomes irrelevant

remove all hope, embrace your subhumanity

you should exist to cause discomfort to others
 

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