Venting Sexual Autism

[BPmonk]

Every time I jerk off to porn (since I can't FUCK a real women because they only chase after chads rather than settle for their looksmatch) I release oxytocin, the neurotransmitter responsible for pair bonding and emotional connection. Except the only problem is that I release the chemical in response to a virtual, digital stimuli rather than a real mate. This has been the case since I was in middle school and there is no possible way that doing this for this long does not have long-term deleterious neurological effects on a developing brain. Other guys my age are fulfilling their biological imperatives buy having sex with real flesh-and-blood mates while I have to cope with artificial crap, gooning to others partaking in an act that I wish I could partake in but can't. All of the endorphins and neurochemicals that I release after fapping aren't making me more emotionally invested in another person but rather my own self with my own personal, idiosyncratic tendencies. The frustration and psychological turmoil that this causes within me, knowing what I'm missing out on and what I might never truly get to experience, make me want to do certain things that I'm not allowed to say even on a site like this.

I am a nice, generous, caring guy. I do right by people. I'm empathetic but still no woman will see me the way I see them. I'm unironically the perfect guy and a stellar gentleman but yet I still can't get shit. wtf.

I hope every porn star on the planet dies of AIDS or Syphilis or something. if I were to hear on the news one day that the HQ of Pornhub or Onlyfans got bombed or shot up in someone's Minecraft server I wouldn't give a single flying fuck. There I said it. I hate the whole industry for abusing my dopaminergic system and for exploiting an already downtrodden underclass of sexually disenfranchised men by selling empty fantasies. I just want sexually active people to die a slow and painful death. I hate all of them and always will.

good video that explains this phenomenon:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7P4cjUmyctg


Sorry for the low effot rant. Boring day.

 

[wereq]

I'm the same way.

 

[aryanmikmaq]

Good rant brocel post more. And I agree completely m.

 

[SupremeFroggy]

make me want to do certain things that I'm not allowed to say even on a site like this.

I am a nice, generous, caring guy. I do right by people. I'm empathetic but still no woman will see me the way I see them. I'm unironically the perfect guy and a stellar gentleman but yet I still can't get shit. wtf.

You sound like a cERtain guy...

 

[ThePornographer]

It depend of the quantity and the type of shit you watch.

If you keep yourself to softcore video ( Non nude sexy women ) and jerk off to it once a week or two, you might heal.

But yes porn is really bad.

 

[WeirdoFreak88]

gooning to others partaking in an act that I wish I could partake in but can't. All of the endorphins and neurochemicals that I release after fapping aren't making me more emotionally invested in another person but rather my own self with my own personal, idiosyncratic tendencies. The frustration and psychological turmoil that this causes within me, knowing what I'm missing out on and what I might never truly get to experience, make me want to do certain things that I'm not allowed to say even on a site like this.

You have to be constantly monitoring the porn you're watching, I suggest this:

1. Stop watching content of people having intercourse, this is having a negative effect on your brain, you should watch solo female content that doesn't involve any sort of penetration, you have to mentally prepare the setting in which YOU, in your head, are going to penetrate and make love to a woman. you have to stop or you'll eventually become a cuck because the stimulus is not recieved from you imagining doing the act, but from watching others doing it.

2. Watch only image content, quit watching videos, porn in the form of videos is proven and peer reviewed by Dr. Soyberg to be at a higher risk of addiction development, it can take years to stop watching video porn content, with images, just a couple of months at best. It's 5am so I'm not gonna look for the studies to back up this claim, this is an invitation for you to research this topic so you can manage better your porn consumption and to make it way easier if you ever want to quit, but you can take this point at face value because it's good advice either way.

3. Look for a female character that you really like, and imagine a romantic sex scene with her, for example, what I do is, I lay in bed, keep a set of pictures which I like of her, I periodically watch the pictures to keep the stimulus going and I close my eyes, I imagine we're undressing and a slow progression until penetration, all of it as a multisensorial experience, as if it were happening in real life, I am romantically attached to this character so the sensation is even better, if you do not feel any sort of connection to the character you're gonna feel that you're being all lovey dovey with an escort.

4. Restrict your masturbation to 2 times a day maximum and work your way down from there, if your penis starts hurting from masturbation you've gone too far, at that point you don't even desire sex but a cheap dopamine hit. Relax and take it easy, even if you had the perfect foid in real life she wouldn't let you have sex more than twice a day. Don't blame yourself for going beyond your limit either, just think "I was stressed out and made a mistake, I'll manage it better tomorrow", you will naturally slow down your sex drive and it will be a special ocassion that you will enjoy very much.

If you apply these concepts, you're likely gonna be watching solo pictures of naked female characters which you're attracted to, and masturbating to the mental schema and 3rd eye visualization of you penetrating them or caressing their erogenous parts, which you're going to enjoy way more than just aggresively gooning to some other niggas doin they shit, mane. Which I believe should solve your jealousness problems, another thing is that you shouldn't go on r34 or whatever porn thing before making a major list of negative tags, or just cut to the chase and make the AI images yourself.

I'm a psychology student so I know my shit mane, hope this helped, I'm wishing you the best.

 

[SupremeFroggy]

I'm a psychology student so I know my shit mane

You must have skipped the Dunning-Kruger lesson.

 

[WeirdoFreak88]

You must have skipped the Dunning-Kruger lesson.

Why are you mad

 

[SupremeFroggy]

Why are you mad

Just kidding bro, easy.

 

[Caichan]

goon to fiction so u get less attached

 

[Livonica_Irreale]

goon to fiction so u get less attached

 

[Dollfucker]

this is why sex dolls are way better then porn, you wont get ED or turn into a cuck, or get death grip, and most importantly it wont make you feel like shit after you bust (at least for me)

 

[LonelyReject]

this is why sex dolls are way better then porn, you wont get ED or turn into a cuck, or get death grip, and most importantly it wont make you feel like shit after you bust (at least for me)

What dolls do you use brother?


My personal favourite is Caroline

 

[Dollfucker]

What dolls do you use brother?


My personal favourite is Caroline

holy shit caroline is good from tantaly right? If you want a butt toy thats my go to its perfect size, the cheeks are soft, everything. But my favorite full size doll is my butterflydoll akira

This is the one im in love with I sleep with her, have her chill on my lap while gayming, kiss her and just have to use my imagination to pretend shes real

 

[LonelyReject]

holy shit caroline is good from tantaly right? If you want a butt toy thats my go to its perfect size, the cheeks are soft, everything. But my favorite full size doll is my butterflydoll akira
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This is the one im in love with I sleep with her, have her chill on my lap while gayming, kiss her and just have to use my imagination to pretend shes real

Holy fuck she's hot. I only have Caroline ass so no tits movement.

It legit looks like this:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/tantaly/comments/1kdwy9d/what_it_looks_like_vs_what_it_feels_like/


Also why don't you add a speaker to your doll so it can simulate moaning sounds or telling you to fuck her harder. And even calling you daddy

 

[DreamCoper]

Good rant brocel post more. And I agree completely m.

 

[DreamCoper]

You sound like high-iq ER

 

[BPmonk]

You sound like high-iq ER

Thanks, bro

 

[BPmonk]

You have to be constantly monitoring the porn you're watching, I suggest this:

1. Stop watching content of people having intercourse, this is having a negative effect on your brain, you should watch solo female content that doesn't involve any sort of penetration, you have to mentally prepare the setting in which YOU, in your head, are going to penetrate and make love to a woman. you have to stop or you'll eventually become a cuck because the stimulus is not recieved from you imagining doing the act, but from watching others doing it.

2. Watch only image content, quit watching videos, porn in the form of videos is proven and peer reviewed by Dr. Soyberg to be at a higher risk of addiction development, it can take years to stop watching video porn content, with images, just a couple of months at best. It's 5am so I'm not gonna look for the studies to back up this claim, this is an invitation for you to research this topic so you can manage better your porn consumption and to make it way easier if you ever want to quit, but you can take this point at face value because it's good advice either way.

3. Look for a female character that you really like, and imagine a romantic sex scene with her, for example, what I do is, I lay in bed, keep a set of pictures which I like of her, I periodically watch the pictures to keep the stimulus going and I close my eyes, I imagine we're undressing and a slow progression until penetration, all of it as a multisensorial experience, as if it were happening in real life, I am romantically attached to this character so the sensation is even better, if you do not feel any sort of connection to the character you're gonna feel that you're being all lovey dovey with an escort.

4. Restrict your masturbation to 2 times a day maximum and work your way down from there, if your penis starts hurting from masturbation you've gone too far, at that point you don't even desire sex but a cheap dopamine hit. Relax and take it easy, even if you had the perfect foid in real life she wouldn't let you have sex more than twice a day. Don't blame yourself for going beyond your limit either, just think "I was stressed out and made a mistake, I'll manage it better tomorrow", you will naturally slow down your sex drive and it will be a special ocassion that you will enjoy very much.

If you apply these concepts, you're likely gonna be watching solo pictures of naked female characters which you're attracted to, and masturbating to the mental schema and 3rd eye visualization of you penetrating them or caressing their erogenous parts, which you're going to enjoy way more than just aggresively gooning to some other niggas doin they shit, mane. Which I believe should solve your jealousness problems, another thing is that you shouldn't go on r34 or whatever porn thing before making a major list of negative tags, or just cut to the chase and make the AI images yourself.

I'm a psychology student so I know my shit mane, hope this helped, I'm wishing you the best.

I appreciate this advice. Thanks, mang