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Seeing things through other perspective is a waste of time. there is a saying "put yourself in my shoes". It means to make an effort to imagine how you would feel or act if you were in the same situation as a particular person. This is pure nonsense and gaslighting, because I guarantee that the other person doesn't do the same for you. You can talk to your boss about asking for a dollar raise and he wouldn't give a damn fuck. You can ask a foid for sex and she would reject you because she doesn't give a fuck. I consider the other person's perspective my entire life in every interaction, but they don't give a shit about me. Unlearning seeing things from other person's perspective help me move up in life and forward. It is not my responsibility to give a fuck about another person.
