Serious Serious question, where do men and women meet? Only online?

[Blacksmith]

For an adult man, over mid 20s, where to look for single women? (Not talking about Chads, 20% rules etc, just where women make themselves approachable.)
Do people only meet online? Seems like an impossible deal for non Chad men?
Cold approach in supermarket, movie theatre, farmers market etc? Many guys here say it is pointless and exhausting.
Through family and friends?
At work?
At higher education?
Pubs?
Clubs?

Not discussing chances as non Chad, just the general ways of meeting.

 

[Grodd]

It's pointless as a Sub 5

 

[Blacksmith]

It's pointless as a Sub 5

Not what I asked.

 

[Grodd]

Not what I asked.

Trying to meet foids online as sub5 is pointless and will only end in humiliation and cold approaching like you mentioned will at minimum end in brutal rejection and most you'll end up in jail does that answer it

 

[Blacksmith]

Read my post. It is not about you. Or maybe me either. Where do "normal" people meet?

 

[Vision]

It’s mainly online and done through Instagram and dating apps. As an average guy, you basically don’t stand a chance with online dating tbh (especially if you’re an ethnic) but when it does work, it’s by hooking up through mutual friends, acquaintances, etc. Cold approaches absolutely do not work if you’re not a chad tho

 

[fullofchagrin]

For an adult man, over mid 20s, where to look for single women? (Not talking about Chads, 20% rules etc, just where women make themselves approachable.)
Do people only meet online? Seems like an impossible deal for non Chad men?
Cold approach in supermarket, movie theatre, farmers market etc? Many guys here say it is pointless and exhausting.
Through family and friends?
At work?
At higher education?
Pubs?
Clubs?

Not discussing chances as non Chad, just the general ways of meeting.

i think the biggest portion is probably through friends & social events that you go to with friends

 

[Blacksmith]

It’s mainly online and done through Instagram and dating apps. As an average guy, you basically don’t stand a chance with online dating tbh (especially if you’re an ethnic) but when it does work, it’s by hooking up through mutual friends, acquaintances, etc.

Thanks. So society is forming new groups? People hot enough to date online, people meeting IRL, and incels?

 

[southeastoldcel]

Online is obviously the biggest now for normies. The thing is most women want to scurry back to bumble or hinge on their phone to meet guys because they know they are going to 'to doo better' there than they will irl.

Where 'do better' means get some swipes, maybe get a few meet ups, and then of those few meet ups have 1-2 chads sleep with them because they were bored and like variety.

While 5-6/10 women do get attention from some chads in online dating, just like the real world it leads to basically ZERO meaningful relationships. Everyone talks about how in online dating that the top 50% of women are matching with the top 20% of men.

That may be true, but when looking at actual committed relationships, the top 20% of men on bumble/hinge are forming actual relationships with the.......top 20% of women. Same in real life.

So when people talk about the 'advantage' average looking women have over average looking men in online dating, this mostly refers to average looking women having lots of matches with relatively high end guys and then a few scattered sexual encounters. but no serious dating. No committed relationships. Certainly not marriage.

this is not what the women like to hear, but it's true.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Read my post. It is not about you. Or maybe me either. Where do "normal" people meet?

everywhere

 

[DutchCel01]

Read my post. It is not about you. Or maybe me either. Where do "normal" people meet?

Mostly friend of friends. And online dating too.

 

[VλREN]

Pubs?

Tales form Britain

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

Where do "normal" people meet?

Better to ask this question on a normie subreddit

Here we are cursed subhumans banished from society

 

[OmegaRicecel]

If you aren’t sub 5 go to the club where you can get a ran through land whale with 2 nigger kids

 

[Chromium]

20% rules etc, just

It's not 20. You think 1 in 5 men can attract women? JFL at you. It's always been 5%

 

[Blacksmith]

Thank you for all serious responses!
Some might remember that a big issue for me is not finding any attractive and available women in real life. That since I am only attracted to obese women, that there are so few of where I live.
I have no women like that in my mldest social circle, not via work either. Cold approach? I hear you say that I probably will not be doing better online either.
(Actually, I have tried online dating at some plus size site without real success, and find it even more frustrating and fragile than irl lack of progress.)

Guys I know have met their women in mixed ways as well. Some irl, at some event, one met his high school friend again later in life etc.

 

[Blacksmith]

If you aren’t sub 5 go to the club where you can get a ran through land whale with 2 nigger kids

No clubs and no (available) land whales anywhere I know of here. At all.