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Coyote Cooch

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so I have this hot coworker (we'll call her Anna) and I don't think she hates me, but we also don't really talk. that being said I'm not at the office most of the time, 'cause I have to travel to different job sites frequently.

anyway, I was standing in the corner of the break room today (using the coffee machine) and Anna walks in. she walked right up to another coworker who was sitting at the table, and started telling her about a party she's having tomorrow. Anna gave her the address, directions, time, and everything.

the lady she was inviting is kind of older, and she kind of jokingly made a comment about it, like "are you sure you want an old lady like me there?" and Anna just said "everyone is welcome to come!"

right at that moment, my coffee was done brewing, so I grabbed it from the machine and Anna turned around and saw me. she kind of smiled at me, I think, and then walked out.

now, even if I had the confidence to ask her directly if it's cool for me to come, this was a couple of hours ago and I'm at a job site for the rest of the day. I don't have her number and she's off tomorrow, so I won't see her at work beforehand.

should I just show up to the party tomorrow? she said everyone was welcome and I heard all the details about where her house is. or am I just insanely retarded for thinking I'm not the exception?
 
You're not retarded, just socially naive.

No, do not go.

They don't want you at the party because you're genetically inferior male.
 
You're not retarded, just socially naive.

No, do not go.

They don't want you at the party because you're genetically inferior male.
I appreciate your honesty, you're probably right.
 
She didn't even personally invite you. :feelswhat:
 
If nobody said you should go then it's not worth it unless they said to you directly that you should come.
 
She didn't even personally invite you. :feelswhat:
the thing is I'm honestly unsure if she was talking to both of us in the break room, or at least was cool with me hearing about it. 'cause it sounds like she invited everyone from the office.
 
the thing is I'm honestly unsure if she was talking to both of us in the break room, or at least was cool with me hearing about it. 'cause it sounds like she invited everyone from the office.
My bad, but honestly, I wouldn't take the risk.

I heard all the details about where her house is.
In the worst-case scenario, they will accuse you of being a stalker. Or at least that's what IT thinks we are.

I apologize if I made false assumptions about your life; I am extrapolating from my experiences.
 
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My bad, but honestly, I wouldn't take the risk.


In the worst-case scenario, they will accuse you of being a stalker. Or at least that's what IT thinks we are.

I apologize if I am making false assumptions about your life; I am extrapolating from my experiences. :fuk:
no brother, you're cool. I appreciate your perspective. you're probably right that I shouldn't go.
 
I wouldn't go if i were in you tbh
 
its not a good idea to show up to a part uninvited personally, unless you are popular

in fact
when I was young I WAS invited to a party by a dude
and when I showed up
I was publicly ridiculed by my looksmatch foid
 
i would have asked her if i can come just to see her reaction
i do enjoy seeing their squirmy faces try and uncortort themselves into something normal so their platitudes seem believable
see what kinda lies they are gonna give me now.
all too used to it now
i can recognize every micro expression of disgust by now
I just want to make them uncomfortable lol, socially pressured to act nice towards me
 
Chadcel for being invited to a party
 
its not a good idea to show up to a part uninvited personally, unless you are popular

in fact
when I was young I WAS invited to a party by a dude
and when I showed up
I was publicly ridiculed by my looksmatch foid
wtf? new fear unlocked. why are people so fucking cruel?
 
i would have asked her if i can come just to see her reaction
i do enjoy seeing their squirmy faces try and uncortort themselves into something normal so their platitudes seem believable
see what kinda lies they are gonna give me now.
all too used to it now
i can recognize every micro expression of disgust by now
I just want to make them uncomfortable lol, socially pressured to act nice towards me
I hate watching them act like that, it makes me feel like shit about myself. I hope one day I can learn take joy in it like you.
 
wtf? new fear unlocked. why are people so fucking cruel?
normies feed off of social standing. They attatch themselves to anybody who can help them gain it, like big-ass friend groups, they bully, ridicule and punch down on anybody who they think could be below them, thus they are relatively higher.
The funny thing is, Chad and Stacy often being genuinely nice isnt even halo effect. Their social standing is already infallible, therefore they dont partake in the same cruel and crude tactics of normies.
 
Judging by the information you provided I doubt she wants you there. I have never been to a party, function, or similar social gatherings apart from church events, and I wish never to go. Normies will find a way there to use you, pretend to be your friend just to leave you in the gutter. I would say don't go, give it a shot if you want.
 
Judging by the information you provided I doubt she wants you there. I have never been to a party, function, or similar social gatherings apart from church events, and I wish never to go. Normies will find a way there to use you, pretend to be your friend just to leave you in the gutter. I would say don't go, give it a shot if you want.
I didn't end up going, turns out everyone was right.. they clearly didn't want me there, because no one mentioned it to me since being back at work after.
 
If she didn't PERSONALLY come to you and tell YOU personally that YOU are invited, it's GG. Don't even bother asking or going. If you do end up going you're just going to bring the average looks level down and people are going to step on you looks wise. The same way how mid girls will take pics with fat girls just so they look better because of the contrast.
 
If she didn't PERSONALLY come to you and tell YOU personally that YOU are invited, it's GG. Don't even bother asking or going. If you do end up going you're just going to bring the average looks level down and people are going to step on you looks wise. The same way how mid girls will take pics with fat girls just so they look better because of the contrast.
wait foids actually do that? JFL. does that even work?
 

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