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Brutal Self Improvement Is Cowardly and Low IQ (And What You Should Be Doing Instead)

not all self improve is equal
for example learning 5 languages and taking many showers are not exactly blackpill-dimension maxxings and they will not give you pussy 100%
however there are 2 things that are completely physical in terms of improoving: food and gym
foodsmax is very important, and i`m not talking about just eating much protein or having low body fat, its much deeper than that
gym is mandatory cause through history men interacted with tools and gears and that required having some muscular strentgth, nowadays the heaviest stuff we lift are computer mouse and grocery bags
i`m not stating that for a trucel diet and gym will turn him visible to foids, hell no, still never began
but these might improve smv from 0 to some and then give better life quality through respect from normie scum
Yeah
 
Didn't read, but I agree with you nigger
 
I said this a thousand times.

Foids want a self-destructive, drug-addicted Chad, not some betabuxxer who counts calories.
 
true this is why I don't partake in wealthmaxxing, unless I had a really good opportunity .

imagine having to spend years studymaxxing hard( which I absolutely hate), and then busting my ass and kissing the ass of some normie boss just to "climb the ladder" :feelsgah: this whole careermaxxing sounds absolutely disgusting to me, especially knowing how cucked and feministic the society is you will pay so much taxes to support jewkraine and roastie blown out single mothers :feelswhat:

I would rather do shit that I at least enjoy in my prime youth years, not support and participate in this leftie clown world society :feelswhat:

I laugh at these boomers who start to "travel around the world" once they retire, and are fossils who can barely walk:feelsgah: busting ass all your life for this :feelsgah:
 
By neglecting the present, you are only bringing yourself closer to death.
What good will the present do you if the present life you lead is unfufilling? You haven't even considered that have you? You have to be either privileged enough to enjoy the current life you have or you're either too stupid to realize the destitute circumstances you live. However I'm leaning more towards the latter because I've noticed that most users on here aren't living decent lives.

I have nothing to lose. If it weren't for the fact that I am attempting to leave this life behind, I would have killed myself already. This is because the present life I have is not a life I'd like to sustain. I can't just delude myself either, even back when I was retreating from reality by playing video games, in the back of my mind there was a part of me nudging me constantly reminding me of my failure.
This is why I despise the cope that "men age like wine" and "life for men only really starts after 30". Because it's little consolation to me if my life is a little better if I have to enjoy it as a boomer, while young chads in the confidence of their youths are living their lives to their fullest.
Life isn't about what we want, it's about what we can get. I wish I could have enjoyed my youth indulging in my ideal hedonistic lust but I can't. Now I have to contend with enjoying those pleasures after my mid 30s. The more you focus on the path you could have had the more you distract yourself from the path you would have gotten.
 
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while young chads in the confidence of their youths are living their lives to their fullest
The thing you don’t understand is that you are not young chad

chad this , chad that , chad can chad bla,

I’am not him ,

you’re like a meerkat in the savanna constantly complaining about the existence of lion , no matter how you bitch about it , you’re not a lion and you must find the best way to enjoy yourself as a meerkat

Self improvement for foids is a waste of time

Moneymaxxing will never betray an incel because that’s your only option
 
What good will the present do you if the present life you lead is unfufilling? You haven't even considered that have you? You have to be either privileged enough to enjoy the current life you have or you're either too stupid to realize the destitute circumstances you live. However I'm leaning more towards the latter because I've noticed that most users on here aren't living decent lives.

I have nothing to lose. If it weren't for the fact that I am attempting to leave this life behind, I would have killed myself already.

Life isn't about what we want, it's about what we can get. I wish I could have enjoyed my youth indulging in my ideal hedonistic lust but I can't. Now I have to contend with enjoying those pleasures after my mid 30s. The more you focus on the path you could have had the more you distract yourself from the path you would have gotten.
This

Enjoy my youth :feelskek:

nigga I CANNOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
I'm gonna go all out on debtmaxxing, drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing, everything I can to live a better life NOW at the expense of cutting out those worthless boomer years I don't even want anyway
all of those things will bring you more pain than ever :

-Good luck getting chase by bailiff
-LDARmaxxing make me miserable as fuck and is boring
Drug to do what? , lay on your bed all day

All these idea are stupid , those things will not even kill you , just make your shit life even more complicated.


I respect incel who don’t want to moneymaxx if they do one thing :
kill themselves ( well this life sucks ass, I check out )

Very few incel have the balls to kill themselves so that means you are gonna live long even with drugs ,

JFL if you think drugs are gonna kill you quickly except for overdose
 
Self improvement is essentially surrendering the present by deferring hopes for fulfillment towards an unspecified future date. The idea is that although you have to grind for the time being, hopefully your investment will be rewarded with a brighter future. The fundamental problem with this is that it assumes that if unchanged, the quality of your life in the future will be the same now. However, in reality your time is a limited and depreciating asset. By neglecting the present, you are only bringing yourself closer to death. In this sense, self improvement is actually suicide. Furthermore, any gains you make will be negated by the fact that you are older and your body is breaking down, and you will also have less time to enjoy what you labored for.

This is why I despise the cope that "men age like wine" and "life for men only really starts after 30". Because it's little consolation to me if my life is a little better if I have to enjoy it as a boomer, while young chads in the confidence of their youths are living their lives to their fullest. I don't care if I am gonna out earn them at some point. At some point, everything you do means fuckall. Everything feels a million times better when you are young. The sex young chads are having is a million times more pleasurable than the sex looksmaxxed moneymaxxed boomers are having.

I don't actually think that the idea of mortgaging some of your time to make the rest better is necessarily a bad idea. But it's retarded to give away your BEST time, the only time that actually matters, to make your life as a sterile old boomer a little better. No, instead of worsening your youth for a better later half of your life, you should cauterize your future in exchange for a better present. I don't plan on living to old age. I'm gonna go all out on debtmaxxing, drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing, everything I can to live a better life NOW at the expense of cutting out those worthless boomer years I don't even want anyway.

It's better to live a short but powerful existence than a long drawn out affair full of stale monotony. Because although the first one is short, it is entirely good, whereas the second is just a whole lot of suffering. So why would any sensible person want to grow old? Whose bright idea was it to self improve anyway? I actually think self improvement is cowardice, and arises out of fear for death. These people never truly come to terms with their own mortality, with the fact that all of life ends in tragedy, so they can never embrace life and live each day to the fullest. But ironically, their avoidance of the inevitable end only brings them closer to it, though they can't see.
I mean broccoli haired zoomer faggot males are having sex at 13 meanwhile soys cope with the fact that "men's lives start at 30" :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha: big fucking heap of bullshit right there
 
i'm almost 32. My life is already over tbh. As far as im concerned I died a few years ago. I've no childhood, no teens and no 20's. I'll never get those years back. And nothing will change no matter my efforts either. The sooner i die the better.
 
No. I like to walk/jog max so I can lose weight. I also like to moneymaxx.

If I am not doing either of those, I am drinking and doing drugs.
 
Everything a man does in his life serves to improve his well being. Well technically I'm just a vessel for my genes, but as antinatalist I rejected that. I lived years inbetween suicide and tryharding. It was hell. So I had to really rule out thoughts about roping since I failed to do so when I was far stronger mentally that I am now.

Improving is pointless unless it betters your living. It was easier when we were monke. Food, sleep, sex, shelter. We have it covered nowadays and can move on to higher tiers of Maslov Pyramid of needs. Oh wait :feelsclown:
 
I'm too low IQ to self improve. Can't even quit porn.
 
Self improvement
is essentially surrendering the present by deferring hopes for fulfillment towards an unspecified future date. The idea is that although you have to grind for the time being, hopefully your investment will be rewarded with a brighter future. The fundamental problem with this is that it assumes that if unchanged, the quality of your life in the future will be the same now. However, in reality your time is a limited and depreciating asset. By neglecting the present, you are only bringing yourself closer to death. In this sense, self improvement
is actually suicide.
:feelskek:
Yes self improvement is a cringey obsession as done in hopes of attracting a female with the personality and competence of a tree stump. But water, being better is better.
the only self-improvement that is worth it in the long run is ogremaxxing so you can scare the shit out of toilets at night
 
Self improvement is essentially surrendering the present by deferring hopes for fulfillment towards an unspecified future date. The idea is that although you have to grind for the time being, hopefully your investment will be rewarded with a brighter future. The fundamental problem with this is that it assumes that if unchanged, the quality of your life in the future will be the same now. However, in reality your time is a limited and depreciating asset. By neglecting the present, you are only bringing yourself closer to death. In this sense, self improvement is actually suicide. Furthermore, any gains you make will be negated by the fact that you are older and your body is breaking down, and you will also have less time to enjoy what you labored for.

You're assuming that any investment now can't possibly pay off significantly in a better quality of life later. How do you know this? Is there nobody like you who has made a better life for themselves?

This is why I despise the cope that "men age like wine" and "life for men only really starts after 30". Because it's little consolation to me if my life is a little better if I have to enjoy it as a boomer, while young chads in the confidence of their youths are living their lives to their fullest. I don't care if I am gonna out earn them at some point. At some point, everything you do means fuckall. Everything feels a million times better when you are young. The sex young chads are having is a million times more pleasurable than the sex looksmaxxed moneymaxxed boomers are having.

I don't actually think that the idea of mortgaging some of your time to make the rest better is necessarily a bad idea. But it's retarded to give away your BEST time, the only time that actually matters, to make your life as a sterile old boomer a little better. No, instead of worsening your youth for a better later half of your life, you should cauterize your future in exchange for a better present. I don't plan on living to old age. I'm gonna go all out on debtmaxxing, drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing, everything I can to live a better life NOW at the expense of cutting out those worthless boomer years I don't even want anyway.

It's better to live a short but powerful existence than a long drawn out affair full of stale monotony. Because although the first one is short, it is entirely good, whereas the second is just a whole lot of suffering. So why would any sensible person want to grow old?

"drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing" doesn't sound so powerful to me. I don't want to get old either, but dying in your 30s of an OD or early onset heart disease sounds like a shitty reason to die early.

Whose bright idea was it to self improve anyway? I actually think self improvement is cowardice, and arises out of fear for death. These people never truly come to terms with their own mortality, with the fact that all of life ends in tragedy, so they can never embrace life and live each day to the fullest. But ironically, their avoidance of the inevitable end only brings them closer to it, though they can't see.

Not fear of death; acceptance of it. We're trying to make the most of the life we have. And accepting death's inevitability is a good first step to extinguishing your fear of it, because it's pointless to fear something you can't avoid. Of course, all humans fear death. But that's a feeling that can be worked on.
 
Amazing post. I've wasted my entire youth self improving and it got me nothing. Though I doubt I could have enjoyed myself anyhow.

Another big issue with self improvement is that eventually over time everyone does it so the bar is raised for everyone, what used to be a small advantage becomes a prerequisite.
 
I think that if the self improvement activity genuinely brings you joy, then it’s a double edged sword and may actually improve your life in the moment and future. But I could just be coping:smonk:
You could be coping. Or maybe OP is. Not all life has to end in tragedy, but if that belief is what makes OP feel better, gets him to do debtmaxxing, drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing, and everything else, then more power to him. But it's not the same for everyone :feelscomfy:
 
Most things that will improve your future will also improve your present.
Underrated reply. The things that improve your future are usually ones that either feel good almost immediately (like sleeping enough), or make your time feel more meaningful. At least personally, when I dive into the copes that are just an easy dopamine rush, I start feeling just numb - not even pleasant. We all need to find out balance where we're blackpilled enough not to slave away, but also take the correct steps for our life. If only we could be infinitely wise at birth so that we wouldn't do all that stupid shit which we regret later on.

Keep in mind that by drugmaxxing and not doing truly fulfilling copes, you're aging faster - chronological age and biological age aren't the same thing. By the time you rope (for example, at 40), you'll feel way older. Sadly, that's unavoidable to some extent - our lack of external valdiation causes us to age faster and we can't do anything about it. Religionmaxxing may actually help avoid the negative effects of that, though.
 
Self improvement is essentially surrendering the present by deferring hopes for fulfillment towards an unspecified future date. The idea is that although you have to grind for the time being, hopefully your investment will be rewarded with a brighter future. The fundamental problem with this is that it assumes that if unchanged, the quality of your life in the future will be the same now. However, in reality your time is a limited and depreciating asset. By neglecting the present, you are only bringing yourself closer to death. In this sense, self improvement is actually suicide. Furthermore, any gains you make will be negated by the fact that you are older and your body is breaking down, and you will also have less time to enjoy what you labored for.

This is why I despise the cope that "men age like wine" and "life for men only really starts after 30". Because it's little consolation to me if my life is a little better if I have to enjoy it as a boomer, while young chads in the confidence of their youths are living their lives to their fullest. I don't care if I am gonna out earn them at some point. At some point, everything you do means fuckall. Everything feels a million times better when you are young. The sex young chads are having is a million times more pleasurable than the sex looksmaxxed moneymaxxed boomers are having.

I don't actually think that the idea of mortgaging some of your time to make the rest better is necessarily a bad idea. But it's retarded to give away your BEST time, the only time that actually matters, to make your life as a sterile old boomer a little better. No, instead of worsening your youth for a better later half of your life, you should cauterize your future in exchange for a better present. I don't plan on living to old age. I'm gonna go all out on debtmaxxing, drugmaxxing, LDARmaxxing, everything I can to live a better life NOW at the expense of cutting out those worthless boomer years I don't even want anyway.

It's better to live a short but powerful existence than a long drawn out affair full of stale monotony. Because although the first one is short, it is entirely good, whereas the second is just a whole lot of suffering. So why would any sensible person want to grow old? Whose bright idea was it to self improve anyway? I actually think self improvement is cowardice, and arises out of fear for death. These people never truly come to terms with their own mortality, with the fact that all of life ends in tragedy, so they can never embrace life and live each day to the fullest. But ironically, their avoidance of the inevitable end only brings them closer to it, though they can't see.
ur goals, as a man

are to get ripped

get a lot of money (own businesses, gain influence etc)

fuck escorts (dating as a sub5 is cucked)

live away from the west and ideally live in SEA or another shithole and be above the law :feelsLSD::feelsLSD:
 
couldn't be explained better , a lot of incels do what is so called self improvement and are still fucking miserable
 

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