ITcucks always say that we're like this because we're "hateful" but do they actually think we were born that way? How many children are born into this world thinking "I'm gonna hate women for absolutely no reason!" Incels are a product of society.
Why didn't incels exist before the digital age? Because back then, you'd have to be literally deformed in order to qualify as one. (Even then, you could still get a wife if you were rich and her father choose to marry his daughter off to you) However, in the world we live in now, women have all the power. They are freely allowed to date whoever they want out of thousands upon thousands of potential choices. There are no longer any consequences for divorce and infidelity, so hypergamy is practically encouraged.
It's funny, they like to say "getting a girlfriend won't fix all of your problems!" but in my situation, it would. It would motivate me to become a better person, it would give me something to live for. Humans are social animals, developing relationships is just a natural part of who we are. We're just not meant to be alone our whole lives. In fact, there have been a number of studies supporting the idea that relationships not only benefit mental health, but physical health as well:
www.umass.edu
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news.ubc.ca
These are just three articles, I could probably dig up a lot more but I don't want to waste anyone's time trying to prove what everyone here already knows. I don't enjoy being angry and hateful all the time, I don't enjoy the fact that I'm just an empty shell who just wears a fucking mask all the time and pretends that everything is fine. I just wanted to to know that I can be desired by someone, that I'm not just an ugly autist who never should have been born. When I was still religious, (before I realized it's just a bunch of feel-good bullshit) I prayed to God every night, begging him to give me *one* girl who loves me for who I am, who I can spend the rest of my life with. I didn't become like this overnight, it was years of bullying, isolation and psychological torment that molded me into this—whatever this is.
I've tried all the bullshit copes in the playbook: therapy, medication, taking care of my hygiene, thinking positively, putting myself out there, but none of it worked because I was destined to fail from the very beginning. But according to IT foids could sense my awful personality even though I never even hated when I was still bluepilled. According to them, I deserved to be treated like literal dogshit by every single foid I've met.
Why didn't incels exist before the digital age? Because back then, you'd have to be literally deformed in order to qualify as one. (Even then, you could still get a wife if you were rich and her father choose to marry his daughter off to you) However, in the world we live in now, women have all the power. They are freely allowed to date whoever they want out of thousands upon thousands of potential choices. There are no longer any consequences for divorce and infidelity, so hypergamy is practically encouraged.
It's funny, they like to say "getting a girlfriend won't fix all of your problems!" but in my situation, it would. It would motivate me to become a better person, it would give me something to live for. Humans are social animals, developing relationships is just a natural part of who we are. We're just not meant to be alone our whole lives. In fact, there have been a number of studies supporting the idea that relationships not only benefit mental health, but physical health as well:
Supportive Partners Protect Relationship Quality in People with Depression or External Stress | UMass Amherst
Having a responsive, supportive partner minimizes the negative impacts of an individual’s depression or external stress on their romantic relationship, according to research by a UMass Amherst social psychologist.
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Smelling your lover’s shirt could improve your sleep - UBC News
The scent of a romantic partner can improve sleep, suggests new psychology research from the University of British Columbia.
These are just three articles, I could probably dig up a lot more but I don't want to waste anyone's time trying to prove what everyone here already knows. I don't enjoy being angry and hateful all the time, I don't enjoy the fact that I'm just an empty shell who just wears a fucking mask all the time and pretends that everything is fine. I just wanted to to know that I can be desired by someone, that I'm not just an ugly autist who never should have been born. When I was still religious, (before I realized it's just a bunch of feel-good bullshit) I prayed to God every night, begging him to give me *one* girl who loves me for who I am, who I can spend the rest of my life with. I didn't become like this overnight, it was years of bullying, isolation and psychological torment that molded me into this—whatever this is.
I've tried all the bullshit copes in the playbook: therapy, medication, taking care of my hygiene, thinking positively, putting myself out there, but none of it worked because I was destined to fail from the very beginning. But according to IT foids could sense my awful personality even though I never even hated when I was still bluepilled. According to them, I deserved to be treated like literal dogshit by every single foid I've met.
