Self Pity Myth?

[Heathcheshire]

Trying to think more positive lately and smile more. Be more confident.

A lad I know told me that it is pointless. That women only respond to height, build and facial bone structure rather than behaviour and character.

That self-pity is a symptom of women not responding to a lad based on these physical traits. Rather than the cause of my lack of success.

Is he right?

 

[InceldianWarrior]

He's mostly right but it's still better to be positive if you can.

 

[Left4DeadKoala]

Is he right?

 

[Emba]

Self pity is real

 

[Limitcel]

As long as you're alive you have to keep your chin up, don't let these normies walk all over you
But it's true that none of this will really change the view women have of you, those who can do it don't even bother to "try".

 

[Suicidal Schizoid]

Your internal feelings are irrelevant if they're not visible

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

yes GrAY

there is no point being confident it is dumb + fake

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

confidence is not real looks are real

 

[lifesucksandyoudie]

Better to self pity than have others pity you