As for me, I had three friends in high school, and we were the nerds/outcasts of the class (not bullied, but clueless of the social dynamics playing out around us).
Fatty was an IT geek, most likely autistic but low inhib. Mostly didn't talk to others except the occasional programming ramble, but could say really random things at times. About 5'10'' and fairly overweight.
Norman was the most NT of us and fairly good looking (I'd say 6-7/10) but high inhib and unassertive. More of a liberal arts guy thasn the rest of us STEM-cels. 6' sharp.
Tally was also autistic and could go on the same kind of rambles as Fatty (but more anime and computer game related), but higher inhib. Major weeb. About 6'3'' but with pronounced acne and rather bad frame/posture.
Now fast forward a few years. Fatty went to university with me and took a side job as a nursing assistant. Meanwhile, he had started going to the gym and lost his excess weight. Turned out he had a 7-8/10 face under that fat, and a broad frame. He told me stories about how he was telling bizarre jokes and fooling around with his all female co-workers, and they seemed to appreciate it. Soon he had a somewhat older woman there explicitly asking him for sex, and he obliged. Several of the other foids did the same after a while and he told me how he hated their nagging and that he needed a break from females. Fast forward a few more years and he is now in a LTR.
Norman used dating sites, and after some initial disappointments he for some reason turned out to be a magnet for black chicks. He had a short relationship with an unstable black roastie, broke up with her and is now in a LTR with another black woman who seems to have her shit together.
Tally had the strangest ascension of all. After high school he was a NEET and played WoW while the rest of us studied and worked. Well, he said that he was teaching himself Japanese on his spare time, but I thought this was cope. After a couple of years, he tells me about a girl from Japan whom he has been talking to via some chat forum for people who want to learn about other cultures. I didn't think much of that until he actually traveled to Japan to visit her. She became his gf, and now they are about to get married. She is a solid 7/10 and educated (Tally himself got his shit together and is now studying and working himself).
Now, these guys are my friends and I'm happy for them. But back in high school I sure didn't expect myself to end up the lone incel of us.
Fatty was an IT geek, most likely autistic but low inhib. Mostly didn't talk to others except the occasional programming ramble, but could say really random things at times. About 5'10'' and fairly overweight.
Norman was the most NT of us and fairly good looking (I'd say 6-7/10) but high inhib and unassertive. More of a liberal arts guy thasn the rest of us STEM-cels. 6' sharp.
Tally was also autistic and could go on the same kind of rambles as Fatty (but more anime and computer game related), but higher inhib. Major weeb. About 6'3'' but with pronounced acne and rather bad frame/posture.
Now fast forward a few years. Fatty went to university with me and took a side job as a nursing assistant. Meanwhile, he had started going to the gym and lost his excess weight. Turned out he had a 7-8/10 face under that fat, and a broad frame. He told me stories about how he was telling bizarre jokes and fooling around with his all female co-workers, and they seemed to appreciate it. Soon he had a somewhat older woman there explicitly asking him for sex, and he obliged. Several of the other foids did the same after a while and he told me how he hated their nagging and that he needed a break from females. Fast forward a few more years and he is now in a LTR.
Norman used dating sites, and after some initial disappointments he for some reason turned out to be a magnet for black chicks. He had a short relationship with an unstable black roastie, broke up with her and is now in a LTR with another black woman who seems to have her shit together.
Tally had the strangest ascension of all. After high school he was a NEET and played WoW while the rest of us studied and worked. Well, he said that he was teaching himself Japanese on his spare time, but I thought this was cope. After a couple of years, he tells me about a girl from Japan whom he has been talking to via some chat forum for people who want to learn about other cultures. I didn't think much of that until he actually traveled to Japan to visit her. She became his gf, and now they are about to get married. She is a solid 7/10 and educated (Tally himself got his shit together and is now studying and working himself).
Now, these guys are my friends and I'm happy for them. But back in high school I sure didn't expect myself to end up the lone incel of us.
