Any reasonable person should agree there is a huge difference between "true" rape and statutory rape.
The latter is consensual, but illegal due to age differences.
While the former is illegal regardless of the ages of the participants.
You don't even need to be that high-IQ, even a based-for-a-leftist negress like Whoopi understood that instinctively when she talked about Roman Polanski
Any reasonable person should also agree that children are very good at knowing what they want and don’t want, like and don’t like. If you have ever tried to persuade a young child to eat its vegetables, you will see how capable children are of giving consent. Likewise with intimacy/sexuality: a child can make it abundantly clear, either verbally or through body language, whether or not she is comfortable with what she is doing.
OTOH one could make the argument that persisting to deny vegetables shows too much reliance on 'feel good' seeking over 'good for long term health' when making choices.
Some guy could have genital warts he'd transmit to a toddler and might convince her "they're magic because I'm a frog prince" or some crap to rationalize why she should lick his dick, and now she has herpes for life.
So while I agree with you they can usually emphatically refuse things which feel bad, we should also be taking into account that there's more than this capacity which is important, but also knowledge of the potential bad ends that can result from certain activities.
IE why even if a preteen enthusiastically consented to drive a school bus and maybe they won't crash it, the risk is on average going to be very high that they will crash it, so I'd definitely want to be super-sure they've proven responsibility with a good licensing system.
I agree that coercion is harmful regardless of age. However, if the child agrees to the relationship, there is no notable harm.
Eh... not sure the best counter to 1-way generalization is to generalize in the opposite direction.
We could def see notable harm in some agreed-to relationships, though that is also true of adults.
Most often that'd be due to toxic abusive people and having a lack of support network to go to for help.
One thing inherently unhealthy about underage relationships IMO (and why I would never engage in one even though I don't view them as inherently harmful) is that in the context of illegality there is an atmosphere of secrecy which isolates abused partners from receiving input that could help them recognize abuse.
For example if 13 yo girl is dating 13 yo guy, she can talk to her friends about her BF and if he's exhibiting abusive behaviors, she might be helped in recognizing that by input from her friends.
If however she's dating 23 yo guy then she might hide it from her friends to protect him (a jealous friend might report him to police) which isolates her from potentially helpful input from her friends that cuold help her recognize and address an abusive relationship with the older BF.
Of course if it was considered acceptable for them to date then she could discuss the 23yo BF with frieds and get their opinions to possibly wake her up to any exploitive/controlling/etc stuff he would be doing by giving a frame of reference to their own experience/relationship.
Show me a single study which shows that
consensual sex between adults and children usually results in psychological damage. There are plenty of studies showing otherwise. (
Sandfort,
Kilpatrick,
Rind et al (1997).,
Ulrich et al.,
Rind, B. (2020),
Daly, R (2021), etc..
'usually' sounds like >50% and we probably want to be a bit more pragmatic than that in harm minimization
The abstract of the 2021 Daily study doesn't really go into enough particulars...
- sexual orientation (e.g., SCL 90-R) and perceived consent of the sexual experience (e.g., SCL 90-R and FACES-II) were the only variables that significantly impacted outcomes scores
- participants in the CSA group were significantly more likely to report being victimized in their first sexual experiences
Like what does 'significantly' mean in both these cases? Do you have access to the full copy to get some actual numbers here?
To quote Dr. Bruce Rind:
"
In laymen's terms, if two of one hundred persons in the general population have clinically significant problems, only three of one hundred persons having experienced child sexual abuse do—far fewer than the large majorities implied by sexual victimologists" (
source)
going from 2% to 3% is basically a 50% average increase, still seems worth looking into, even if it's not as significant as alarmists let on
That said, I'm curious about what their CSA parameters are, because maybe we'd see higher than >50% if you limited it to preadolescent CSA and less than 50% if you limited it to adolescent CSA
there's definitely too much focus when we compare this to other stuff, like for example...
The relationship of elevated depression risk recently discovered among adult persons raised by same-sex parents with possible precipitating conditions in childhood has not previously been acknowledged. This study tests whether such inattention is supportable. ...
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
At age 28, the adults raised by same-sex parents were at over twice the risk of depression (CES-D: risk ratio 2.6, 95% CI 1.4–4.6) as persons raised by man-woman parents.
That's >100% increase, over TWICE the risk of problems if you're raised by same-sex parents than if you have a sexual experience as a minor.
You could of course argue some of that is circumstantial (ie social discrimination against your household rather than inherent problems of your household) but you could say the same of the 50% increase in Rind's.
Regarding these findings, the authors of
Abnormal Psychology, which is an academic psychology textbook, had this to say:
"One criticism of the original study was that it relied on college students, who may be unrepresentative. Perhaps they were able to attend college despite CSA because they were especially resilient. However, in another study, Rind analyzed data from community samples (samples not selected on the basis of educational attainment) and got virtually identical results (Rind & Tromovitch, 1997
). Some of Rind’s statistical decisions and analyses have also been criticized, but he has shown that his results do not change much when he analyzes the data the way his critics would."
The college-only criticism is a pretty good one so I'm glad he did community samples including HS dropouts and stuff...
Though I am curious where he took this 2nd sample from, do you know?
Another factor we should take into account is a possible reduction due to suicides: obviously if someone offs themself because their rabbi molested them they're not going to be included in your poll to say they're depressed that the rabbi molested them.
I don't know the statistical significance that could have. If we assumed 100% of teen/YA suicides were due to having early sexual experiences (not likely, but just for argument's sake) how much would that skew the % do you think?
Pedophiles who positively prefer to be tricking and coercing children and who just want to use them for sex are just as rare as teleiophiles who have the same dark-triad tendencies.
Not sure how we could assess something like 'just as rare'.
I don't think we could ever get accurate polls on any group since Dark Triad folk are inherently masqueraded.
You basically only find out about the incompetent ones who reveal themselves.
IE you know about the Buffalo Bill but not the Nils Hagen.
If a child responds positively to the attention of a pedo, it is because she or he wants that love and maybe needs it. I'm not saying that every child needs or should have that - it's up to the child and their parents/caregivers. It's just one of the possible relationships that, if conducted correctly, and respectfully, should contribute to a child enjoying life and flourishing.
I am pretty concerned about pedophiles dumping prepubescents once puberty starts though. That really can't be framed in standard "let's get married and spend our lives together" type of romance put forth as the role model.
You'd need to do a cultural rewrite where prepubescent girls know from the outset they'll no longer be attractive to their BF and need a new BF who is okay with them having the old BF.
It basically isn't consistent with the established norms and I worry about how they'd take that shock.
It's probably already pretty common and I think most girls whether it by finding another guy to affirm them (perhaps being less choosey for the sake of getting validation?) but should we normalize that kind of bitterness?
The idea that we create a dividing line which is completely ineffective at preventing manipulation, a line which says "hey, if you're both under it, you can be manipulated into sex and it's totally legal, as well as if you're both over it, but if one of you is over and one is under, then it's suddenly a horrible crime", is bogus.
Age of Consent laws have destroyed the lives of hundreds of thousands of men who never harmed anyone. Spend some time thinking about it and do some research. Don't just believe feminist lies and sophistries.
Dude don't bash the Sophists those guys were fucking awesome, Plato was a whiny little communist bitch. They don't deserve to be compared with feminist BSers
SJWs are now literally pro pre-op trannies exposing themselves to minors.
https://www.asian-dawn.com/2021/07/04/trans-rights-protest-turns-violent-in-koreatown/ Almost a week ago, a video spread like wildfire, showing a woman confronting an employee at Wi Spa because a transgender man exposed his penis in the women’s section of the spa. “He is a man,” the woman...
incels.is
almost as though they now buy into the (pedo) argument that children should be normalized to the exposure of genitals
-- that nude bodies of all types are nothing worth getting fussed over, and you might as well have that shame removed at an early age
I don't see how that's a pedo argument, it seems plausible one could be okay with prepubescent relations but still believe that they should be private 1-on-1 things.
You're making it sound like if you want to nude-cuddle with a preteen GF in a sauna that by extension you should want a bunch of other guys slapping her in the face with their cocks
Antifa violently believe that there is no correlation between being tranny and being a pedophile or being a pervert.
I don't think "a pervert" is specific enough to be useful.
As far as correlating transgenderism and pedophilia, I would make the same correlation with homosexuality/furries in that in terms of mentally embracing abnormal outlooks, one could say there is a 'slippery slope' that being open-minded to one predisposes you to being open-minded to the other ones.
Basically if you accept one thing you won't have that same instinctive "ew gross, not normal" response that normies get which prevents them from considering prospects.
I would similarly say there's a correlation between accepting wanting to fuck 2d anime girls and wanting to fuck 2d western squirrel girls.
That said, we should also acknowledge that any of these can definitely exist without the other, and that rather than there being some kind of inherent link, it might just be that the correlation is whether people deny/embrace perhaps inherently equal predispositions.
An alternate view might be that any deviation from biological norm (wanting to date/fuck/impregnate a pre/mid/post pubescent girl) are collectively chaotic and misdirected and flipping all over the place for lack of purpose.
They blindly deny the existence of deviant freaks like Jessica Yaniv--
Do they literally say Yaniy doesn't exist, or just try to minimalize as a statistical anomaly?
and just overall the blackpilled nature that unwanted male genitals is extremely offensive to women
TBH unwanted female genitals/boobs would be extremely offensive to me.
You might think 'no' but if some 90yo from a nursing home started flashing you, you'd probably be pretty startled.
Who's to say your startled is somehow less bad than foid startlement from cocks?
It angers the fuck out of me, that no one is entitled to shit. EXCEPT TRANNIES AND THEIR FUCKING PRONOUNS-- this is the one thing (((they))) absolutely are entitled to no matter what.
Eh it's not just trannies:
1) gays in their pride parades are also entitled to flash their dicks to young boys
2) rabbis in their synagogues are also entitled to suck the dicks of baby boys (just make sure to flay the skin as a mohel 1st bro)
TBH gays/trannies are just distractiosn and midbosses, you need to deal with the (((greatest degeneracy))) or else our tolerance of that will always spawn tolerance for lesser degeneracies
18 year olds look very good. Actual prime physically. AOC for marriage should probably be 13-14.
I really can't pin down any particular prime age of attractiveness or prime age of marriage, but I definitely agree with you that it's perfectly fine to marry girls prior to their peak level of attractiveness.
That's actually a great way to be less superficial about marriage, so it's not about how a foid looks at her peak looks but how her personality is at that point.
Who says the best sex you have with your wife, the hottest you think she is, needs to be on your wedding night?
You don't even need to have sex with your wife right away, you could just live together and do things together.
If I had a lifetime ahead of me to have hot steamy sex with my wife then I could live a chaste decade with her from 10-20 tbh.
It's not even "I'd suffer through this so I get sex later" but really it could be it's own reward, because female companionship can be enjoyable without sex.
It's just a LOT more enjoyable if it's a chaste romance IE she's your betrothed and it's only you she'll be fucking LATER, and not the cucked stuff we have now where you're friendzoned and she's fucking chad and whinig about how chad fucks other girls to you while you have blue balls.
Blue balls are only worth suffering through for a girl who's promised herself to you.
Pedocels if you're attracted to children and children alone. Then you're not right in the head.
'right' is subjective, I don't think there's anything objectively bad about preferring one particular group (it's prejudism, but so is heterosexuality or racial preference and I'm fine with those too) it just subjectively doesn't seem conducive to coexistence with our monoamorist ideals
basically wouldn't hurt girls who dump guys so fast they don't get dumped for puberty, ironically has 0% to hurt mean girls who dump pedos for chad
but it would hurt the nice girls who actually pair-bond to a guy and want to live the rest of their life with him, I'm worried about the unicorn minority
who gives a fuck about the age of consent other than someone who wants to fuck literal toddlers
toddlers are 1~3 years old, that's close enough to wanting to fuck babies it usually gets lumped in with nepiophilia rather than pedophilia
I wouldn't classify 4~7 as toddlers, they don't toddle when they walk
Also 8~15 aren't pre-pubescent (they're mid-pubescent) but they're also undeer AOC and it gets wrongly lumped in with pedophilia if you want to fuck them
some invent alternate prefixes like hebe-/ephebo- which I guess is good if it discourages pedo- but I don't really like the idea of implying they're paraphilias at all TBH since they're healthy normal impulses
I swear some of you will probably abolish AOC and fuck babies if you could.
IRL babies are basically sub-puppy intelligence/knowledge so I'm not sure what the appeal of that would be.
but like... if it was a 30 year old woman's personality trapped in a baby's body by drinking a magic formula and she was sassy and independent and can speak in unbroken english and bully me?
I dunno bro, I'm open-minded enough to fuck a Gnome shortstack from WOW (or Yordel in LOL) and that's essentially what Staci is so... can't say I'd rule it out since I'm having trouble thinking of why it would be immoral to let her lie back and have her way with me
There's definitely enough of a size/power imbalance it'd be unsettling and worrying to put yourself in the position of the the pursuer though
Staci's not really a traditional baby though she's like a scifi type of thing where she's adultified in her speech/mannerisms so she loses the aspects of actual babies which would repulse you. She's basically the equivalent of how furries get anthropomorphized where you want to fuck them despite being repulsed at the idea of fucking most IRL animals because they are imbued with sapient elements of human adults
What is the benefit of the AOC to an incel?
You cannot provide an uncucked answer.
I want to ask out a 15 year old Becky who got rejected when Chad asked Stacy to the dance instead of her.
I want to go watch a nice movie together and maybe our fingers touch when we share some popcorn.
I want to give her the chance to see me and fall for my personality.
I realize 99.9% likelihood she cheats on me with Chad, so you might call it cucked buy my eyes are open to this possibility going in so it's not actually cucked when I'm aware of that risk.
Make no mistake, it's cucked for an incel to be in any way defensive of foids. They give you nothing in return. We are not the state.
I pine for female companionship that it would be it's own reward even if it's disingenuous and she cheats w/ Chad
if I just assume this will be the case it's like an Escort but LARPing a GF experience