i don't typically let people know about my struggles, but somehow and some way somebody was able to infer that I was TFL. word spread among my workplace that I was as such, and the fact eventually was passed on towards this guy whom I work with only on certain days. this dude in particular is originally from africa, and moved to the US when he was in his youth. he doesn't typically speak with ebonics, akin to most african immigrants. back when I first started working there, me and him used to have casual conversations. i liked this aspect of him, mainly because of the fact that the other guys I work with are annoying, overly-animated tyrones. so essentially this guy was an escape from the other retards I work with. this was the case up until he heard about the fact of me being incel/tfl, and eventually approached me with the promise of """""advice"""""
of course it was just low IQ drivel that even a third grade would have a hard time believing.
according to him, looks are strictly subjective and nothing more.
I countered this argument with my own argument of that even though in some capacity this holds water, it's completely bullshit to assume that some balding indian janitor that reads comic books, and stands at the modest height of 5'3" will have the same amount of success as a man whom has a set of physical traits that society deems attractive, and that if you have these attractive traits you are simply more LIKELY to attract the woman whom you find attractive, as opposed to the Indian which the chances go from likely, to near impossible. this is an easily observable reality which can be proved with every popular dating app in existence.
I had to explain this almost five times in different forms because of the fact that he couldn't comprehend something of this fucking simple. and after the fact of understanding it, and realizing how it wasn't something he could debunk with a simple anecdote, he moves the goal post.
"well maybe you haven't been approaching the right way"
I detailed to him that if a girl is not willing to date me because of the WAY I approached her, then she doesn't really like me.
after another goal post movement, he asks me how exactly I can prove to him that what I'm saying is true. I told them that studies have been conducted upon the topic of attractiveness, with the features that typically define an 'attractive' man, or woman.
he completely laughs in my face, and dismisses this as "internet nonsense", and pretty much tells me that I shouldn't be sourcing things from the internet, even if the study did come from an official college website.
I avoid this retard most of the time, completely ignoring him when he speaks at me. I just don't like talking to him anymore knowing that he's that much of an idiot. it's really frustrating to see how fucking blinded normies are.
of course it was just low IQ drivel that even a third grade would have a hard time believing.
according to him, looks are strictly subjective and nothing more.
I countered this argument with my own argument of that even though in some capacity this holds water, it's completely bullshit to assume that some balding indian janitor that reads comic books, and stands at the modest height of 5'3" will have the same amount of success as a man whom has a set of physical traits that society deems attractive, and that if you have these attractive traits you are simply more LIKELY to attract the woman whom you find attractive, as opposed to the Indian which the chances go from likely, to near impossible. this is an easily observable reality which can be proved with every popular dating app in existence.
I had to explain this almost five times in different forms because of the fact that he couldn't comprehend something of this fucking simple. and after the fact of understanding it, and realizing how it wasn't something he could debunk with a simple anecdote, he moves the goal post.
"well maybe you haven't been approaching the right way"
I detailed to him that if a girl is not willing to date me because of the WAY I approached her, then she doesn't really like me.
after another goal post movement, he asks me how exactly I can prove to him that what I'm saying is true. I told them that studies have been conducted upon the topic of attractiveness, with the features that typically define an 'attractive' man, or woman.
he completely laughs in my face, and dismisses this as "internet nonsense", and pretty much tells me that I shouldn't be sourcing things from the internet, even if the study did come from an official college website.
I avoid this retard most of the time, completely ignoring him when he speaks at me. I just don't like talking to him anymore knowing that he's that much of an idiot. it's really frustrating to see how fucking blinded normies are.
