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Discussion Should I ask a girl out before I turn 20?

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Should I ask a girl out before I turn 20?

  • Yes

    Votes: 21 75.0%
  • No

    Votes: 7 25.0%

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TryhardPsychocel

TryhardPsychocel

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In about 4 months I will be 20 years old. I have never tried to ask a girl out, In fact I have almost never bothered trying to interact with a girl because I strongly believe that I'm ugly and that all modern foids have delusional standards and are very judgemental.
 
If you are sub5, no
 
Yes, and report the results

Should make an interesting thread either way
 
You might as well try.
 
Don't bother

Attractive people don't even really "ask out girls" the relationship just kind of develops due to being around each other and naturally you end up hanging out 1 on 1, asking out a girl is a meme.
 
If you are sub5, no
It's actually impossible for me to know. Since I have never asked anyone out, never been bullied, never been called ugly.

My opinion on myself is based on what I think of my face, sometimes I like it, sometimes not. Still I know that I'm ugly and girls don't want me. And also on the fact that I've been ignored by all girls my entire life, they have never tried to interact with me.
 
Don't bother

Attractive people don't even really "ask out girls" the relationship just kind of develops due to being around each other and naturally you end up hanging out 1 on 1, asking out a girl is a meme.
This makes quite a lot of sense how have I not thought of this
 
Do it.

You have to leave blackpill experiences like rejection to be fully considered as incel.
 
It's actually impossible for me to know. Since I have never asked anyone out, never been bullied, never been called ugly.

My opinion on myself is based on what I think of my face
When it comes to looks, it doesn't matter what YOU think but what OTHERS think

So yeah, is your chance to know if u ugly
 
This makes quite a lot of sense how have I not thought of this
Thats my take at least.

Thats why there is the normie meme of "what are we" or whatever where the foid asks what they are to a guy.

It all just "happens" you are not mean to ask.

They even try to push that you are meant to ask for consent from sex. No lol.

If I ever ascend with a GF I don't need her outright consent I will have sex with her whenever, if she gives me an outright NO then yeah I would not have sex with her, but needing an outright YES is laughable, girls dont find that sexy at all.

Maybe you might find this story valuable or call me a fakecel up to you.

When I was younger I was playing fortnite in this discord server with some people and a foid joined our party. I used to be good at video games so she got downed and asked me to ressurect her in the game, I told her she had to go out on a date with me to to the movies on friday to get ressurected and she had to date me(she lived half an hour away from me)

Just kek because this bitch was dming me on discord after asking for my number, she clearly is not in to consent even if its a video game, but if I took the soyboy route that would not have happened.

At the time though I did not have a phone or a bank account I was scared to go outside without my mommy (JFL @ me) so nothing ended up happening, she also didnt know I was a manlet so I guess that helped.

It seems fakecel but I think discord is an underrated way for people to make irl friends and even try ascend, the whole femoidsgtfo drama was around discord, personally though I think incel discords are retarded but if you can try get in to discords somehow where the people live near you and do meetups, i think its not talked about enough on here.
 
If you know, you know, it's really as simple as that, there is no magical combination of words or gesticulations that will unlock a little keyhole in the back of a foids head and unlock her attraction mode.
 
are you a truecel or do you look like a super model? truecel then no, if super model then yes.
 
Thats my take at least.

Thats why there is the normie meme of "what are we" or whatever where the foid asks what they are to a guy.

It all just "happens" you are not mean to ask.

They even try to push that you are meant to ask for consent from sex. No lol.

If I ever ascend with a GF I don't need her outright consent I will have sex with her whenever, if she gives me an outright NO then yeah I would not have sex with her, but needing an outright YES is laughable, girls dont find that sexy at all.

Maybe you might find this story valuable or call me a fakecel up to you.

When I was younger I was playing fortnite in this discord server with some people and a foid joined our party. I used to be good at video games so she got downed and asked me to ressurect her in the game, I told her she had to go out on a date with me to to the movies on friday to get ressurected and she had to date me(she lived half an hour away from me)

Just kek because this bitch was dming me on discord after asking for my number, she clearly is not in to consent even if its a video game, but if I took the soyboy route that would not have happened.

At the time though I did not have a phone or a bank account I was scared to go outside without my mommy (JFL @ me) so nothing ended up happening, she also didnt know I was a manlet so I guess that helped.

It seems fakecel but I think discord is an underrated way for people to make irl friends and even try ascend, the whole femoidsgtfo drama was around discord, personally though I think incel discords are retarded but if you can try get in to discords somehow where the people live near you and do meetups, i think its not talked about enough on here.
I found your story very interesting indeed. Also now that you've mentioned the "it just happens" phenomenon, I've realized that a lot of my friends/acquaintances got with their girlfriends just by hanging out with them in groups and then one day they're fucking like rabbits. It's crazy how I've never thought of this really, maybe it's the undiagnosed autism or I'm just retarded. Good looking chads don't really need to degrade themselves and lower their level by "asking out" a foid like a fucking beggar, they just grow on each other the longer they're around one another.

As for the meeting people on discord part, I'm very skeptical of meeting people online. I know this isn't the early 2000's where murderers and kidnappers roam the internet and I'm also a grown ass man but I'm just stuck with the mentality that if you talk to someone online, it should be kept that way. I know it doesn't make much sense but meh. Also I live in a 3rd world shithole, normies here barely use discord and nt retards like myself are kinda scarce.
 
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I'll be 19 in less than a month, haven't tried this, spent a year on self reflection and maxing out my stats but I have no clue where to even being, I have almost nothing in common with the average foid
 
Yes but then run away from the cops as quickly as possible.
 
How tall are you OP?
 
I found your story very interesting indeed. Also now that you've mentioned the "it just happens" phenomenon, I've realized that a lot of my friends/acquaintances got with their girlfriends just by hanging out with them in groups and then one day they're fucking like rabbits. It's crazy how I've never thought of this really, maybe it's the undiagnosed autism or I'm just retarded. Good looking chads don't really need to degrade themselves and lower their level by "asking out" a foid like a fucking beggar, they just grow on each other the longer they're around one another.
Yeah, I mean imagine going up to some guy and being like "Hey want to be my friend? There is this cool place we can go to eat?"
It means well but its way too direct and not organic at all, and thats just to be friends with someone which is not as significant as a girlfriend/boyfriend
If you have to try you have already failed, I learned that when I tried to ask out my oneitis and it failed horribly, you should never "ask out a girl"
What you are really trying to do is naturally end up hanging out with them one on one, this goes for a friend or potential girlfriend.

Either way somehow despite understanding stuff like this I am still single and friendless, I think I was just too non NT growing up and my prime social years of school are gone.
As for the meeting people on discord part, I'm very skeptical of meeting people online. I know this isn't the early 2000's where murderers and kidnappers roam the internet and I'm also a grown ass man but I'm just stuck with the mentality that if you talk to someone online, it should be kept that way. I know it doesn't make much sense but meh. Also I live in a 3rd world shithole, normies here barely use discord and nt retards like myself are kinda scarce.
I have no experience with 3rd world countries so idk there you can make the best judgement.

Usually I would agree to keep online people online, however ideally these people you would meet would also be close to your actual irl location so that way it is alot more fluid to meet them. The world is increasingly becoming online, unfortunately my online identity is known as a troll that says the nigger word so thats doing me no favours.
 
Good luck on ur journey, it ain't easy
 
Go ER instead
 
Go ER instead
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Yeah, I mean imagine going up to some guy and being like "Hey want to be my friend? There is this cool place we can go to eat?"
It means well but its way too direct and not organic at all, and thats just to be friends with someone which is not as significant as a girlfriend/boyfriend
If you have to try you have already failed, I learned that when I tried to ask out my oneitis and it failed horribly, you should never "ask out a girl"
What you are really trying to do is naturally end up hanging out with them one on one, this goes for a friend or potential girlfriend.

Either way somehow despite understanding stuff like this I am still single and friendless, I think I was just too non NT growing up and my prime social years of school are gone.
I get the feeling my man. My prime school and uni years are gone, there are no situations for me where I'm around mutual foid friends so it's very hard to try and apply this method. The fact that I'm also a sub5 doesn't help since the competition is too high, chads and chadlites monopolized the scene so hanging out with a woman and expecting her to grow on me is out of the question... sad.
 
If you will never try you will nto known results ( even if likely will be not positive...)
 
Yes gets some rejection experience
 
Yes gets some rejection experience
I'm already unhinged enough as it is and I have no hope left. Getting rejected will just push me over the edge and make the future harder.
 
just rape her lol

volcel if not
 
Yes just go for it if you see a girl you like you at least have to try.
 
Yes. Fakecel if you don’t.
 

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