This lady that worked at the Libary hates me because I said to her “ have you ever smoked marijuana” I mindlessly said it with no awareness I was saying it giving the chance that everything is predetermined the upper chance against a bet on the theory of free will being proven to be true. Why do people place reason in a theory why people do or say what they do or say if that theory isn’t proven.
The social interaction started out ok at first I talked to her about how I don’t like cigarette smoke and she seemed fine with it and then out of nowhere it’s like I say some question with out choosing to say it and she’s responds to that question by saying that doesn’t make me comfortable. Ever since I asked her that question her attitude to me has been full of fuck off signals it’s like some people are so unforgiving.
I told this guy about how this foid that works at the library hates me for this question I asked her. He seems better at useing logic to evaluate possibilities of what people think than I am at doing so. He tells me that they would only think I want to ask that question to take advantage of her I don’t want to do anything bad to her.
I have learned from all of this that socialy speaking it’s all unfair because social groups are driven by assumptions of others intentions more than they are driven by with holding a bet on someone’s intentions if those intentions are unknown. What makes it so unfair is that people will take the side of people who assume people have intentions they don’t have this only leads to the problem of how people will create reasons to have problems with other people based on useing their unforgiving mindset to always assume that something about them they’re not sure about could mean the worst it doesn’t always mean the worst in fact if someone always thinks something they’re not sure about means the worst it can have the outcome of the person creating a reason to hate that’s based on the wrong answer with out realising it’s based on the wrong answer
The social interaction started out ok at first I talked to her about how I don’t like cigarette smoke and she seemed fine with it and then out of nowhere it’s like I say some question with out choosing to say it and she’s responds to that question by saying that doesn’t make me comfortable. Ever since I asked her that question her attitude to me has been full of fuck off signals it’s like some people are so unforgiving.
I told this guy about how this foid that works at the library hates me for this question I asked her. He seems better at useing logic to evaluate possibilities of what people think than I am at doing so. He tells me that they would only think I want to ask that question to take advantage of her I don’t want to do anything bad to her.
I have learned from all of this that socialy speaking it’s all unfair because social groups are driven by assumptions of others intentions more than they are driven by with holding a bet on someone’s intentions if those intentions are unknown. What makes it so unfair is that people will take the side of people who assume people have intentions they don’t have this only leads to the problem of how people will create reasons to have problems with other people based on useing their unforgiving mindset to always assume that something about them they’re not sure about could mean the worst it doesn’t always mean the worst in fact if someone always thinks something they’re not sure about means the worst it can have the outcome of the person creating a reason to hate that’s based on the wrong answer with out realising it’s based on the wrong answer
