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Rising above the fixation on sex and lack of a female in my life

sinclair_silence

sinclair_silence

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Is it possible? As in, to become in both theory and practice, essentially asexual—at least temporarily while we work on getting profitable things done?

My school gave us a few days off for holiday, and I planned to use that time to get ahead on my work. However, this has not been exceptionally successful yet, somewhat on account of what I mentioned in the title. I feel depraved. (Interesting how that's just a vowel different from deprived… might there be connection: DEPRIVATION ––> DEPRAVITY)

I think ER had a quote in his writings something along these lines: "if you can't beat them join them, if you can't join them rise above them." I'm not talking about antagonizing other people it's more about ascending personally… wondering if anyone else has considered this.
 
I stopped really thinking about having relationships with foids after graduating from college (I saw foids there every day). I'm not asexual obviously (I masturbate every day 2-4 times) but it just stopped bothering me.
 
Good luck with that. On a "good day" I feel more or less at peace with my life as it is.
Most days are "good days" now, but I'm 42, and it took me until my late 30s to get there!

If you can get past the Fear of Missing Out and learn to be happy with what you have, there is some chance.
 
I cope by fucking as many high end model tier hooker as I can and binge eating at expensive restaurant
 
Good luck with that. On a "good day" I feel more or less at peace with my life as it is.
Most days are "good days" now, but I'm 42, and it took me until my late 30s to get there!

If you can get past the Fear of Missing Out and learn to be happy with what you have, there is some chance.
I wish man
 
That's cool but once you stop thinking about women then you have to worry about money. Once you stop worrying about money it's about health. Once you stop worrying about that its about property or land. Then its respect from others or power. There's always something.
 
That's cool but once you stop thinking about women then you have to worry about money. Once you stop worrying about money it's about health. Once you stop worrying about that its about property or land. Then its respect from others or power. There's always something.
True, but we have more agency when it comes to these other things. Getting women is entirely dependent on them.
 
True, but we have more agency when it comes to these other things. Getting women is entirely dependent on them.
No nigga. I've tried to get all these things and they are just as hard. Other men hate you as well not just the women and money and everything else comes from either other women or men. I've been disrespected more by men than by women in my life, women just ignore me. But men go out of their way to fuck with me and bring me down. I am still broke even though I had many ideas for making money, because implementing anything in this society is impossible as a truecel. Nobody wants you to win.
 
No nigga. I've tried to get all these things and they are just as hard. Other men hate you as well not just the women and money and everything else comes from either other women or men. I've been disrespected more by men than by women in my life, women just ignore me. But men go out of their way to fuck with me and bring me down. I am still broke even though I had many ideas for making money, because implementing anything in this society is impossible as a truecel. Nobody wants you to win.
You must live in a major white knight place then, because I see even here some incels having achieving good things, especially with private security. And in my experience are whatever about me.

Entrepreneurship is extremely difficult though, regardless of inceldom. Corporatistic society makes it really difficult to grow unless you're already established and can lobby the government (or get really lucky, but this is unrealistic).
 
Shockingly, most of you are still coping by trying to formulate methods to numb the pain of loneliness as opposed to simply embracing it. You probably wouldn't even want a girlfriend if you understood the grim sacrifices involved. Most people are toxic, and their company comes at the cost of your dignity.

If you have homework, do it. What are you waiting for?
I'm only human and my brain wants to be loved. I can't just turn that off without roping
 
Jerk off as much as possible.
 
You must live in a major white knight place then, because I see even here some incels having achieving good things, especially with private security. And in my experience are whatever about me.

Entrepreneurship is extremely difficult though, regardless of inceldom. Corporatistic society makes it really difficult to grow unless you're already established and can lobby the government (or get really lucky, but this is unrealistic).
What things nigger. You talk from your ass.
 

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