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Regarding influx of zoomercels in blackpilled spaces, many vets here would write them off to try but as we know there are many problems if they did that and looked ugly and true incel tier

This came to my mind just now, I kind of wish I didn't even try or approach any foid ever, while it got me a hard confirmation that I was doomed and there was no point (just ldar), which I have fully digested at this point, the cringe kind of grooved heavily into my mind, that I still cannot digest lol

A guy like me trying to have a chance to ascend appears so cringe even to me, let alone other people
luckily I didn't just try pua cold approaches and put myself in problems, I tried talking spaces etc but it still looks forced in my memory

We just don't belong in a space where foids exist

an incel would immediately be alienated in any space where a foid exists, we are truly nothing more than aliens (start ayylmaomaxxing I guess)

this is fucking brutal, ykw? because it's not even other people, even your very own conscious doesn't want to see YOU in a space with women trying shit, not other incels, YOU, it just looks and belongs to the uncanny valley, your consious cringes at your fugly ass even though job was already done :feelscomfy:



Another thing is that I find worthy to talk about in this thread is the irony of mental perception by some people here, I don't want to write a seperate thread about this but here we go:

By mental perception I mean how people percieve you mentally, I had some people here tell me that I'm not autistic and just coping with larping as an autist.

This is weird because I've seen normies, actual autists and foids recognizing me as autist right of the bat, while nts here write me off as a larp.

I didn't choose to be autistic bro, you think people larp as autistic to cope with being deadbeat retarded npcs with compulsive behavior/mentality and highly emotional but from my perspective it was the exact opposite, I went through it, I graduated, I had multiple jobs and wagies, I tried and got rejected, I hit the gym and all these failed. I didn't just waste my time on reddit or discord or whatever shit you percieve as soyish. I did delve into niche and useless consumptions but that is only because I had nothing else to do after trying, no people to talk to, no real friendship and no love, like what tf do you expect me to spend my time on? of course it would be on trivial shit after all the times I wasted on trying, you don't even want me to express my disdain for this shit and be enraged and just write it off as "muh poor impulse" afterall this :feelscomfy:

But dedsrs, how much more should one socialize or try ro improve yourself/break out before being just written off as a "muh autist larp coping retard"?

imo, if anything there are more schizo and psycho larpers nowadays, larping as extremists or cold rather than autism larpers, larping as an autist gives you almost zero benefit unlike the other two and if you somehow larp as an autistic and still do, you should switch because it became an old trend compared to these two and it's not helping you to cope or be a coathanger for your issues either
since normies don't even want to recognize it's effects on your social life.
 
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No. If you have to "try" you've already failed
 
You should try to know for sure that you're ugly. If you hadn't tried, maybe now you would be thinking "what if I'm wrong, what if I had actually tried...?"
 
You should try to know for sure that you're ugly. If you hadn't tried, maybe now you would be thinking "what if I'm wrong, what if I had actually tried...?"
I believe you should, but I'm discussing one of it's bad consequences
a poorly titled thread is what I think it is, nvm I think I should keep this as a clickbait :feelsdevil:
 
yeah I wish I didn’t bother to try either. Would have spared me a lot of pain and humiliating memories

but at least I don’t have that lingering regret in the back of my mind that maybe if I just did a bit more I could’ve escaped my inceldom. At least I have that kind of peace of mind, that yes it is truly hopeless for me
 
No, stop believing normie advices
 
star wars try GIF
 
Regarding influx of zoomercels in blackpilled spaces, many vets here would write them off to try but as we know there are many problems if they did that and looked ugly and true incel tier

This came to my mind just now, I kind of wish I didn't even try or approach any foid ever, while it got me a hard confirmation that I was doomed and there was no point (just ldar), which I have fully digested at this point, the cringe kind of grooved heavily into my mind, that I still cannot digest lol

A guy like me trying to have a chance to ascend appears so cringe even to me, let alone other people
luckily I didn't just try pua cold approaches and put myself in problems, I tried talking spaces etc but it still looks forced in my memory

We just don't belong in a space where foids exist

an incel would immediately be alienated in any space where a foid exists, we are truly nothing more than aliens (start ayylmaomaxxing I guess)

this is fucking brutal, ykw? because it's not even other people, even your very own conscious doesn't want to see YOU in a space with women trying shit, not other incels, YOU, it just looks and belongs to the uncanny valley, your consious cringes at your fugly ass even though job was already done :feelscomfy:



Another thing is that I find worthy to talk about in this thread is the irony of mental perception by some people here, I don't want to write a seperate thread about this but here we go:

By mental perception I mean how people percieve you mentally, I had some people here tell me that I'm not autistic and just coping with larping as an autist.

This is weird because I've seen normies, actual autists and foids recognizing me as autist right of the bat, while nts here write me off as a larp.

I didn't choose to be autistic bro, you think people larp as autistic to cope with being deadbeat npcs with compulsive behavior/mentality and highly emotional but from my perspective it was the exact opposite, I went through it, I graduated, I had multiple jobs and wagies, I tried and got rejected, I hit the gym and all these failed. I didn't just waste my time on reddit or discord or whatever shit you percieve as soyish. I did delve into niche and useless consumptions but that is only because I had nothing else to do after trying, no people to talk to, no real friendship and no love, like what tf do you expect me to spend my time on? of course it would be on trivial shit after all the times I wasted on trying, you don't even want me to express my disdain for this shit and be enraged and just write it off as "muh poor impulse" afterall this :feelscomfy:

But dedsrs, how much more should one socialize or try ro improve yourself/break out before being just written off as a "muh coping autist larp"?

imo, if anything there are more schizo and psycho larpers nowadays, larping as extremists or cold rather than autism larpers, larping as an autist gives you almost zero benefit unlike the other two and if you somehow larp as an autistic and still do, you should switch because it became an old trend compared to these two and it's not helping you to cope or be a coathanger for your issues either
since normies don't even want to recognize it's effects on your social life.
I'm going to have to agree with some of the replies in this thread and tell you that, the only reason you should do it is for yourself. Regret is worse than some embarrassment imo, it's just easier to get over vs not knowing your whole life and possibly dying with regrets. I'm still trying now and even though I'm failing and feeling anger and pain every single day, at least I can say that I tried (also makes it easier to BTFO normie arguments and possible fakecel accusations).
 
You know the answer to this question
 
Regarding influx of zoomercels in blackpilled spaces, many vets here would write them off to try but as we know there are many problems if they did that and looked ugly and true incel tier

This came to my mind just now, I kind of wish I didn't even try or approach any foid ever, while it got me a hard confirmation that I was doomed and there was no point (just ldar), which I have fully digested at this point, the cringe kind of grooved heavily into my mind, that I still cannot digest lol

A guy like me trying to have a chance to ascend appears so cringe even to me, let alone other people
luckily I didn't just try pua cold approaches and put myself in problems, I tried talking spaces etc but it still looks forced in my memory

We just don't belong in a space where foids exist

an incel would immediately be alienated in any space where a foid exists, we are truly nothing more than aliens (start ayylmaomaxxing I guess)

this is fucking brutal, ykw? because it's not even other people, even your very own conscious doesn't want to see YOU in a space with women trying shit, not other incels, YOU, it just looks and belongs to the uncanny valley, your consious cringes at your fugly ass even though job was already done :feelscomfy:



Another thing is that I find worthy to talk about in this thread is the irony of mental perception by some people here, I don't want to write a seperate thread about this but here we go:

By mental perception I mean how people percieve you mentally, I had some people here tell me that I'm not autistic and just coping with larping as an autist.

This is weird because I've seen normies, actual autists and foids recognizing me as autist right of the bat, while nts here write me off as a larp.

I didn't choose to be autistic bro, you think people larp as autistic to cope with being deadbeat npcs with compulsive behavior/mentality and highly emotional but from my perspective it was the exact opposite, I went through it, I graduated, I had multiple jobs and wagies, I tried and got rejected, I hit the gym and all these failed. I didn't just waste my time on reddit or discord or whatever shit you percieve as soyish. I did delve into niche and useless consumptions but that is only because I had nothing else to do after trying, no people to talk to, no real friendship and no love, like what tf do you expect me to spend my time on? of course it would be on trivial shit after all the times I wasted on trying, you don't even want me to express my disdain for this shit and be enraged and just write it off as "muh poor impulse" afterall this :feelscomfy:

But dedsrs, how much more should one socialize or try ro improve yourself/break out before being just written off as a "muh coping autist larp"?

imo, if anything there are more schizo and psycho larpers nowadays, larping as extremists or cold rather than autism larpers, larping as an autist gives you almost zero benefit unlike the other two and if you somehow larp as an autistic and still do, you should switch because it became an old trend compared to these two and it's not helping you to cope or be a coathanger for your issues either
since normies don't even want to recognize it's effects on your social life.
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I believe you should, but I'm discussing one of it's bad consequences
a poorly titled thread is what I think it is, nvm I think I should keep this as a clickbait :feelsdevil:
It is a painful "consequence" but the whole situation is a double edged sword, either you feel the raw pain from the brutal truth of rejection, or the relentless anxiety of regret and not knowing. It's rare, but some incels on here have ascended, and they weren't all newfags. Just something to think about...
 
)try everything at least once!
 
No. Just LDAR.
 
Try, so you won't have any regrets: "maybe if i asked her out".

For me the outcome is the same.
 
Try, so you won't have any regrets: "maybe if i asked her out".

For me the outcome is the same.
100%. Always try, easier to live with rejection than to live with regret.
Rejection is momentary but regret can last for years.
 
Might as well give it a shot
 
100%. Always try, easier to live with rejection than to live with regret.
Rejection is momentary but regret can last for years.
Exactly, it's like choosing the lesser pain.
It's also a part of maturing, to have the courage to take a risk.
 
Regarding influx of zoomercels in blackpilled spaces, many vets here would write them off to try but as we know there are many problems if they did that and looked ugly and true incel tier

This came to my mind just now, I kind of wish I didn't even try or approach any foid ever, while it got me a hard confirmation that I was doomed and there was no point (just ldar), which I have fully digested at this point, the cringe kind of grooved heavily into my mind, that I still cannot digest lol

A guy like me trying to have a chance to ascend appears so cringe even to me, let alone other people
luckily I didn't just try pua cold approaches and put myself in problems, I tried talking spaces etc but it still looks forced in my memory

We just don't belong in a space where foids exist

an incel would immediately be alienated in any space where a foid exists, we are truly nothing more than aliens (start ayylmaomaxxing I guess)

this is fucking brutal, ykw? because it's not even other people, even your very own conscious doesn't want to see YOU in a space with women trying shit, not other incels, YOU, it just looks and belongs to the uncanny valley, your consious cringes at your fugly ass even though job was already done :feelscomfy:



Another thing is that I find worthy to talk about in this thread is the irony of mental perception by some people here, I don't want to write a seperate thread about this but here we go:

By mental perception I mean how people percieve you mentally, I had some people here tell me that I'm not autistic and just coping with larping as an autist.

This is weird because I've seen normies, actual autists and foids recognizing me as autist right of the bat, while nts here write me off as a larp.

I didn't choose to be autistic bro, you think people larp as autistic to cope with being deadbeat retarded npcs with compulsive behavior/mentality and highly emotional but from my perspective it was the exact opposite, I went through it, I graduated, I had multiple jobs and wagies, I tried and got rejected, I hit the gym and all these failed. I didn't just waste my time on reddit or discord or whatever shit you percieve as soyish. I did delve into niche and useless consumptions but that is only because I had nothing else to do after trying, no people to talk to, no real friendship and no love, like what tf do you expect me to spend my time on? of course it would be on trivial shit after all the times I wasted on trying, you don't even want me to express my disdain for this shit and be enraged and just write it off as "muh poor impulse" afterall this :feelscomfy:

But dedsrs, how much more should one socialize or try ro improve yourself/break out before being just written off as a "muh autist larp coping retard"?

imo, if anything there are more schizo and psycho larpers nowadays, larping as extremists or cold rather than autism larpers, larping as an autist gives you almost zero benefit unlike the other two and if you somehow larp as an autistic and still do, you should switch because it became an old trend compared to these two and it's not helping you to cope or be a coathanger for your issues either
since normies don't even want to recognize it's effects on your social life.
If you want to try, at least do it online so you don't end in jail
 
You'll just get hurt
 

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