I don't disagree with you.
A lot of Incels thinks you have to be overly robust and manly to attract women, but however that's further from the truth. A majority of women are actually bi-curious in nature and this usually leads them to being attracted to androgynous like men. On top of these androgynous men, not looking very-threatening, their facial harmony (in-conjunction with having a high-trust face), and usually it looks very inviting to women. Usually, women feel comfortable among each other and this implies that they too feel more comfortable being around androgenic men than high T ogrecels.