One of the most obvious signs of being an incel is that women will avoid you at all costs, as if your mere presence were enough to drive them away. I have experienced this multiple times, especially at school, where I noticed that no matter how crowded the classroom was, the seats around me remained empty. It wasn’t a coincidence; it was a constant pattern.
I vividly remember one particular incident. A girl was about to sit in front of me, but the moment she saw me, her expression completely changed. She didn’t even try to hide it for a second—her face showed a clear look of disgust before she quickly turned away and looked for another seat. There was no hesitation, no courtesy, just instant repulsion.
Then there’s the fact that you inevitably end up sitting in the back. Not because you want to, but because it’s the only place where you don’t feel the constant sensation of rejection. In the end, experiences like these pile up, creating a difficult mix of sadness and resentment. It’s not just loneliness—it’s the certainty that there’s something about you that seems to trigger automatic rejection, and that hurts.
I vividly remember one particular incident. A girl was about to sit in front of me, but the moment she saw me, her expression completely changed. She didn’t even try to hide it for a second—her face showed a clear look of disgust before she quickly turned away and looked for another seat. There was no hesitation, no courtesy, just instant repulsion.
Then there’s the fact that you inevitably end up sitting in the back. Not because you want to, but because it’s the only place where you don’t feel the constant sensation of rejection. In the end, experiences like these pile up, creating a difficult mix of sadness and resentment. It’s not just loneliness—it’s the certainty that there’s something about you that seems to trigger automatic rejection, and that hurts.
